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So I had a bad dream.

Ems coffee convos

I like this slow dholki remix song.

Kinda cute

SKB is extremely polite. He has been really sweet to me. I can't imagine I found him.

So far I didn't have any arguments with SKB. SKB lives in my city, he is an awesome Indian guy

You have to focus on emotional containment.

Yea

@Zeroguy I get super angry in a relationship if the guy does anything disappointing and then I leave the guy abruptly. I did this in all of my relationships. Once I'm angry, the relationship is over

.@Zeroguy I have extremely high standards for men. Anything less disappoints me immediately and I dump them fast. I tend to get overly emotional in a relationship. When I'm in love, it's intense.

True love is committed. Blind emotinal involvement is not true Love. Love is a test of truth, sincerity, friendship, passion and faith/trust.

Friendship is true and faithful Love is true passionate friendship with sex. It is a form of absolute sincere passion that is faithful, endless, eternal and loyal. True love doesn't break trust. True love breeds faith and is absolutely ethical. It's a kind of madness that is absolutely loyal. It's not simply emotional involvement.

He should care about a woman's needs.

These factors are Emotional connection (friendship) Emotional connection (friendliness/sweetness/support) Emotional connection( trust/faith) Emotional connection (emotional safety and general safety, emotional security) Emotional connection (understanding ) Emotional connection (emotional attraction and polarity, magnetism) Sexual connection(intimacy and sexual chemistry) Sexual connection ( sexual affection) Sexual connection( sexual ethics) Sexual connection( sexual lust/seduction /sexiness/sexual attraction) Ethical connection( loyalty/commitment/values) Ethical connection (general character and disposition)

For me to feel fulfilled in a relationship I will need several factors

I also need an ethical connection.

I've realized that I need 2 things in a relationship Powerful Emotional connection Powerful sexual connection Emotional attraction is absolutely necessary

Generally speaking,no. I have been very patient in my past relationships. I wasn't quick to fall into it. Maybe having a series of failed relationships has made me a bit desperate.

@Gregory1 what do you think I should do in this situation? What's your advice? That should keep a distance ?

Why be negative already ? It's not like you already know what the future is going to be like? If the present is good,then just go with the flow and enjoy it I have faced many heartbreaks. If things don't work out, I will keep looking for compatible committed partners. What else is the choice anyway?

That would be unfortunate if the relationship didn't pan out. I'm kinda used to those things where I was more attached than the guy so I have kinda become immune to it Every relationship is a bet at the end of the day. Nobody can give a guarantee how a relationship is going to be. But I cannot expect to have a half hearted relationship constantly being suspicious about the future ,that would create a cognitive dissonance of its own that will overshadow the relationship. I don't think that's a good idea Of course I need to be careful and watch out for all red flags as and when they arise. But I cannot enter a relationship with a negative/suspicious mindset or it will be like I'm sabotaging my own relationship,pretty much like a self fulfilling prophecy. That's a bad idea from the get go A relationship is a gamble. One has to be ready for both success and failures just like one has to be ready for rejections.

So cute. You're right.

Powerful Emotional connection is what I should focus on

Toh corona kaise chal raha hai tumhare waha pe?

@Parththakkar12 do you live in India though ?