Preety_India

I like this song

When my heart felt immediate peace and it was put to rest immediately (when I talked to this guy), that's when I knew that THIS IS IT .........THIS IS WHAT I HAD BEEN LOOKING FOR SPIRITUALLY THIS WAS MY FINAL DESTINATION. THIS IS WHAT I WANTED

When I experienced this Emotional attraction it felt like a blast. There is a deep deep spiritual essence in EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION. I was just blindly following my senses and my heart and it lead me to this . Law of attraction at work.

It's not even sexual attraction IT'S POWERFUL POWERFUL POWERFUL EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION MAYBE THIS IS WHAT I HAD BEEN LOOKING FOR ALL MY LIFE

His masculinity is so strong and intense that it defeats the masculinity of all the men I have met in my life

I'm absolutely besotted and smitten and no guy has been able to do that.

He is one of a kind He has such an impact on me.

I want to get this one side corrected and then everything will be alright.

Do I feel closer with him. I don't know. Love addict

I really want him to hug me. I love hugs I'm a sucker for hugs. And then I like forehead kisses. He tells me how affectionate he can be.

This is a novel feeling. I want to know what my romantic dreams are with him. How do I imagine my life with him ? What do I expect and what do I want ? I need to explore my romantic feelings for him

I'm very happy with him. Maybe a bit infatuated

Yep I get that. That makes sense.

@Harlen Kelly I see him as a needy guy. I like his neediness.

And what would mean that he wants a long term relationship? What signs ?

@Harlen Kelly he does like me and it seems genuine.

Imagining that he is hugging me tight.

@Harlen Kelly why ?

So fucking tired. I just wanna collapse and go to sleep. Too much confusion. Too much thinking. I'm exhausted.

@something_else I'm generally not an attention seeker in a relationship but I'm high on commitment in general. I don't like people who say flippant things and don't mean what they say. I like guys who are serious about commitment. I don't need attention.

I agree

I will not give him sex I don't have sex so easily with the men in my life. Sex only happens when they are proper boyfriend material And that happens when I see that the guy is emotionally attached to me and has been loving and trustworthy in general. The problem that I faced with men in the past is that they were nice in the first 6 months. But over time they would cheat or turn out to be scamming me or betraying me. It created a lot of frustration because I trusted them to be my future partners but they wouldn't match the standard in terms of loyalty or care/love So I had to break up with them I don't want the same pattern to keep repeating in my life. I have had 4 boyfriends up until now and I'm tired of dealing with men who are nice in the beginning and bad later. Just manipulative shit. I want a man with whom I can finally have a family with and who wouldn't betray my trust. It's hard because every guy is good initially. That's why I want to know how I can know that the guy is the real guy who wants sincere relationship with me with no intent to abandon or cheat or play me for a fool. I'm tired of that selfishness. I just want a decent plain relationship where both the girl and the guy want each other and settle down for marriage and family and are totally loyal to each other. No guy says bad things in the beginning because they know they will lose me instantly. So they are careful not to bring out their true Colors and keep hiding it as long as possible. How to trust a man ? Where I know that his intentions are true and he really wants to be with me out of love and not wanting to be a boyfriend just for sex or temporary company???? It's too hard. I'm tired of men who play games.. I'm sincere and faithful and loyal in my relationships until now. It felt like I was the only one who was always sincere and loyal and committed whereas the men weren't. I was the only one who was pushing the relationship forward. I'm fed up to the point that this is my last effort in finding a man I can find worthy of a long term partner. I'm tired of dumping men. I'm tired of going through the same disappointment in every relationship where I am the only one who wants the relationship and the other party is always trying to fool me in the name of love. I would love to see a guy stepping up and saying things that he really means, not making fake promises, stepping up to keep my trust and make the relationship work instead of waiting till I dump him out of frustration. I don't want to be the waiting girlfriend anymore.

What are the signs at that point that will help me know that he is a keeper ?

Hehe that made me laugh. That was cute.

How to know if a guy truly loves you and wants you for the right reasons?