Preety_India

This is my honest attempt to be a high quality woman. So my feelings here are going to be my truest feelings.

It's ok. Poets can be cheating types, writing poems for every girl who passes by. Lot of shady poets out there, lying through poetry A German Engineer is better. No empty poetry but a honest heart.

@LastThursday I need to be on the same page as you, but I'm guessing you're light years ahead of me.

My kind of Man. Proud of German men now.

Yea I can imagine. Meeting guys can be a very different experience. I would have loved too. But I'm very shy. Not sure if I would hang out with many men. Probably just one guy. I'm like the One guy kind of girl. I tend to recoil into seclusion if that one guy doesn't turn up to my expectations.

Women hide porn under the bed, specifically under a pillow, if you know what I mean. Cheeky.

Ah that so sweet. German men are a beautiful prize.

Well obviously. Are they going to tell you? Most likely not.

In my country it only works through dating sites and that's why it's so hard. I wish it was like western countries where you can meet people freely. Here in my country, there's not a single club in my city. Any club is packed with men, but not the good kind of men, type of men who are into criminal stuff. There are no cool couple hangouts. Guys in my country flock online to look for matches. Once the girl finds the guy safe enough to meet, that's when she proceeds to set up a date. Now with corona it's difficult to go out. And even if it wasn't Corona, the flake rate from girls is pretty high because most guys online are unsafe. So the girl has to be strategic. Lot of screening and only then meeting in safe place. The only method we follow for dating in my country is first text and then meet. If the texting doesn't match with expectations of decent behaviour, there won't be any date for that guy So flaking is obviously high. Yet there are a lot of good men too. It's just that I will have to keep wading through loads and loads of male profiles, text a lot and then hit the jackpot with a good guy. Which is a lot of hard work. But I'm ready to put in hard work this year. I'm too frustrated and I need a man desperately, I mean a good man.

@Hulia @Hulia @StarStruck Turns out I need to meet more guys huh ! And I need to stop flaking on men.

You have a nice way around words Captain Coach!

@flowboy what If it actually works!

Wakey wakey! Flakey flakey !

I'll use these female characters as inspiration. Integrating elements from them into my life Kelenjer helps me to think in chill ways, free spirit she is. Zozha is all spirituality and boho. Mireya makes me achieve more and more, refine more and more, struggle more and more, mature more and more. Finasiska helps me understand the psychology of confidence and abundance.

I want to ask this question to myself everyday. It helps

Haha a liar ??

So yea the list is ready. List of characters - Zozha, Kelenjer, Mireya,Finasiska. Zozha Mireya. Finasiska Kelenjer

Me too.

I don't know why I get this feeling that you're stewing yourself in this. Too much theory, little practice. No real results. Just more theory to justify not getting those results.. This whole ruthless thing is not going to help you, you're trying to nail it down to some science when girls can reject you practically for no reason. I can see a Domino effect in your posts. You're stacking up theories like Domino's. And one day it will simply crumble to let you know that it was only a house of cards.. Maybe this is the byproduct of pickup culture where guys eventually assume there's territory that they have to navigate, a territory of theorists that will fit why they got rejected or why they got accepted. Now if I tell you something funny. What if I told you that girls just don't know anything. This line is very popular in pickup circles that women don't know what they want. If women didn't know what they want, how are you sure why they accepted you, how are you sure why they rejected you. I'll tell you something. They reject you for nothing. They accept you for nothing. I had 40 guys waiting to meet me this week. I rejected all of them. You know what, I rejected them because in that moment I wasn't in a good mood. So I did it. It had nothing to do with the guys. Now if they assume something, that will be funny. I find it funny because you want a list of reasons why this happens,why that happens. Now look. If you go fishing, don't ask why the fish is not coming to you. Maybe the fish is going somewhere else. Maybe the fish have no clue you're there. What I mean dating, your hook up dating, is very whimsical and niche oriented. Maybe in your supermarket a girl might say no or flake. But if you walked into a club , you might end up several females willing to hookup. Maybe it's not about reasons but merely chance that comes to those who try more than others. Go out. Build your confidence. It seems you aren't going to enough places. You're just dovetailing around yourself so that you snugly fit into the picture you have created where you won't have to worry about trying more or trying harder. It's like going in circles and then complaining why you aren't getting anywhere. But you are in that circle because you don't like coming out of it . Whatever you are doing comes back to just one phrase - lack of confidence. You're trying to mask confidence as ruthlessness. But confidence is what you should be looking for.

Great points.

I automatically assumed that your ex girlfriend had been cheating. However if she was simply flirting, That's not cheating. Cheating would be if she had an affair or relationship with someone else while being your girlfriend. If she had been sleeping with that person. Cheating is when a person is in a relationship and is still sleeping with someone else outside of the relationship. Usually this happens in secret. And gets discovered later. If your ex girlfriend hasn't had sex with another guy during your relationship with her, then technically she did not cheat on you. There's also a milder version of sexual cheating and that can be called emotional cheating where the partner develops feelings for someone else but hasn't cheated sexually. However this is just as hurtful as conventional cheating.

Mireya A characyer that's highly intelligent.very matured. Handles every situation with ease.

Mireya Kelenjer

The last one is Mireya Zozha Finasiska

@flowboy you look ?