Preety_India

You're looking to be understood without understanding the other ? Can you notice this ?

I'm sorry you had to go through so much. I'm glad that you wonderfully recovered from it all. On the flipside, I can now understand why women are receptive to cold approach.

If you understand women better, you'd be misunderstood less by them. By understanding them right, you'll be in flow with them. By denying this, you're only looking to impose yourself on women, which never works and leads you to be misunderstood by them

Yea I get it that it's neediness but I also think it's neediness combined with some insecurity. Insecurity breeds fear and fear causes a person to react more strongly than usual. It's not a good place to be in because it keeps hurting the person in cycles and these cycles are difficult to stop. It becomes a wound that's difficult to heal and easily leads to flaring up whenever that wound is touched. That wound needs to heal so it doesn't flare up again. Also under the influence of such insecurities, the mind finds it difficult to differentiate between reality and thoughts and this leads to a lot of misunderstanding. For example if you hold the insecurity that your girlfriend might cheat on you, then even if your girlfriend is simply talking to a random guy, your mind will interpret it as her trying to cheat on you or more interested in that guy leading to unnecessary confusions and conflicts eventually destroying the relationship. So inner work on targeting these insecurities is important.

You're right about this and I apologise if you felt a bit judged..and you should discuss with the therapist only if you are comfortable in my opinion.

This productivity school concept and the studio concept are definitely going to be very useful. I'm going to focus on stage Umber.

Make short notes.

I'm glad I'm able to help you. I read your post like 4 times, I had to put a lot of effort in trying to understand how you were feeling exactly. Because it's online and written stuff, it's incredibly hard to get to know how you are exactly thinking about the situation. Yet I apologise if I said anything that might not have been true but even then I get the opportunity to know more about you when you deny it so it kinda refines my understanding

One thing was being a studio artist. And the second thing was to be in a ?? school. I'll call it the productivity school

Why ?

Well good to know.

I really really need this.

That made me laugh so hard.

Why ?

Vegan diet

I also need some motivation videos.

Keep a track of time.

Stage Red Strong survival needs Raw adaptation Stage Blue Strong ethics and integrity Stage Orange Self preservation Stage Green Love and creativity, Passion and growth Stage Umber All the above