Preety_India

I combined the stages Red, blue, Orange and green to create a composite stage which I'll call stage Umber. This stage will combine the positive aspects of all the 4 stages

Azure, Lavender, bronze, amber , umber, Apricot, lime, olive, bisque, celadon, Taupe.

This. I need to do this now. Like do it This needs stage Orange. Being ambitious and go getter not just having ambitions..

Stage Red Stage Orange Stage Blue Stage Green

I agree

I know you since some time now. You aren't the guy who will make a lot of mistakes You look attractive and you do have decent skills. So I'm quite confident you'll do great in relationships and in life in general. Don't give into self pity and be happy You're doing good

I can't imagine you commented on my journal. I'm flattered you took time to comment. Thank you so much. It means a lot to me. I like your consistency and positivity. You're very inspiring to me Thank you again.

Look at the stuff you wrote. You're telling a woman that she just doesn't stand a chance with 90% of men. What else do you want to know ? You go around telling a man that they can have multiple options yet to a woman who is highly intelligent , you tell her that her options are too narrow ?

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I think I'll add a ton of quotes to this.

You're asking me if a male's survival is crucial. Of course it is. You don't need me to tell you that.. But look at the context in which I wrote that post. You're taking things out of it without looking at the whole context. The context was this underlying thinking that a woman is in a maiden trap if she exercises her choices. Also this assumption by you that men have so many options and somehow women don't have any ? So I wanted to point out that not only is it impossible to change a woman's survival agenda but also how dysfunctional it would be to consider it to be useful since a woman's survival agenda is deeply connected to the species. Of course I'm not ruling out the role of a male. Yet you fail to see that a woman's survival is not just her own survival. So you aren't gaining much by trying to defeat it or manipulate it to suit yours. If a woman can't find a man, is that good for the species ? That's what I was trying to convey. I did not denigrate a man's role in this.. but this bias that everything is run by men, everything is decided by men is kinda ridiculous, it's deeply rooted in patriarchy that believes that the woman's role doesn't matter much. However that's not the case. When you're assuming that a woman's viewpoint is not relevant, you're cancelling yourself from the equation as well. How does it serve to completely ignore female survival agenda ?

And why won't she get a man ? Why is this thinking by you and others that women are living in fantasy if they're employing their agenda?

Man's survival lies in finding and impregnating a woman to pass on his genes. No woman. No genes.

There is no maiden. There is only a woman. And it doesn't matter to women how you think about women. Women will continue to thrive as they have always been. Nobody beats female survival agenda. If she wants a man, she only needs to look around, they are dime a dozen. But why does she still reject ? Because her survival agenda is more valuable than being with any random man.

It's not about how and why. It just doesn't. Women don't think like that. Just see it on the forum.. You have a hard time accepting @Emerald 's opinion on the forum. But her opinion is completely backed up by female psychology and science. That's why women on the forum are in agreement with her. No amount of your convincing can change how a woman thinks. This is both biological and psychological. You can't change female survival agenda Also remember women produce babies. That's why women are valued automatically by mother nature. You don't like to hear it though, understandable. A woman's survival agenda is not her alone. It's also the survival agenda of her biological clock. This clock wasn't planted by you. (Laughs) This clock was planted by dear Mother Nature. So a woman's survival agenda is crucial to the survival of the species to which she belongs. If her survival agenda is defeated or ignored, the whole species pays a price. So you can't afford to reject a woman's survival agenda. It's crucial to overall survival.

This doesn't relate to women It only relates to your own fantasy of what a woman should be or should have to be.

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Thanks for bringing a refreshing way of looking at things that have been very stagnant bro culture biased for the longest time here. Of course biases exist on both sides, not denying it, but there was too much stifling of the female POV here. And every time this POV comes up, there is a collective uproar from the male crowd.. This uproar is visible in statements like "Serious, some women here are starting to sound delusional" They don't want to ask themselves at least once - "How can all women be wrong at the same time ?" This collective dismissal of women's perspective on this forum is not an indication of error in female POV but the resistance and the inability to accept how women look at things and imposing male POV on female sexuality as @Emerald stated earlier in this thread.

@Etherial Cat thanks girl. (Dancing excitedly in a grass skirt right now )

I get all these racing thoughts. Jot down stuff as it comes up. And then ruminate later.

Lol

Maybe you do it the same way he does.

Nobody ever says that. You're making it. You're doing the exact opposite. You're demonizing women who have other choices. Why are you telling women that they have zero options?