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I always wonder how and why insanely intelligent people still fall for Trump's bullshit. Mind boggling.

I never stopped focusing on a guy's looks. I'm just kidding. For me character of a guy is most valuable. It means a lot. Looks are secondary and don't mean much.

I often feel that. I can relate.

What do you mean by feather? Do you mean an actual bird feather ?

@Rishabh R why aren't you able to move on ?

Forget her, invest in pragmatism and self love and move on Learn to accept human nature. There's going to be many heartbreaks in life.

Yes (masturbation in moderation, porn no )

This thing was in my dreams.

A pill is more or less an idealogy. It doesn't give much room for thinking outside the box

Live your life without judgement. But try to find a why so the brain doesn't rot.

@cookiemonster a man who likes to penetrate women.

I so agree with this. In fact this has been the anthem of my life, I am so sick of Stage Orange everywhere that I don't feel like I belong to this world anymore. Even though I'm an introvert and I enjoy a lot of isolation most of the time, I still want human relationships to be meaningful. Have you heard that proverb - it takes a village to raise a child. I strongly believe in community and social roles changing the landscape of the world. I always think to myself- what am I really without a community? I think western world and especially stage Orange culture has imposed Individualism so heavily into this world. Of course I don't deny collectivism has its problems yet there's no balance in this world when it comes to that.

I love the aqua background on that painting/art I'm totally digging into Indian paintings these days. They are so calming.

I love these indian paintings. So bright.

Good. Don't look at the finger. Look at the moon.

I like that definition. I was never attracted to the bodybuilder types. Or sports or beer. Just a natural man who can be comfortable being a man. Kinda refreshing

I really want to know the difference between "shit tests" and "screening tests." The first time I came across the term "shit tests" is this website/forum. An example would help me understand better. Also I see a recurrent theme where I see people saying that shit Tests are manipulative. I don't know why is that. Why are they considered manipulative? Are shit tests similar to screening tests? I think it's always important to screen a person for potential red flags before having a relationship with them ?

My advice is not tailored for men who are only looking for sex. When I'm talking about dating, it's from the perspective of relationships. So it's not applicable to "only sex" scenarios. With fuckboys that's the problem. They get sex and of course there are girls who offer them that happily. Yet they are rejected and not wanted by women who are looking for serious relationships. Women with relationships in mind screen them out because they're not relationship material. You have to decide what you are looking for. Whether it's a one night stand or casual sex or a solid LTR. My advice is tailored for the latter, that is solid LTR(discounting open relationships, only monogamous relationships) and not the former 2 options.

This. I really need to target this emotion.

Yep.agree.

Crying into the pillow The shit that I do I feel soft all the time and I'm fed up. I act like a soft teddy bear who always needs a hug This thing isn't working anymore I can't live like this

I had so many boyfriends. I had hardly any social contact let alone social circle. I have social anxiety and I'm a super introvert. Don't be fooled by how I appear on the forum, in real life I hardly ever talk to anyone. On top of everything I'm extremely shy So introverts on this forum....you have hope. You can derive hope from me. You can get dates and relationships despite your social introversions and anxieties. And you can even get good quality relationships. I had some awesome dates and relationships. There's always someone who finds your uniqueness attractive.

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Yeah these are Powerful words. I never thought of it this way. It's like I always thought in a single dimensional way. Those words are going to helpful in shifting my perspective when it comes to altruism and philanthropy.