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What truly makes me happy? Its the combination of Vaishaivya and Shaivyath that makes me truly happy. To me qualities matter a lot.

What truly makes me happy? Its the combination of Vaishaivya and Shaivyath that makes me truly happy. To me qualities matter a lot.

I find Shaukat so cute.

After travelling the whole world, merry go round, I am finally attracted to Indian dude lol. Surprise..

I never engaged in casual sex. If I imagine myself doing it, it feels very inauthentic to me, it appears hedonistic to me and it feels like it will compromise my moral integrity and mess with my moral compass because I can't have sex with someone just for sex. I want full emotional connection and authentically love someone and form a solid relationship as I have always done with my past boyfriends. So I'm not open to it as of yet. You're right that I shouldn't judge or moralize others who partake in it. Yet I can't imagine myself doing it as it feels shallow, cheap and devoid of complete authentic relationship to me. It feels like I'm cheating my own morality. But of course this is just me.. I know people don't necessarily think like me

@soos_mite_ah thanks for the input, I appreciate the perspective.

In the absence of the Snake, Shiva takes care of the peacock.

So my story goes like this.. This is not traditional Hindu story. It's my own invention of concepts and fusing Hindu symbols into it Plot...... The Snake seduces the Peacock. The peacock gets into trouble. The Snake acts cheap and moves away. But when it sees an injured peacock, it jumps into Action It invokes Kali and once that happens it grabs the Trishul from Shiva and kills the Devil and achieves Maharath. And in its Vaishaivya it attains Shaivyath. It impresses the peacock and Shiva and the mountains and God himself This is its true exaltation from Snake to Naga, the multiheaded Snake.

So I created the following representations There are many elements in this complex There is Shiva... Represents Maharath or true character potential and Soul/Spirit force born from true character. Authenticity. Also Masculinity. There is Snake - represents seduction and physical /sexual prowess. Attraction. Lust There is Kali - represents protection and defeating evil There is mountain - represents might of Shiva or God or pure power There is trishul - represents true character, molten lava, purity of character and authenticity, mettle, protection of good, true intent, care and loyalty, righteousness, truth. There is peacock - (slightly feminine) represents emotion, innocence, childishness, immaturity, pure of heart and conscience, inability to comprehend evil, foolishness, recklessness and abandon, gentleness, gullibility and mercy. The peacock also represents the Indian feminine aspect.

You aren't right about Indian women. Indian women are very deeply spiritual but they don't have the luxury to open a yoga studio. Also Indian women who are spiritual are very introverted and remain anonymous and away from public and stay away from media. They are like nuns in a monastery They dont speak openly because India is a heavily male dominated culture and if a woman spoke openly about her spiritual practice she will be easily attacked in the media for simply being a woman. India does not treat its women spiritual followers fairly and they are sometimes treated as "less knowledgeable" and a gimmick and or a distraction. So women tend to stay away from openly practicing spirituality and do it in secret. They don't give speeches and rarely do so. Also women in India aren't considered qualified enough to be a Guru, the spiritual field in India is rife with sexism and male worship. So it creates an unfair representation that Indian women might not be spiritual. And the other part is that most Indian women almost 80% struggle with the question of survival and so only focus on getting married to men and submitting to the needs of the patriarchy, mainly bearing and raising children and obeying the Husband. She has little say in family matters, if she takes time out for spirituality then the Husband will divorce her. In contrast, Western women have 90% more freedom than Indian women can imagine in a lifetime. If a western woman opens a yoga studio, her husband will applaud her. If an Indian woman opens a yoga studio, the Indian husband will tell her to go back to the kitchen and serve him good food.

Imagine the trishul that Shiva is carrying The trishul represents character. If the snake around Shiva's neck, attains Maharath, it will take the trishul and throw it at the Devil killing it and attain purification of its character. Till then both the Snake and the Trishul are separated. The snake represents Beauty and the trishul represents character. Trishul remains dormant until it finds an expression through the Snake. The spirit remains dormant until it finds a human body for expression. The spirit remains dormant until it finds expression through the lifeless sculpture. Character /quality is of no use if it cannot transform a flawed person and turn him/her into a jewel. The demons need to go and the flaws need to disappear and the person should turn into a true gem. Even the innocent angelic one has demons of its own, the demons of foolishness and immaturity. These demons are well brought out to the surface by the clever Snake.

It's about beauty and character and charm. Beauty without character is cheap wasted and meaningless. It's without spirit. The sculpture is simply a sculpture But when beauty combines character, the sculpture has suddenly come alive.. It can speak and move. It has a spirit in it. It can sense. Like AI or artificial intelligence coming to life through a robot or a ghost in a machine finally moving the machine. Like a mysterious force. Character without beauty is hidden like latent energy waiting to be expressed.

Vaishaivya is not bad. It has a lot of energy It's like having celebrities. They are powerful in moving crowds of people but without a clear message their potential is wasted. Same goes for art which is powerful but lacking in message or substance Same goes for a drama or a play but without a good storyline, the drama is full of action and glamour but lacking in meaningful content. Only the vibe exists. The substance doesn't. Same goes for nuclear power or any other weapon If used for Petty things, it loses its meaning and versatility. But when used against evil, then it makes perfect sense and meaning. Because now it's put to good use. The same goes for a celebrity or pastor gathering large crowds The delivery is powerful. But if the message is right, then it creates a huge change, can move mountains But if the message petty and cheap, then it's beautiful yet fruitless

Once the Snake has relinquished its inner demons, it is finally ready to take over Shiva So what does God represent God represents both Shiva and kali, both Shiva and Snake. The Shiva part helps to practice celibacy or piousness or innocence (like that of divine angels) and the Snake part helps to point out the aspects that will be used and corrupted by the Devil (the devil is not the same as The Snake or Kali, however the Kali and Snake are well protected from the Devil since the Devil is so drunk and enticed by them that he wants to see how he can use both to bring about evil and keep seducing the Good or Angel and prevent them from defeating Evil) But nah.... The real Snake (not fake Snake) wants exaltation. It won't get bribed by the Devil. It will attain Maharath It is in the child stage or the stage of immaturity. At maturity the Snake understands the Angel side better and invokes Kali's protective instinct. It never gets seduced by the Devil but it acts like a Spy among Devils. In the end the Snake wins against both God and Devil. It defeats The Devil by playing tricks and fooling and blindsiding the Devil It also defeats God and Shiva by attaining Shiva like qualities and not being cheap anymore It attains Maharath And shiva then bows in front of it. And God is impressed by this unbeatable talent of the Snake or Naga.

One is a spell and the other is a prayer. What should be done here? If they combine together, it will be Volcanic. Pure madness. I'll call this seduction Vaishaivya. But this can be devoid of Shiva. I'll say that Shiva is separate from his snake. And eventually Shiva wins and the Snake has to accept defeat. The snake is only tamed by Shiva Although the Snake or Naga is no less tempting But this seduction can easily weaken in front of Shiva that stands stern like a big mountain So Vaishaivya without Shaivyath is cheap and useless and won't last long. It will fizzle at some point. But Vaishaivya with Shaivyath will attain victory over even the greatest Gods. Even Shiva will bow his head in front of the seductive Snake now because this time the seductive Snake has defeated the Mountain like powerful Shiva Even if it's a small snake, it's more powerful than the biggest mountains once it attains Shaivyath. It has become a Maharath now. Or it has achieved Maharath. For this the Snake would need the spirit of Kali who is hiding in the dark - seductive and mysterious and defeater of evil The snake has relinquished its demons and invoked Kali.

I think actions speak louder than words and touch deeper than heart. I think there is a spiritual element to seduction as well. True seduction is a miracle. It is a feat.. It's a connection. It can't come out of nowhere. There's a sensual connection. Don't the senses pacify the spirit as well? No true seduction can ever be free from or devoid of emotion Emotion is needed for seduction. The heart is beating somewhere Two hearts beat as one. And that's why the seduction basically happens. It won't happen otherwise There's a reason why it creates a sensation of butterflies in the heart. On one hand there is seduction On the other hand there is soul. On one hand there is the reptilian brain On the other hand there is a spiritual brain On one hand there is a root and sacral Chakra On the other hand there is the crown Chakra This is a dilemma

But aren't we attracted to fire? Because fire is glamorous. It dazzles the senses. But is it only senses? Or does it touch something deeper? And why shouldn't senses matter?

I think in exhibiting empathy for the majority, sometimes we lose sight of the minority? That's why maybe?

Both soul and seduction carry equal energy. This is the Crux of the problem.. Seduction is like hypnosis and can be very intense to the point of delirium. But the spirit carries equal energy. Who wins in the end is the real question? Spirit or seduction? Was the seduction an illusion? Or was it an innocent self delusion? This is an object of mystery. You can never know. Is seduction born out of pure innocence? What if seduction and spirit combines? Will it be like fire? I think seduction can be compared to fire And spirit can be compared to air or water. Air and Fire. Or Water and Fire.

I'm not delegitimizing the veracity of true accusations. I'm only saying that such things are complicated and innocent men can get trapped in all this Even if the trapped men are a minority, their innocence shouldn't be dismissed or ignored. Although I don't know what the solution for such a thing is, because no system ever delivers perfect solutions.

Can something pretentious be good? Can something primal be good? Can something attractive be good? It's a huge struggle inside of me. Where is peace? Is peace in true love or in fake love? Sometimes pretentious things look good. Those things are seductive But is seduction spiritual? Is seduction emotional? Or is seduction empty and useless? Seduction can be like a drug. Are drugs spiritual?

So the struggle here is between spiritual and primal. Between God and the Beast. Between truth and falsehood Between real and pretense.

I was talking about consent when it comes to matters of kissing and consensual sex. I wasn't talking about rape. I know it's hard to determine whether it was consensual sex or rape and one has to believe the victim 's statements in such case. But there is always that possibility that it wasn't rape but consensual sex and it was turned around to look like rape. This possibility cannot be negated. I know that a lot of rapists go scott free because of lack of evidence or lack of belief. But this can easily become a trap for innocent men who never raped but were framed to look like a rapist. It's just complicated. But my reference was more to situations where clearly a woman is making the man simp for her, playing him along and the dude is not reading anything wrong yet he is vilified as an asshole even if he wasn't acting like one. I wasn't talking about rape because that's a serious problem that needs due diligence.

Of course I have to fall in love with Shiva. That's not necessarily primal but it's spiritual. I will call it Shaivyath or the potential to be like Shiva.

Of course I take the brutal stuff into consideration. But I'm not going to give women the leverage simply because of that. In a particular case, if a woman is wrong then she is wrong. In another case, if a man is wrong then he is wrong I don't like generalizations, of course I understand general statistics. But in such matters, everything is case by case and not all black and white. Nuance is important in matters of dating and man woman relations.