Preety_India

Zindagi toh aisehi bahut fauladi hai

Agar kehna bhi chaahu toh kaise kahoongi.

I totally want Shaukat to sing this song for me.

Easy going means someone who isn't hot tempered so I can always explain them anything anytime without him taking things out of control. Someone who has the maturity to be patient. In the past I had to deal with some hot tempered guys and it can be a bit of heavy duty to work with them. A guy who is matured and understanding will most likely will also be sensitive. I guess those traits Kinda follow each other. Also I don't want the whole bundle. It's ok if one trait is missing. But if all the traits are missing then that won't be good for the relationship.

I'm looking forward to dating again after a brief gap. I had a breakup earlier this year and now I have recovered from that. I'm planning to date several guys at once, like meeting and getting to know them I want to test them as I go along interacting with them. I want to throw some shit tests at these potential dates so that I can make a suitable choice for a future lifelong partner /husband. If you are well experienced with dating and making choices please give me a long/short list of shit tests that I can use with potential matches so I can make a good choice Tell me some general shit tests(with details or examples preferably) that women employ in dating scenarios to get a good match for themselves. Qualities I'm looking for in my potential dates are Loyalty Friendship Sweetness Truthful Easy going Sensitive Understanding

Very important. I appreciate the thoughtfulness.

Great tip.

I shared deep feelings of love and loyalty with them. But sadly things didn't work out because of differences with regard to commitment and other issues that began to occur over time, I realized that I was the faithful one but there was no such faithfulness on the other side so I had to break those relationships because I can't compromise with the absence of loyalty, I can manage with other flaws but I consider lack of loyalty as a dealbreaker.

For me love and connection the definition of both is old school and it is - Lifelong committed loyal faithful monogamous relationship (either solidified by marriage or if marriage cannot/doesn't happen then the two lovers stay committed together without marriage, like a live-in boyfriend girlfriend relationship but permanent. Marriage or no marriage is a choice that can be mutually decided by both love birds.) But the basic terms of loyalty and commitment and monogamy don't change.

Men would have stopped approaching women then. But fine, you have your opinion and we can agree to disagree.

To not take it seriously. That is to move on to the next person who is available. Rejections hurt but they are a part of finding love. I might like a guy, even if I don't approach him, if he never approached me, but approached other women, that is also a kind of rejection, and yes it does hurt but one shouldn't be so stuck with it, it has to be accepted and one should not lose hope when finding love. It's a lesson is self discipline and emotional intelligence. It's obviously hard but after too many rejections, like Leo said, a rejection won't matter so much. It becomes a habit. Regarding my personal relationship, I connected really well with my past partners. I didn't think much about getting laid or survival agenda or any of that.

I never approached. I was only approached. And I have rejected men some times. But I don't know how they feel afterwards, probably shitty. I understand it must be hard but it's important to not take it to heart

@NoSelfSelf @NoSelfSelf actually this is not cultural. This is biological. A woman's body produces hormones when a man approaches the right way. Try understanding women psychology before wanting a woman. Also the thought that somehow by approaching her is because she is a prize or because you're unworthy is simply a thought and a limited belief and it doesn't do shit to attract a woman, it only reflects male insecurity. Secure males approach women like wolves approach rabbits.

@NoSelfSelf I'm not sure about that. I think he needs to keep trying without being upset by rejections.

You can't love anyone selfishly, man or woman. Women don't approach men. Men approach women.

This song is so magical and romantic. It takes me to another world.

Maybe I innocently adopted it. But tell me what's wrong with me following what feels right in my heart.

Lmfao June 2021 is my romantic month. This is 2020....oops It's 2021.

I find this song very romantic.

I want to be known as the Dreaming Queen. My personality is that of a Dreamer

My favorite https://youtu.be/aGWq4AUtQTE

I'm in a romantic mood all this month.

I'm never ever going to give up my emotional integrity or my moral integrity or my sexual integrity NO MATTER WHAT.