Preety_India

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  1. But I always thought that helping others is a cause worth striving for. At least that's what my school teachers taught me. I grew up watching my dad helping people and it was very inspiring.
  2. That's some great suggestions. Taking notes.
  3. I want to each one of these pictures to convey a statement with emphasis like a strong reminder. This is fun His thumbnail expressions are perfect to make it motivating for me.
  4. Regarding Life Purpose Course and Refunds. @Leo Gura When you get(purchase) the life purpose course and later ask for a refund, do you get the refund? And what happens when you get your refund ? Do you still have access to the course or does the access to the course get terminated once you receive the refund ?
  5. This is a fresh perspective. Thank you. Very helpful.
  6. Thank you for that perspective.
  7. I want to use Leo's pictures as inspiration to work harder. These pictures are simply impressive and a quick way to get instant motivation and reminders I can use them as instant reminders.
  8. This "helplessness" and "crying into the pillow" is not going to work anymore. I need to be Braver. Not just stronger. . But braver I need to take the leap that I'm always hesitant to take. I always feel like - I can't do this. I can't do this This seriously becomes a handicap.
  9. Even when I do any work, it's usually after I have pushed myself too far. It's like this
  10. I need to act stricter with myself. I keep postponing things. I feel soft and comfy comfy all the time I never say anything strictly to myself and this old habit just doesn't die . I have taken the whole hippy hobo liberal thing too seriously..it's fucking me up. All I want to do is sit in a corner and smoke weed. THIS IS NOT LIFE. GET THE FUCK OFF YOUR ASS AND START WORK..
  11. I constantly suffer this emotion or state of helplessness.
  12. I don't agree with you. This goes against female psychology. I can't give you a lengthy explanation because I'm in a hurry right now ( maybe some other day). But what I want to say in short is that women need to get to know the guy better before they can go meet a guy who is a rando stranger that dropped his number. I don't think women make decisions on a whim. There are a thousand thoughts running through a woman's mind when she is thinking about whether to accept or reject. You're completely downplaying the challenges a woman faces in decision making. I understand your issues where you feel like the woman is stringing you along and I admit that it's a horrible and frustrating experience yet it is extremely naive to expect a woman to not want a connection with you before taking things to the next level. Women don't rapidly get intimate, it's just not female nature. We are slow creatures who need time and attention to get accustomed to things. Women are very sensual and everything for a woman is not all about sex. Women are emotional creatures. You're selectively using @Leo Gura 's dating advice to fit your goals and plans.. it's not just about you. You aren't dating plastic doll. You're dating a real human being. Remember Leo always talks about EMOTIONAL STIMULATION. You have completely glossed over it because it obviously needs hard work that you don't want to put in. If you simply want sex, you need to find women who sleep with any random stranger all the time, which I highly doubt because I can only imagine the high risk she is exposing herself to where she doesn't even know the guy and has sex with him, STDs, rape , the list goes on and on. But most women I have interacted with are level headed and would want to get to know a guy well enough before engaging in a relationship with them. Also you need to create some Emotional attraction and emotional stimulation if you want fast results. Because women simply do not walk to a guy's bedroom just because he is a guy. That would be considered a very desperate move for a woman. Women themselves stay away from such desperate behaviour and detest such desperation in other women and men.. Every woman wants a respectful relationship where she feels valued and she feels that the guy dating her is not too desperate. Being desperate with a woman gives her only ONE SIGNAL and that signal is a loud flag that screams - FUCKBOY. So most women immediately flake or move away from the illness called fuckboy because they don't want to be infected by it. There is no value or respect or dignity or anything in being around a fuckboy because it makes the woman feel emotionally deprived and stunted. It makes her ill with guilt and regret. She doesn't want this deal. Unless it's a mutually agreed upon FWB or friends with benefits. But most women who want a healthy relationship just avoid the fuckboys like the plague. That's their greatest fear in dating men, their greatest regret. Compare it to something like men dating a golddigger. Most men would be extremely regretful and disgusted knowing that they are dating a golddigger, if they are high value guys, they are extremely scared of attracting such women, because that's the last thing they want. Similarly a fuckboy is the last thing a woman who considers herself valuable wants. She just hates dating men who belong to that box. Like I said a lot of what you're saying goes against female psychology. Don't peg a woman so cheap. Women want high value relationships, not simply sleeping with any dude who finds them attractive. She wants to know why she should be dating you and not some other guy Give her a reason to want you and desire you.. stand to her standards. Pretty sure most women have basic standards. They don't have a laundry list. So it's kinda easy to pass those standards with minimal effort. All you need to do is give up your limiting beliefs, understand female psychology and what women are attracted to, build Emotional attraction and emotional stimulation and I'm sure some woman will value the time you gave to her From your past posts, you said multiple times that you would open conversations with women by talking about porn. It's an absolute no no It shows you have zero knowledge about female psychology. Before you begin your journey to dating women, at least try to understand women , that will help.
  13. A few days back I had discussed the topic of 3 different paths. And these paths were - The noble path The ego path And the needs path I think I was always thinking of ego as something bad and toxic and in most cases this is absolutely true. However when healthy ego manifests itself,it's a different thing, a huge step away from how toxic ego shows up So when it comes to the ego path,it's all about the ego. But I can carve out a separate path or split the ego path into two separate paths - The toxic ego path And - The healthy empowered ego path.
  14. On my path to cultivating a healthy ego
  15. I had written about the bravery concept on this journal. It means having an "Empowered Perspective " I'm thinking about the Ancient Version of Stage Orange. And it's kinda interesting because it looks better and grander and much less toxic than the modern day version of Stage Orange seen in capitalist highly developed countries that is just rotten.. But the Ancient Version is like the glorious version of the same thing packaged in a different way.
  16. This is about motivation.
  17. @Thought Art @Emerald @SaltyMeatballs Thank you all for your useful suggestions.
  18. Socialization will bring you satisfaction only for some time. Investing in honorable ideas is much better Socialization is for cheap people.
  19. Gonna do some soul Math.