Preety_India

How much spite can you taken from others ?

Where did they go ?

I want this thread locked. It is turning into a slut shaming fest. @Moksha

So every time I talk to a guy, if he says anything sexual or sexual innuendos, I get turned on and get horny very quickly. Like feminine sexual submission. But I hate it later that i felt sexual. I regret it and feel ashamed. I want to talk to a guy without feeling overwhelmed by sexual thoughts. Their flirting has an intense impact on me. I quickly get arousal. Of course the guy can sense this and he feels very empowered and I feel very defeated. What are some suggestions and strategies that I can use while conversing with a guy that will prevent me from getting horny and distract me from it. I don't want to submit so easily.

Oh yea. Sometimes me too.

I have absolutely no idea what that meant. That was total Greek.

I'm not a man

I'm not promiscuous. Wtf

I see.

Lol.

Really ?

It's ok.

That's what journal is supposed to be

You know how to improve IQ?

I need to focus on what I haven't done already. All lists Reading And new stuff learning Get busy. Also focus on dating. Wealth building Don't look for validation Don't care about Mutual admiration society

feminine-traits who-i-should-date-and-who-i-shouldnt-date validation-is-a-stupid-thing this-forum-is-making-me-horny-i-have-to-do-nofap intimacy being-gaslit greatness winderbeetle-and-suburbians loneliness-and-high-eq gods-house self-esteem-lessons

What am I looking for? Maybe mental peace.

@Hulia lmao. Go do yoga. Teach al ex

Knowing how Soonhei/Sunny committed suicide for no apparent reason other than a belief, I'm gobsmacked that this was the reaction given, this is a few months after that suicide. Are people still wondering that suicides don't happen over petty things. Sometimes what appears to be a petty reason to kill oneself is usually the last straw in a long saga of sob stories piling up and there are deeper underlying festering issues that are responsible for the suicide yet people often cite petty things because they themselves aren't very aware of the underlying causes. Please be fair and empathetic in your assessment rather than being judgemental in the name of tough love.

Cigars aren't really dangerous. Try some next time. They're simply hyped too much.

I mostly wish to focus on feminine traits. They are helpful with differentiating from masculine traits

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I honor your perspective. I like to have a sharp distinction between male and female virtues and then look at it from a meta perspective, integrating both into my character, and forcing myself to have these, I simply call it discipline. I lack a lot of masculine virtues and I have already made entries about in the following post in my journal. List of masculine traits I have mostly feminine virtues and I shouldn't lose them while cultivating masculine ones so I decided to note down feminine virtues as well. I see Feminine traits as directly opposed and diametrically opposite to masculine traits. It wouldn't really benefit me if I try to find a middle ground or mix both of them because I wish to cultivate these traits exclusively, independent of each other. Also I wear my femininity with pride so I don't see my submissive nature as something to be ashamed of, nor do I see it as opposed to feminism in any way. I don't find these virtues as "patriarchy imposed" since I find them perfectly natural and in tune with my femininity,and so I don't see them as conforming to any sort of male validation or patriarchy approved virtues. I don't suffer from any kind of penis envy so if I don't Collab them with masculine traits, that sits perfectly okay with me, I don't find it sexist at all, they perfectly complement who I am and who I want to be.

@mememe bold and adventurous doesn't look feminine to me. And preachy females come across as masculine to me.

Date a guy who is Strong Firm Confident Provider Secure Loyal Loving Supportive Non emotional Logical Sensitive Understanding Not into superficial things Not flaunting or showing off Not society oriented Relationship material