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@Parththakkar12 just answer the questions.

@Parththakkar12 Lmao I always see you in these "anti-feminist" threads so often. Guy, what's triggering you? Don't you have a gf ?

So I have been talking to this guy nearly everday. Today I talked to him for 30 mins.

@Gregory1 I hope I didn't offend you in any way.

@Gregory1 I can understand that if he was a complete stranger then saying that he is a great guy would have probably come off as absurd. So I'm aware how you think. Your line of thinking is genuine and obvious. I don't deny you

At least from the conversations I had with him. He is always respectful. At least in the first stage he is good enough. He is also my old school friend so he is not some stranger. I know him already. But I will be meeting him face to face after many many years. The last time we both were together was when we both were like 9 years old in school. Now he found me through mutual contacts and we instantly connected. We were friends in school but over time we were drifted apart by loss of contact. My family knows his family. So it's not like he is a complete stranger. I know how he looks and I know his family . I used to visit his family during my high school years.

Yea he is a great great guy and I'm glad he is with me

No it wasn't meant that way. I can do anything meant I really want to be devoted to him. No I'm a total no nonsense person. I don't put up with bullshit if you have observed my personality. I'm not Slavish. But I can be very dedicated and devoted. I'm extremely loyal in relationships and I had an emotional moment. I'm not some dog/donkey.

@Hello from Russia Btw yesterday I discovered my favourite old Indian song is extremely famous in Russia. Lots of Russians commenting on how much they love and remember the song I'm impressed by all the Russian comments. So glad to know that. Enjoy !! https://youtu.be/7JdEZoffm-Q

Yep. Pretty much like that lol. Are you Canadian/French ?

I'm not an INFP but my emotions can still go deep. Yea those traits you mentioned are awesome for my partner. I'll look into that. The guy I'm dating is an extrovert. So good for an introvert like me

@dflores321 whatever who cares anymore! Do what your heart pleases.

I know right. I said that thing to him quite innocently. And it won't be considered wrong in my culture. In my culture love poetry is written that way where lovers show their commitment by saying stuff like "I'll die for you" it's considered a thing of honor rather than codependency. I understand the Western perspective. But these people on the forum are taking it to mean something entirely different. They think that by saying that either I have low self esteem or that I'm codependent or I am creepy or I am manipulator or that I'm too needy or I'll allow the guy to do wrong things to me.. All of their judgement is pure nonsense. When did I say that I'll tolerate anything from the guy ? When did I say that I'm manipulating him for some gain? Trying to tell him my sincere feelings is manipulation ??? You people got some serious issues if everything becomes a problem to you. Maybe find love. In my culture, it would be considered a thing of pure dedication and loyalty to say something like that I can understand that I'm needy but I don't look at neediness as something disgusting. In a relationship some dose of neediness is needed. Some people said that I don't have class!!!! Like what ???????????? Just because I expressed a sincere emotion for the guy I have fallen in love with ? They take something innocent and twist and twist and twist and twist and make it into some negative garbage through their extremely prejudiced biased lens. It's like these people were never loved in their lives. Such awful pessimism and judgementalism. And pure shaming. That's why I hate this forum. Say anything and everything is looked at with pure hateful negativity. Do they ever try to see good in something ? And the people who are understanding me here are mostly Russians. You and the russian girl above. Leo is russian but leave it. He is kinda Americanized. I have a lot of respect for Russians now. They don't shame others and try to be understanding and kind. But western culture,omg, so brutal and judgemental....is there anything they don't consider negative. There is absolutely no place for instinct and emotion. Every emotion is criminalized. The only thing I can do in western countries is be an Effing STATUE. I'm tired of being demonized repeatedly. I have been shamed more in western countries than in my own. Just wanted to say a big thanks to Russians for being very kind and understanding of my sentiments

I don't find it wrong. What's special about ENFJ ? @Gregory1

I'm aware that sometimes I act stupid But I can't expect myself to be perfectly sane. I'm only Human. I can't guarantee that I will always be wise. I can be erratic. I'm just trying to be honest with myself. I don't like to put on a show. I would rather have a guy dump me for being who I am than accept me for being someone that I am not. Thanks for being honest with me.

Hmm. You have a good point. I'll try to do that. I should keep that in mind. Thanks zero

His name is SKB I won't write his name. I will simply refer to him as SKB

When he called me stupid a few days ago, he was being so playful..I found it so endearing. I like how playful he is with me. I find that very intoxicating.

Maybe when the pandemic fear ceases, I will meet him in person and spend time with him. Till then the only communication between us is calling. And I'm very happy right now. I feel much better with him. Like he makes me laugh so hard each time we talk.

I don't know how to describe this feeling. Maybe tranquility is the word.

Lately I have been finding peace, especially whenever I talk to him. He is so polite and understanding.

Feminism has nothing to do with redpill. Such a hate for feminism.

@Michael569 ok I'll cut it out.

हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी लेकिन तुम्हारी जानिब दिल की नजर न होगी नजर न होगी लेकिन तुम्हारी जानिब दिल की नजर न होगी तुम लाख हमको चाहो चाहत मगर न होगी तुम लाख हमको चाहो चाहत मगर न होगी चाहत मगर न होगी न होगी चाहत मगर न होगी देखेंगे रात की हम कब तक सहर न होगी देखेंगे रात की हम कब तक सहर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी फेर लो अपनी नजर नजर हमपे होगा न असर असर हमको समझाओ न तुम दिल लगाने का हुनर हमको समझाओ न तुम दिल लगाने का हुनर ये हुनर याद करो अपना दिलशाद करो नोजवानि को अभी यु न बर्बाद करो नोजवानि को अभी यु न बर्बाद करो जिंदगी का मजा जिंदगी का मजा दिल लगाने में है और जलवो की सोहरत ज़माने में है हमारे जलवो की तब जो तुम न ला सकोगे तू तुम क्या करोगे तू तुम क्या करोगे कसम खुदा की है अपना दावा न जी सकोगे न तुम मरोगे न जी सकोगे न तुम मरोगे न जी सकोगे न तुम मरोगे है जिंदगी का मजाजिंदगी का मजा जिंदगी का मजा दिल लगाने में है और जलवो की सोहरत ज़माने में है दिल की उमंग चाहत की जंग लायी है रंग क्या रंग क्या रंग क्या दिल की उमंग चाहत की जंग लायी है रंग क्या दिल की उमंग चाहत की जंग लायी है रंग क्या हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हज़ारों रंग है बदले तुम्हारी सूरत ने हमारे वास्ते तुमको बनाया कुदरत ने पूरी किस तरह से दिलवालो की ख्वाहिश होगी तुम अगर हमको न चाहो तो नवाजिस होगी तुम तो सूरत के हो सिर्फ दीवाने बनके फिरते हो शामा के परवाने हम है परवाने परवाने परवाने देखो बड़े काम के हमको आशिक न समझो फ़क़त नाम के हमको आशिक न समझो फ़क़त नाम के जुनु पे अपने है नाज़ क्योकि न मरे हमको किसी ने पत्थर वो हम नहीं हो जो कल के मजनू फिरा करेंगे जहा में दर दर हमको आशिक न समझो न समझो आशिक न समझो हमको आशिक न समझो न समझो आशिक न समझो लुटा के शमे पे अपनी हस्ती वफ़ा के अफसाने कह रहे है हमारी चाहत रहेगी कायम ये आज परवाने कह रहे है हम है परवाने देखो हम है परवाने देखो हम है परवाने देखो देखो परवाने देखो समझ समझ के भी अब जो न समझे तो उनसे अब तो खुदा ही समझे किताबो दिल तो पढ़ चुके मगर वो हमको जुदा ही समझे. Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Lekin tumhari janib dil ki Najar na hogi Najar na hogi Lekin tumhari janib dil ki Najar na hogi Tum lakh hamko chaho Chahat magar na hogi Tum lakh hamko chaho Chahat magar na hogi Chahat magar na hogi Na hogi Chahat magar na hogi Dekhenge raat ki hum kab tak Sahar na hogi Dekhenge raat ki hum kab tak Sahar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Pher lo apni najar najar Hampe hoga na asar asar Hamko samjhao na tum Dil lagane ka hunur Hamko samjhao na tum Dil lagane ka hunur Ye hunur yaad karo Apna dilshad karo Nojawani ko abhi Yu na barbad karo Nojawani ko abhi Yu na barbad karo Jindgai ka maja Jindgai ka maja Dil lagane mein hai Or jalwo ki sohrat Zamane mein hai Hamare jalwo ki tab Jo tum na la sakoge Tu tum kya karoge Tu tum kya karoge Kasam khuda ki hai apna dawa Na ji sakoge na tum maroge Na ji sakoge na tum maroge Na ji sakoge na tum maroge Ha jindagi ka majaJindagi ka maja Jindagi ka maja dil lagane mein hai Or jalwo ki sohrat jamane mein hai Dil ki umang chahat ki jung Layi hai rang kya rang kya Rang kya Dil ki umang chahat ki jung Layi hai rang kya Dil ki umang chahat ki jung Layi hai rang kya Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hazaro rang hai badle Tumhari surat ne Hamare waste tumko banaya kudrat ne Puri kis tarah se Dilwalo ki khwahish hogi Tum agar hamko na chaho To nawazis hogi Tum to surat ke ho sirf deewane Banke firte ho shama ke parwane Hum hai parwane parwane Parwane dekho bade kam ke Humko aashik na samjho Fakat naam ke Humko aashik na samjho Fakat naam ke Junu pe apne hai naz kyoki Na mare hamko kisi ne pathar Wo hum nahi ho jo kal ke majnu Phira karenge jaha mein dar dar Hamko aashik na samjho na samjho Aashik na samjho Hamko aashik na samjho na samjho Aashik na samjho Luta ke shame pe apni hasti Wafa ke afsane kah rahe hai Hamari chahat rahegi kayam Ye aaj parwane kah rahe hai Hum hai parwane dekho Hum hai parwane dekho Hum hai parwane dekho Dekho parwane dekho Samajh samajh ke bhi ab jo na samjhe To unse ab to khuda hi samjhe Kitabo dil to padh chuke Magar wo hamko juda hi samjhe.

हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी लेकिन तुम्हारी जानिब दिल की नजर न होगी नजर न होगी लेकिन तुम्हारी जानिब दिल की नजर न होगी तुम लाख हमको चाहो चाहत मगर न होगी तुम लाख हमको चाहो चाहत मगर न होगी चाहत मगर न होगी न होगी चाहत मगर न होगी देखेंगे रात की हम कब तक सहर न होगी देखेंगे रात की हम कब तक सहर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी फेर लो अपनी नजर नजर हमपे होगा न असर असर हमको समझाओ न तुम दिल लगाने का हुनर हमको समझाओ न तुम दिल लगाने का हुनर ये हुनर याद करो अपना दिलशाद करो नोजवानि को अभी यु न बर्बाद करो नोजवानि को अभी यु न बर्बाद करो जिंदगी का मजा जिंदगी का मजा दिल लगाने में है और जलवो की सोहरत ज़माने में है हमारे जलवो की तब जो तुम न ला सकोगे तू तुम क्या करोगे तू तुम क्या करोगे कसम खुदा की है अपना दावा न जी सकोगे न तुम मरोगे न जी सकोगे न तुम मरोगे न जी सकोगे न तुम मरोगे है जिंदगी का मजाजिंदगी का मजा जिंदगी का मजा दिल लगाने में है और जलवो की सोहरत ज़माने में है दिल की उमंग चाहत की जंग लायी है रंग क्या रंग क्या रंग क्या दिल की उमंग चाहत की जंग लायी है रंग क्या दिल की उमंग चाहत की जंग लायी है रंग क्या हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हम तुम पे मर मिटेंगे तुमको खबर न होगी हज़ारों रंग है बदले तुम्हारी सूरत ने हमारे वास्ते तुमको बनाया कुदरत ने पूरी किस तरह से दिलवालो की ख्वाहिश होगी तुम अगर हमको न चाहो तो नवाजिस होगी तुम तो सूरत के हो सिर्फ दीवाने बनके फिरते हो शामा के परवाने हम है परवाने परवाने परवाने देखो बड़े काम के हमको आशिक न समझो फ़क़त नाम के हमको आशिक न समझो फ़क़त नाम के जुनु पे अपने है नाज़ क्योकि न मरे हमको किसी ने पत्थर वो हम नहीं हो जो कल के मजनू फिरा करेंगे जहा में दर दर हमको आशिक न समझो न समझो आशिक न समझो हमको आशिक न समझो न समझो आशिक न समझो लुटा के शमे पे अपनी हस्ती वफ़ा के अफसाने कह रहे है हमारी चाहत रहेगी कायम ये आज परवाने कह रहे है हम है परवाने देखो हम है परवाने देखो हम है परवाने देखो देखो परवाने देखो समझ समझ के भी अब जो न समझे तो उनसे अब तो खुदा ही समझे किताबो दिल तो पढ़ चुके मगर वो हमको जुदा ही समझे. Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Lekin tumhari janib dil ki Najar na hogi Najar na hogi Lekin tumhari janib dil ki Najar na hogi Tum lakh hamko chaho Chahat magar na hogi Tum lakh hamko chaho Chahat magar na hogi Chahat magar na hogi Na hogi Chahat magar na hogi Dekhenge raat ki hum kab tak Sahar na hogi Dekhenge raat ki hum kab tak Sahar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Pher lo apni najar najar Hampe hoga na asar asar Hamko samjhao na tum Dil lagane ka hunur Hamko samjhao na tum Dil lagane ka hunur Ye hunur yaad karo Apna dilshad karo Nojawani ko abhi Yu na barbad karo Nojawani ko abhi Yu na barbad karo Jindgai ka maja Jindgai ka maja Dil lagane mein hai Or jalwo ki sohrat Zamane mein hai Hamare jalwo ki tab Jo tum na la sakoge Tu tum kya karoge Tu tum kya karoge Kasam khuda ki hai apna dawa Na ji sakoge na tum maroge Na ji sakoge na tum maroge Na ji sakoge na tum maroge Ha jindagi ka majaJindagi ka maja Jindagi ka maja dil lagane mein hai Or jalwo ki sohrat jamane mein hai Dil ki umang chahat ki jung Layi hai rang kya rang kya Rang kya Dil ki umang chahat ki jung Layi hai rang kya Dil ki umang chahat ki jung Layi hai rang kya Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hum tum pe mar mitenge Tumko khabar na hogi Hazaro rang hai badle Tumhari surat ne Hamare waste tumko banaya kudrat ne Puri kis tarah se Dilwalo ki khwahish hogi Tum agar hamko na chaho To nawazis hogi Tum to surat ke ho sirf deewane Banke firte ho shama ke parwane Hum hai parwane parwane Parwane dekho bade kam ke Humko aashik na samjho Fakat naam ke Humko aashik na samjho Fakat naam ke Junu pe apne hai naz kyoki Na mare hamko kisi ne pathar Wo hum nahi ho jo kal ke majnu Phira karenge jaha mein dar dar Hamko aashik na samjho na samjho Aashik na samjho Hamko aashik na samjho na samjho Aashik na samjho Luta ke shame pe apni hasti Wafa ke afsane kah rahe hai Hamari chahat rahegi kayam Ye aaj parwane kah rahe hai Hum hai parwane dekho Hum hai parwane dekho Hum hai parwane dekho Dekho parwane dekho Samajh samajh ke bhi ab jo na samjhe To unse ab to khuda hi samjhe Kitabo dil to padh chuke Magar wo hamko juda hi samjhe.