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हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी लेकिन तुम्हारी जानिब दिल की नजर न होगी नजर न होगी लेकिन तुम्हारी जानिब दिल की नजर न होगी तुम लाख हमको चाहो चाहत मगर न होगी तुम लाख हमको चाहो चाहत मगर न होगी चाहत मगर न होगी न होगी चाहत मगर न होगी देखेंगे रात की हम कब तक सहर न होगी देखेंगे रात की हम कब तक सहर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी फेर लो अपनी नजर नजर हमपे होगा न असर असर हमको समझाओ न तुम दिल लगाने का हुनर हमको समझाओ न तुम दिल लगाने का हुनर ये हुनर याद करो अपना दिलशाद करो नोजवानि को अभी यु न बर्बाद करो नोजवानि को अभी यु न बर्बाद करो जिंदगी का मजा जिंदगी का मजा दिल लगाने में है और जलवो की सोहरत ज़माने में है हमारे जलवो की तब जो तुम न ला सकोगे तू तुम क्या करोगे तू तुम क्या करोगे कसम खुदा की है अपना दावा न जी सकोगे न तुम मरोगे न जी सकोगे न तुम मरोगे न जी सकोगे न तुम मरोगे है जिंदगी का मजाजिंदगी का मजा जिंदगी का मजा दिल लगाने में है और जलवो की सोहरत ज़माने में है दिल की उमंग चाहत की जंग लायी है रंग क्या रंग क्या रंग क्या दिल की उमंग चाहत की जंग लायी है रंग क्या दिल की उमंग चाहत की जंग लायी है रंग क्या हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हज़ारों रंग है बदले तुम्हारी सूरत ने हमारे वास्ते तुमको बनाया कुदरत ने पूरी किस तरह से दिलवालो की ख्वाहिश होगी तुम अगर हमको न चाहो तो नवाजिस होगी तुम तो सूरत के हो सिर्फ दीवाने बनके फिरते हो शामा के परवाने हम है परवाने परवाने परवाने देखो बड़े काम के हमको आशिक न समझो फ़क़त नाम के हमको आशिक न समझो फ़क़त नाम के जुनु पे अपने है नाज़ क्योकि न मरे हमको किसी ने पत्थर वो हम नहीं हो जो कल के मजनू फिरा करेंगे जहा में दर दर हमको आशिक न समझो न समझो आशिक न समझो हमको आशिक न समझो न समझो आशिक न समझो लुटा के शमे पे अपनी हस्ती वफ़ा के अफसाने कह रहे है हमारी चाहत रहेगी कायम ये आज परवाने कह रहे है हम है परवाने देखो हम है परवाने देखो हम है परवाने देखो देखो परवाने देखो समझ समझ के भी अब जो न समझे तो उनसे अब तो खुदा ही समझे किताबो दिल तो पढ़ चुके मगर वो हमको जुदा ही समझे. Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Lekin tumhari janib dil ki Najar na hogi Najar na hogi Lekin tumhari janib dil ki Najar na hogi Tum lakh hamko chaho Chahat magar na hogi Tum lakh hamko chaho Chahat magar na hogi Chahat magar na hogi Na hogi Chahat magar na hogi Dekhenge raat ki hum kab tak Sahar na hogi Dekhenge raat ki hum kab tak Sahar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Pher lo apni najar najar Hampe hoga na asar asar Hamko samjhao na tum Dil lagane ka hunur Hamko samjhao na tum Dil lagane ka hunur Ye hunur yaad karo Apna dilshad karo Nojawani ko abhi Yu na barbad karo Nojawani ko abhi Yu na barbad karo Jindgai ka maja Jindgai ka maja Dil lagane mein hai Or jalwo ki sohrat Zamane mein hai Hamare jalwo ki tab Jo tum na la sakoge Tu tum kya karoge Tu tum kya karoge Kasam khuda ki hai apna dawa Na ji sakoge na tum maroge Na ji sakoge na tum maroge Na ji sakoge na tum maroge Ha jindagi ka majaJindagi ka maja Jindagi ka maja dil lagane mein hai Or jalwo ki sohrat jamane mein hai Dil ki umang chahat ki jung Layi hai rang kya rang kya Rang kya Dil ki umang chahat ki jung Layi hai rang kya Dil ki umang chahat ki jung Layi hai rang kya Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hazaro rang hai badle Tumhari surat ne Hamare waste tumko banaya kudrat ne Puri kis tarah se Dilwalo ki khwahish hogi Tum agar hamko na chaho To nawazis hogi Tum to surat ke ho sirf deewane Banke firte ho shama ke parwane Hum hai parwane parwane Parwane dekho bade kam ke Humko aashik na samjho Fakat naam ke Humko aashik na samjho Fakat naam ke Junu pe apne hai naz kyoki Na mare hamko kisi ne pathar Wo hum nahi ho jo kal ke majnu Phira karenge jaha mein dar dar Hamko aashik na samjho na samjho Aashik na samjho Hamko aashik na samjho na samjho Aashik na samjho Luta ke shame pe apni hasti Wafa ke afsane kah rahe hai Hamari chahat rahegi kayam Ye aaj parwane kah rahe hai Hum hai parwane dekho Hum hai parwane dekho Hum hai parwane dekho Dekho parwane dekho Samajh samajh ke bhi ab jo na samjhe To unse ab to khuda hi samjhe Kitabo dil to padh chuke Magar wo hamko juda hi samjhe.

I like this song

When my heart felt immediate peace and it was put to rest immediately (when I talked to this guy), that's when I knew that THIS IS IT .........THIS IS WHAT I HAD BEEN LOOKING FOR SPIRITUALLY THIS WAS MY FINAL DESTINATION. THIS IS WHAT I WANTED

When I experienced this Emotional attraction it felt like a blast. There is a deep deep spiritual essence in EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION. I was just blindly following my senses and my heart and it lead me to this . Law of attraction at work.

It's not even sexual attraction IT'S POWERFUL POWERFUL POWERFUL EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION MAYBE THIS IS WHAT I HAD BEEN LOOKING FOR ALL MY LIFE

His masculinity is so strong and intense that it defeats the masculinity of all the men I have met in my life

I'm absolutely besotted and smitten and no guy has been able to do that.

He is one of a kind He has such an impact on me.

I want to get this one side corrected and then everything will be alright.

Do I feel closer with him. I don't know. Love addict

I really want him to hug me. I love hugs I'm a sucker for hugs. And then I like forehead kisses. He tells me how affectionate he can be.

This is a novel feeling. I want to know what my romantic dreams are with him. How do I imagine my life with him ? What do I expect and what do I want ? I need to explore my romantic feelings for him

I'm very happy with him. Maybe a bit infatuated

Yep I get that. That makes sense.

@Harlen Kelly I see him as a needy guy. I like his neediness.

And what would mean that he wants a long term relationship? What signs ?

@Harlen Kelly he does like me and it seems genuine.

Imagining that he is hugging me tight.

@Harlen Kelly why ?

So fucking tired. I just wanna collapse and go to sleep. Too much confusion. Too much thinking. I'm exhausted.

@something_else I'm generally not an attention seeker in a relationship but I'm high on commitment in general. I don't like people who say flippant things and don't mean what they say. I like guys who are serious about commitment. I don't need attention.

I agree

I will not give him sex I don't have sex so easily with the men in my life. Sex only happens when they are proper boyfriend material And that happens when I see that the guy is emotionally attached to me and has been loving and trustworthy in general. The problem that I faced with men in the past is that they were nice in the first 6 months. But over time they would cheat or turn out to be scamming me or betraying me. It created a lot of frustration because I trusted them to be my future partners but they wouldn't match the standard in terms of loyalty or care/love So I had to break up with them I don't want the same pattern to keep repeating in my life. I have had 4 boyfriends up until now and I'm tired of dealing with men who are nice in the beginning and bad later. Just manipulative shit. I want a man with whom I can finally have a family with and who wouldn't betray my trust. It's hard because every guy is good initially. That's why I want to know how I can know that the guy is the real guy who wants sincere relationship with me with no intent to abandon or cheat or play me for a fool. I'm tired of that selfishness. I just want a decent plain relationship where both the girl and the guy want each other and settle down for marriage and family and are totally loyal to each other. No guy says bad things in the beginning because they know they will lose me instantly. So they are careful not to bring out their true Colors and keep hiding it as long as possible. How to trust a man ? Where I know that his intentions are true and he really wants to be with me out of love and not wanting to be a boyfriend just for sex or temporary company???? It's too hard. I'm tired of men who play games.. I'm sincere and faithful and loyal in my relationships until now. It felt like I was the only one who was always sincere and loyal and committed whereas the men weren't. I was the only one who was pushing the relationship forward. I'm fed up to the point that this is my last effort in finding a man I can find worthy of a long term partner. I'm tired of dumping men. I'm tired of going through the same disappointment in every relationship where I am the only one who wants the relationship and the other party is always trying to fool me in the name of love. I would love to see a guy stepping up and saying things that he really means, not making fake promises, stepping up to keep my trust and make the relationship work instead of waiting till I dump him out of frustration. I don't want to be the waiting girlfriend anymore.

What are the signs at that point that will help me know that he is a keeper ?

Hehe that made me laugh. That was cute.