Preety_India

Whenever you think that you're replaceable you're low on self worth. You and I are on two different planes of thinking. You're looking at this in a way like it's some form of competition, more relatable to Stage Orange thinking. I'm looking at this from the Stage Green perspective of intimacy, emphathy and cultivating understanding Not saying I'm being superior. Just saying it's two different things. I'm not looking at it as an elimination round. I'm looking at it from the perspective of building a relationship rather than testing whether a person fits your list of demands. You keep saying that men need to have options. But you're hypocritical because as much you keep trumpeting that men can have options you keep telling a woman that she has zero options or that she will be with a man who has zero options or low value man. Why exactly is he a low value man simply because he isn't interested in chasing whatever pussy he can get ? How exactly do you come to this conclusion ? You're demonizing men who want to wait for a woman trying to imply that he is beta or lame or weak. Perfect definition of toxic masculinity. No. A man wanting a woman and fulfilling her Emotionally is not inferior or superior. He has his needs and preferences just the way you have. Respect that maybe The question you asked is totally irrelevant. Whether a woman has sex on a date or on whatever date is irrelevant. I don't judge that. The discussion was about valuing women. Not making them feel like they're losing something. Nobody is losing anything by simply stating their needs. If you can't honor their needs that's okay but they aren't wrong in wanting what they want. You're like this - you like coffee. But you demonize all others who like tea and not coffee. You're constantly imposing your needs on others and making them look like losers if they can't meet your needs. But you're not realising that you're out of the equation once you don't meet their needs. It's not the same as losing. But you make it out to be that way.

Will discuss the video later.

You're twisting things. You're constantly talking about how you're going to replace women as though they aren't worth your time if they don't do what you want. A woman shouldn't need to and shouldn't have to be at the mercy of your validation. She isn't losing anything as much as you're trying to imply by making her feel replaceable. If you cannot value her enough to value her space and time and intimacy needs, sorry but you don't deserve to have her love in your life and she doesn't need to guilt herself because you replaced her with someone else. You talk to women in a depowering way. Women need to empower themselves enough to not have to put up with this sort of bs And the woman above @modmyth laid out excellent points how men who think this way weed themselves automatically.

This woman....put the video

I agree with you.good perspective.

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Do continuous threading like you're doing now to keep building momentum. Use continuous threading technique to jot down multiple streams of racing thoughts

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I'm so proud that women on this forum @Emerald, @etherial cat @Preety_India @Etherial Cat @modmyth are coming together to fight this notion floating on this forum that women just aren't worth being with a man if they learn to value themselves. We don't need to devalue ourselves as women to get "easy men." We don't need men who can't value us for who we are.. A good self esteem lesson for women is to know that you don't need to be with a man who is already thinking that you're replaceable.

So true.

Build an inspiration thread

There are different components here. Lay out these components.

Invest in self preservation behaviour because it's absolutely important and necessary Leo is teaching me the importance of survival. Learn from Leo.. make a thread on this.

Also learn to pray. Prayer is a great vibration. The energy of a sincere prayer spreads Do continuous threading like you're doing now to keep building momentum. Use continuous threading technique to jot down multiple streams of racing thoughts

. Don't be discouraged by how late all of this has been. Or how long it has taken. Learn and implement, practice now. It's never too late.. This woman....put the video

Look at everything from the meta perspective. What are we really gaining from this ? Was this piece of information worthwhile? Streamline, Optimize..save time... focus on the essential..Cut out Randomness... Grow maturity.... Where are we going with this piece of information ? What are we getting at or are we looking at obvious things? Move quickly to the next. Learn to keep a track. Discipline yourself.. Do beneficial stuff.

Work on integration and implementation. Not just concepts and theory Theory has an expiry date once it's contemplated enough. Look at this from the meta perspective.

Merge both Stage Green and Stage Orange.

Get your shit together.

I totally support this

Learn to see the good in stage Orange. Get rid of the Stage Orange shadow you (that is me) are carrying.

Feed yourself motivational stuff everyday Feed yourself the right kind of mental food everyday You aren't doing this Preety

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Gather and employ resources needed for both productivity, vision, motivation and implementation.. Start the farming work Sow the seeds and harvest.