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Sometimes I end up crying thinking about how my sexual instincts can rule my mind and cause me to get exploited in relationships. It's a harsh reality of being human that we have little control over our desires. I wish I had received fulfilling love early on in my life I wouldn't have felt like a wanderer. It's tough....... A understanding non judgemental guy would have been such a great help. But the patriarchy teaches men to shame women who are open about their sexuality

Sometimes sexual repression can bite you back with extra horniness. It kinda backfires or I'll call it the boomerang effect

I don't watch porn at all I swear. And still the horniness is always very strong. Could also be because I repressed myself sexually when I was 15. I acted like a nun in those days.

I have to say that the male hormone testosterone is one damn hormone. If a man is very masculine and full of it, he automatically releases those pheromones whereby he appears very attractive to a hormonal female And that's what happens to me (Now I'm not talking about biker gang shit here ) When I see masculine men(not body building type lol, they are fake and ostentatious, I get put off by that ) but the masculine men who are caring, authoritarian, protective and appear to be in charge of themselves appear extremely extremely extremely attractive even if they don't have masculine bodies , that's fine with me. But my horniness reaches a peak when I see a punky guy being extremely self confident . It's a signal that he is well aware of who he is

A few hours back I made a neat post on how our hormones decide so much for us.

Both behaviours are masculine but I would say authoritarian is hyper masculine or kinda ugly masculine. Like the ugly feminine is the jealous type.

I think authoritarian and rebellious are two distinctly behaviours.

Because they are loaded with testosterone. When the brain is loaded with that, it gets water logged and then it's ready for every female. This is the design of nature that no amount of objective thinking can change. When the horniness reaches 7th heaven, nobody can stop a raging Bull or a lioness in heat. This is how powerful sex is. It destroys all brains and boundaries.

How does Islam describe evil. Discuss this later.

Different clerical roles in Islam and the concept of Tawba. Discuss this later.

Sometimes emotinal attachment can be a huge problem especially in a relationship where not much is known about the other person. So holding off sex is a good idea. For me sex is not biological. For me sex is the greatest spiritual act. So when i have sex I'm deeply Emotional and deeply emotinally bonded to the other person I'm having sex with. So having sex is a gateway to getting attached quickly. It's very difficult to back out/off once you get attached in the relationship. Then there are all sorts of justifications for the other person's behaviours. I know all this because I have been there. I don't want another abusive relationship where it's difficult to back out simply because of emotional and sexual attachment. Holding off/back sex will give plenty opportunity to gauge the depth of my relationship and see where it's going before I plan to fully commit. I never had commitment phobia in relationships, time to develop some

Also focus on Deobandiyat

Mufti T Masood

Thank God I didn't crash

Lately I haven't felt like killing myself which is great.

To celebrate, to cherish, to behold, to dream, to hope, to feel and to forever hold close to my heart. That's how I feel when I have intense Emotions for a man I fall deeply in love with.

Since meeting SKB my mood has changed to somewhat better. .he tends to ground me.

I have a tendency to sort of idolize the men in my life. I did it with my first boyfriend. Not with the second. I mostly just ignored him I observed that when I ignore a man, he is all over me With the third, omg, I idolized him like I had never idolized a man before. He was simply everything. The more I invest in a man, the breakup is equally brutal

Time to move on to better things in life. SKB still talks to me. But something temporary has happened to me I just don't feel that initial rush I was feeling anymore The dust has settled. I'm not exactly dreaming of him ..................and then came Islam. *Intermission*

I want a sweet guy who understands me. Because it's tough to understand me. SKB is somewhat like that. But I shouldn't put him on a pedestal.

What is considered Haram in Islam ? 70. Abusing or reviling anyone of the Companions of the Prophet (saw) "Do not revile my companions for, by the one in whose hands is my soul, if you were to spend in charity a mountain of gold similar to mount Uhud it would not be equal to a handful or a half a handful (or what they have done)" Also The sign of belief is loving the Ansar, and hating them is a sign of hypocrisy. He said also: No one loves them but the Mumin, and one hates them but the hypocrite Please make sincere repentance to Allah "Today is deed without reckoning and tomorrow is reckoning without deeds". Sincere repentance has four conditions Feeling bad for the sin Firm commitment in intention not to repeat sin (whether it happens again is not a condition if one tried his best) Make repentance to Allah by Du'a and asking or better crying for forgiveness. If some person has been wronged because of this sin then one needs to make up to this person.

What is considered Haram in Islam ? 69. Pointing a weapon at a Muslim Brother He who points weapon at a Muslim Brother wil be cursed by the angels even if he was hi brother in kinship

What is considered Haram in Islam ? 67. Preaching Error or Establishing Errors He who preaches for error will bear his sin and all of those who follow him, decreasing no their sins. The Prophet also said He who preaches for error will bear his sin and of those who follow him, with no decreasing for their sins. The Prophet also said : every new established thing is an error In religion. 68. Being Deceiving and plotting evil (In) behaving proudly in the land and in planning evil, and the evil plans shall not beset any save the authors of it. Then should they wait for aught except the way of the former people? For you shall not find any alteration in the course of Allah; and you shall not find any change in the course of Allah. 35:43

What is considered Haram in Islam ? 63. Disbelieving Fate (al-Araf: 99) Verily all things we have created in proportion and measure. But Allah has created you and your handy work. To such as Allah rejects from is guidance there can be no guide. Allah has knowingly left him astray. But you will not except as Allah wills. And its enlightment as to its wrong and its right. Q What is faith (believing) ? The Prophet said to him: Believe in Allah, Angels His Books His Prophets the Day of Judgement, resurrection after death, and fate [good or bad]. Six are those whom I damned and Allah damned and also the Prophets : the disbeliever in fate, the adder in Allah's Book, unjust dominator, the one who permits forbidden things, the one who reduces the honour of the Prophet - or his family by insults or hatred and the leaver of my tradition. The Prophet said: The disobeyer of Parents, the disbeliever in fate, and the drunkard do not enter Paradise. 64. Eating carrion, blood or pork meat (6:145) Say: I do not find in that which has been revealed to me anything forbidden for an eater to eat of except that it be what has died of itself, or blood poured forth, or flesh of swine-- for that surely is unclean- or that which is a transgression, other than (the name of) Allah having been invoked on it; but whoever is driven to necessity, not desiring nor exceeding the limit, then surely your Lord is Forgiving, Merciful. (6:145) 65. Despairing from Allah's Help or forgiveness Do not despair of the mercy of Allah; surely Allah forgives the faults atogether, surely He is the Forgiving the Merciful. (39:54) 66. Continually not performing the Friday prayers and congregational prayers without any valid excuse. Prophet (saw) said, "If people don't stop abandoning the Friday Prayers Allah may seal their hearts and they will become headless" "Whoever hears the call to prayer and doesn't come to prayer, there is no prayer for him say for the one who has valid excuse.