Preety_India

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  1. @Harikrishnan it doesn't seem like that to me It seems REAL. Nobody will play such games.
  2. @Shin don't guilt yourself. @Sleyker @Michael569 you both need to chill with the detective attitude. The guy committed suicide because he wanted to find his way that way. It's over. It's that simple. I wish he had found the right kind of help.
  3. @SoonHei I am sorry for the tragic loss in your family. Hope your family can find strength in this time.
  4. Very sad to hear. He was a very funny guy. Used to post funny stuff, puzzles and jokes Hope his family finds peace. RIP @SoonHei
  5. Very sad to hear. He was a very funny guy. Used to post funny stuff, puzzles and jokes Hope his family finds peace. RIP @SoonHei
  6. @Tetcher it's about trauma not vendetta.
  7. I have been attracted to guys who weren't my type physically. I focused more on their values and integrity. All that mattered was if the guy was a real man and respectful.
  8. What are the symptoms of SIBO?
  9. In my deepest emotional moments, I have felt as though my soul has left my body. It has felt surreal. Like I existed in another time long long ago and my spirit roamed this free space between humans and the world. My spirit was searching for something. Maybe a lost lover .... Or maybe my lost self.
  10. @Tetcher history is passed down through ancestors.
  11. @Consept no I'm not with them
  12. Be grateful for life.
  13. @Tetcher she could be suffering from generational trauma. Slavery was long ago. Doesn't mean modern generation black people don't carry the scars and trauma
  14. @cookiemonster I was commenting very superficially to the video. Yes I maybe a bit ignorant on the Gaza conflict issue, but his outrageous reaction, almost screaming from the top of his lungs doesn't help his case What caused my trigger happy reaction was calling the woman's tears crocodile tears when she could be genuinely distressed and using words like"holocaust card" is very offensive and can easily be interpreted as downplaying the sufferings of Jews. And a lot of racist people come up with defenses like "I've a black friend, or I could be associated with blacks," however such justifications do not make the actions or comments less racist. In this case, the guy should come from a place of respect if he wants the audience to take his point seriously. He is deliberately destroying his own cause by using language that is insinuating rather than pacifying. So my trigger happy reaction kinda stays Not a good candidate for making people understand the two sides better by disowning the sufferings of one side
  15. @Leo Gura what about probiotic drinks like yakult ? Do they replace the bad bacteria? There's isn't much information on probiotics with people having very mixed reactions.
  16. Looks like he is ranting or a mental breakdown. He is okaying the sufferings of Jews, almost downplaying it by not acknowledging it.
  17. Yea but the example is just wrong. You're equating ugly in terms of looks to ugly in terms of character, heaven and hell difference with no correlation. A mother loving her child unconditionally is the same as a lover loving his partner unconditionally. You completely missed my point. Even though it's romantic love, it is still a form of love and lovers can stay lovers till eternity. Just like the unconditional love of the mother. You're quick to give the example of the unconditional love of a mother while comparing ugly and beautiful in semantic ways whereas you use this confusing analogy to a completely different situation where acceptance is not to be expected from a woman who is being abandoned by a man (because he lost interest in her) but acceptance is required of the man in accepting the woman he is in love with. It's like you're using the right example to explain a wrong situation. The behaviour of someone who is being superficial is not to be accepted because it's not a reciprocation of unconditional love. Unconditional love in a relationship exists on both ends or else it becomes dysfunctional. Your point is that you want the woman to accept the man's behaviour and exhibit unconditional love in such acceptance. But your blind spot is that you've in the same breath failed to apply the same discourse to the man. If she is expected to show unconditional love in terms of reaction, he needs to show unconditional love in terms of action. This is like a sinner will keep sinning with no accountability meanwhile the onus of forgiveness is only on the forgiver. But when it comes to values and principles, it applies to everyone fairly and equally, none is exempt from it, so from your point of view, you only hold the woman accountable for showing exemplary love, but not the man, which is sorta hypocritical and a tad bit patriarchal in my opinion,to be so heavy handed when it comes to judging what a woman should exhibit but completely lenient when it comes to a man In an unconditional loving relationship,it's the duty of both to achieve such a state, not the obligation of merely one party, that's why I said that to create a beautiful bond, both have to get rid of their ugliness, in accepting a woman for who she is (when a man claims to love her), he is getting rid of his ugliness and bringing his beautiful side and she brings her beautiful side by equally reciprocating his love. In unconditional love there is no place for ugly and this does not mean in terms of appearance but values and principles. In unconditional love, we exhibit our best versions and not our ugly versions. The kind of acceptance that you're speaking of is submission not love, love co-creates. Submission is a form of passivity towards another's actions, which arises from low self worth. It's called putting up with bullshit in the name of love, disguised as acceptance. It's a weakness of character, not a sign of virtue.
  18. On May 16 I had slight back pain for nearly an hour. After that it was gone.
  19. SO FINALLY TODAY IS HERE. EVERYTHING IS PRETTY MUCH DEALT WITH. I DID A BIT OF PSYCHOEMOTIONAL PROCESSING IN THE LAST FEW WEEKS AND THAT TOOK CARE OF SOME OF THE ISSUES I HAD BEEN DEALING WITH THAT WAS REALLY INTERRUPTING MY WORK. IT OPENED A PANDORA'S BOX ACTUALLY. IT HELPED ME TO GET THINGS OFF MY CHEST AND EVEN RECOGNISE CERTAIN PROBLEMS THAT I WAS UNAWRE OF. FOUR THINGS THAT YOU NEED TO DO WHEN YOU SCAN YOUR ENVIRONMENT PSYCHOEMOTIONAL PROCESSING (IMPORTANT TO HAVE A CLEAR MENTAL SPACE LIKE A FRESH CLEAN SLATE) STUDY BEHAVIOURAL COMPONENT IN YOUR IMMEDIATE ENVIRONMENT INTEGRATION(INTEGRATING ALL THE LEARNING YOU RECEIVED, INTERNALISE USEFUL THINGS) CONSOLIDATION (BRINGING EVERYTHING TOGETHER TO CREATE A MEANINGFUL FLOW IN LIFE)
  20. Will share my insights on social issues.
  21. Is he suffering Stockholm Syndrome? This is probably the craziest thing I witnessed on this forum.
  22. A new theme
  23. List in terms of strength of attachment Vxs Wrett Moonwolf
  24. I think about you all the time.
  25. Vxs - I'll love you until I take my last breath on this earth.