Preety_India

We live in times which are much harder in terms of competition, as compared to the past, because of a general rise in narcissism, as well much stronger versions of success psyche created by stage Orange materialism.

@Proserpina I used to like his journals.

@Eternal Unity you can delete it yourself. Look above where it's written moderator action and click hide. Then poof!

@Joseph Maynor why don't you come back on the forum again?

@Leo Gura really love this. Was waiting for this. Thanks. Will watch it right away.

I understand practicing spirituality involves application of higher spiritual insights. But I've observed that core psychological concepts such as personality disorders, narcissism and related human psyche patterns and behaviors are looked down on and even dismissed in most spiritual societies and circles. I'll give you an example to illustrate this. ☛ let's see that I'm facing an issue with someone who suffers bipolar disorder or NPD and if I talk about it to a spiritualist, trying to find a solution, first off the language of the spiritualist is generally very wishy washy and the answer would be along the lines of something like "this is ☛ your ego, it's creating these labels. There is no narcissist. Your ego created it for separation. Love the narcissist. Embrace them. Don't label. There are no labels. " Do you see the problem here? I don't consider this as an evolved matured perspective. If it all it looks bland, lacking in subtlety and comprehension of deeper elements at play. You see that psychologists have worked hard for centuries and developed many tests to understand and differentiate functional and destructive behaviors. They weren't crazy. This is objective science based on observable characteristics and such definitions and labels help in finding appropriate ways of tackling complex problems. So for example for the above scenario, if I were to approach a psychologist, they would carefully study the case, might even employ certain tests to arrive at conclusions and diagnoses and recommend appropriate and time tested solutions to deal with the problem. Isn't psychology a vital part of understanding human behavior?this is especially observed in Eastern spirituality where even a mention of core of psychology concepts doesn't exist. Every problem is only looked at from a spiritual angle and psychological understanding is completely missing On the other hand, a similar phenomenon is observed with psychologists who fail to grasp spiritual issues and concepts and operate primarily from a regurgitated psychological standpoint, they get too clinical about things and completely misread cues that might indicate signs of spiritual void or spiritual struggle in the client. I don't think that spirituality and psychology at their base are in any way in conflict with each other and as such in my opinion, all differences and conflicts are merely perceived to exist. If I had to choose a therapist it would have to be someone who at least has a cursory understanding of key spiritual insights and concepts and ties them into their subject of psychological study and inference and not only helps diagnose psychological conditions but also offers spiritual advice as a side therapy. I would consider it more wholesome and call it holistic psychology. Now look above at Leo's logo bar and you see actualization, philosophy, psychology and spirituality all put together. I believe that true actualization can only happen when you integrate all schools of thought.

I think the full format is in leocentric or daily forum log. I'll have to keep posting the format multiple times. I'm really getting all of this together. It's all coming together finally and I need to move on from here. ?

Yep Finally time to get things going.

@Moksha yes I agree that science can be very reductive. But I do believe there is a bright future for science and as such I won't give up on it. I also don't want to take logic and rationality for granted as they are essential for proper functioning and survival. My idea of living is that I tend to integrate every little thing with an open generous non judgmental attitude and test it empirically to see how useful it can be and optimizing it for survival So I get the best of all worlds and regret nothing.

You need to have thoroughly developed self protection mechanisms.

Always wanted to write on this.

Today my interaction in the forum was fruitful and I was very careful.

Not a dating expert but my experience was my teacher.

@Moksha astrology is a very firm science. Nothing pseudo about it. My father's astrologist had predicted his stroke and it happened just the way the astrologist had said. I was told an important event would take place on 25 December 2008. An important event in my life happened that day. This was reverse prophecy, that is it was said after the event, however nobody had knowledge of the event except me. So self fulfilling cannot be the case. Come to India and learn astrology. It's a beautiful mysterious science.

He is good at narration

By having a vision board or a plan.

@Someone here maybe try sleeping pills in the beginning till you get the habit and then you can gradually stop the meds. That's what my mom did.

@Someone here is there some fear like covid anxiety?

@Preety_India now the next step is to build yourself back. To make yourself stronger. In this regard you'll need to focus on a lot of different things. That would be a part of rigorous self empowerment. I will call it MM. One statement to say to yourself is " you deserve this " Think of all the opportunity cost lost in spending your energy defending yourself against trolls. Within the same amount of time you could build valuable useful and supportive relationships. You could learn from these valuable relationships. Learn a lot of things. Plus you could learn from other sources like books. These relationships could build up to become useful in time. Build yourself up. Plus be extremely careful this time since you have blocked a lot of people. Build up your skills. Show your fangs. The only way good people can survive is by waking up from slumber and turning into a juggernaut and becoming empowered, extremely empowered. You beat the system so nothing beats you. Think of Michael Jordan. Yes the pressure is very high but it's way better that way. At the highest seat, God is waiting for you. The answer does not lie in being polite. The answer lies in being tough. Kick in the gut. This training should be given to all good people. This is the only way humble people can survive. These are the supplementary things that you need to be doing to build up your arsenal apart from having strict boundaries and standards. The tougher, the higher, the better. You raise your vibration and you raise your value and quality. And why not? You're a gift of God. And so are all good people. You absolutely deserve it. Keep preaching. Think of Mainstream media. It's a juggernaut. It has turned out beautiful. It has turned into a Mega corporation!!! Now who can stop it. All good people have to be a part of it. Only then do you come to the highest seat of protection or else you die down in the gladiator fight. Join the mainstream. Think of Megalodon In this case, the core things that you need to focus on are. ~ manipulation ~ Machiavellianism ~ Supremacy ~ empowerment ~ MM ~ excellence ~ unbeatability ~ toughness and support ~ learning, knowledge and skill ~ being a strategic motherfucker ~ digging all rabbit holes ~chaotic growth. Think of Hailey's comet. ~ juggernaut ~self esteem building ~high productivity ~ the ability to remain unimpacted and forward focus ~ faith in God ~ belief in miracles ~ dragon energy ~ laser focus ~ passion and purpose ~ loyal friends ~ removing and deleting unhelpful elements. Time wasters and energy wasters. Remember boundaries. Even if someone gives you something as constructive, and or presents it that way , if it's unhelpful and your intuition is already telling you that its unhelpful then simply say no and reject it entirely. Don't care for rules. ~ maturity. Intellectual and emotional ~ say no firmly and outrightly. Without guilt or shame. If someone says you have to do this but if you don't like it, tell them straight that you won't do it even if they are trying to control you. Even if they persist. Say no straight up. And say " I don't like it and so I won't do it. " you have to prove nothing. You owe nothing. You are bounded by nothing. Understand this natural freedom. This freedom is a great supporter and advantage, a great privilege that the Satan can only envy, because Satan can do everything in the world but cannot kill freedom. Loser guy. So when you fully exercise this freedom,you're showing your PERSONAL POWER. I'll do it my way, my way and only my way. The Satan will only keep watching helplessly, frustrated and in disgust. You can laugh because its your time. ~dont give energy and attention to satan .they die in ennui. ~ be yourself but also integrate and experiment different temporary integrations. See how it feels in each role ~ propelling forward ~~

. Need to focus on this a lot more often.

@Preety_India today I blocked a lot of people and felt way better and free .blocked people who were passing trollish comments and trying to get on my nerves.

There should be a separation between the meanings of love. Romantic love is very different from unconditional human love.

I don't think this is practically possible. If I were approached by 30 men or less, I would find some compatibility with at least a few of them. Haha. If you approached 1000s, you will find many compatible matches. By your logic, nobody would have been in relationships. Don't think so negatively. You'll find great matches if you have a positive attitude.

@Tim R its also a lot of stuff which is in my oldest journals. All my insights over the past 3 years combined equivalent of 20,000 posts.

I'm writing books on spirituality.