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Broadly, what are the dangers of psychedelics? I'm getting increasingly frustrated how this place keep promoting psychedelics so freely.

How exactly are they going to be presenting a physical danger to you and how does this danger to you aid their survival? Can you elaborate?

You are bipolar? Not meaning to offend.

This will scare the shit out of me. I like to stay calm. Hyper with thoughts can get me upset I'm a cool cucumber. Suggest me something that helps me stay calm. Any psychedelic like that?

@thisintegrated I'm not an extrovert. Acid does cause crash. It takes a ton of energy because it keeps you high, will obviously cause crash. You have some half baked deluded ideas about everything. My INFJ overlaps a lot with ISFJs so I get it but I'm not that. My dominant is introverted intuition.

@thisintegrated @Carl-Richard didn't take it but watched a friend of mine take it and it wasn't so great. They didn't have any insights particularly and they became very exhausted after like 8 hours, during a comedown and they were disoriented, groggy, depressed and exhausted for next 3 days they couldn't go to work. Needless to say, it wasn't a big deal.

This all looks like a big mindfuck to me.

So I have been diagnosed with autism and I want to pursue a writing career. I feel my autism is a hindrance when I write and I have finally figured that my autism is responsible for my articulation issues. Is there anyone who has improved their autism difficulties/disabilities with regard to writing and can you please suggest what methods you found effective in this area. Thank you.

I feel deeply burned. I'm finding difficulty in articulating this. But I'm trying to get the idea across. Lately I'm coming to some terrible conclusions and I don't wish to be sexist at all. I don't put much thought into what I do and I often act naive. I'm a feeling kind of a person and I usually operate from emotions. I can't give a proper context for whatever happened in the past one year because it would be too personal to share on a forum. So I have been coming to terrible conclusions on my relationships with men both in the personal/romantic as well as general context. And this conclusion (might appear sexist but this is my personal experience) is that for a woman it's not a good idea to ever cross a man whether it be relationship or in general. Not all men are going to mistreat you. But a lot of men (depends on the man you're dealing with), are going to give you(the woman) a very tough time for crossing him/them. And I was blissfully unaware of this until I got fully burned after I rejected a guy last year and had a fight with him because I was upset by his behavior. But at my workplace, he gave me a very hard time and completely trashed my reputation in return, I paid the price for months for that, to the point I begged him to leave me alone and I was forced to give him an apology and he still wouldn't budge. So I apologized to him multiple times and tried to make peace with him to the cost of my own personal worth and dignity, I had to swallow my pride as a woman and surrender to his sexual aggression where he would use this opportunity to say vile sexual things to me and I put up with so that he won't be angry with me anymore. I think he pressured me an awful lot and I didn't have sex with him but this angered him so much. I have learned a thing or two from my personal experiences. My biggest mistake in that situation was that I crossed him on his work standards and I did not do it out of malice. I just did it casually because I genuinely felt he could do better and that he was misunderstanding certain people at work so I took him to task and confronted him on his behavior and told him to improve. This massively triggered his ego (which I was unaware of at the time ) and he came to me rather aggressively and threatened that he would make me quit. He then maligned my name by inventing some nonsense and would send me late night sexual texts to test my reserve. I felt completely weak after that because I suffered a shit ton since he had good relations with the boss and I was suspended for a month on false claims made by him and then my reputation suffered permanent damage. I learned the lesson to never cross a man (as I had naively done at the time) and that men come aggressively and give a hard time to a woman emotionally/sexually/mentally, of course they can't hit her (they would land in jail if they got physical with her), and I think a lot of men inherently feel guilty for hitting a woman (other men feel guilty too and jump into white knight mode especially if the woman is helpless physically or unable to defend), and so these Hyper aggressive men (not all men are this way so by no means am I generalizing, it's mostly the patriarchal types who have a certain level of ego/machismo) use mental /sexual/emotional ways to control the woman who has crossed them and try their best to burn her to the ground. That experience has made me awfully weak inside and somewhat terrified of men and left me with the realization that If I crossed a man again he would burn me down and the only one who will suffer is me and so I have to be careful and not trigger a man even unintentionally because his wrath against me would be difficult to deal with and the consequences would be bad. Just trying to vent and share and gaining perspective on reality. Trying to figure out this mental game with men. Sorry for venting, nothing personal.

ISFJ: The Protector (Introverted, Sensing, Feeling, Judging) ISFJ stands for introverted, sensing, feeling, Judging. Key ISFJ Characteristics They Are Observant While people with this personality type are introverted and tend to be quiet, they are keen observers and are focused on other people. Because they are so perceptive, ISFJs are good at remembering details about other people. They Tend to Repress Their Emotions Those with this personality type are particularly well-tuned into the emotions and feelings of others. While ISFJs are good at understanding their own emotions, they often struggle to express them. Rather than share their feelings, they may bottle them up, sometimes to the point that negative feelings toward other people can result. When dealing with life struggles, such as illness or the death of a loved one, they may keep quiet about what they are experiencing to avoid burdening others with their troubles. They Are Practical People with this personality prefer concrete facts over abstract theories. As a result, they tend to learn best by doing. They thrive in This also means that they usually value learning for its practical applications. They also tend to become more interested in new things when they can see and appreciate how it might solve a real-world problem. They Are Creatures of Habit ISFJs enjoy structure and strive to maintain this order in all areas of their lives. They thrive in highly structured and consistent environments where they are given step-by-step instructions and clear expectations. Their preference to keep things the way they are rather than change. But this does not mean ISFJs aren't adaptable. They simply prefer to have time to think about and prepare for big changes. Strengths Reliable Practical Sensitive Eye for detail Weaknesses Dislikes abstract concepts Avoids confrontation Dislikes change Neglects own needs Dominant: Introverted Sensing This function leads the introverted sensing types to focus on details and facts. ISFJs prefer concrete information rather than abstract theories. They are highly attuned to the immediate environment and firmly grounded in reality. Because of this tendency to focus on and protect what is familiar, ISFJs are often seen as highly traditional. When making decisions, ISFJs compare their vivid recall of past experiences in order to predict the outcome of future choices and events. Auxiliary: Extraverted Feeling ISFJs place a great emphasis on personal considerations. Extraverted feelers are focused on developing social harmony and connection. This is accomplished through behaviors that are viewed as socially appropriate or beneficial, such as being polite, kind, considerate, and helpful. ISFJs try to fill the wants and needs of other people, sometimes even sacrificing their own desires in order to ensure that other people are happy. Tertiary: Introverted Thinking ISFJs are planners and tend to be very well-organized. They utilize logic in order to understand how the world works. As ISFJs take in new information and experiences, look for connections and commonalities in order to find patterns. Rather than simply trying to understand a small part of something, they want to see how things fit together and how it functions as a whole. Inferior: Extraverted Intuition While ISFJs tend to be focused on the present and on concrete facts, this largely unconscious function can help balance the ISFJ personality by helping the individual focus on possibilities. Taking in facts and then exploring the "what-ifs" can lead to new insights about problems. Personal Relationships Because they are quiet, people sometimes misinterpret this as standoffish behavior. However, ISFJs are compassionate and caring toward others, often working to secure the safety and well-being of other people without asking for thanks or anything in return. ISFJs are often described as kind, reliable, and trustworthy. Because they are hard-working, dependable, and rarely seek accolades for their own accomplishments, ISFJs are sometimes taken for granted by those around them. In some cases, people might even try to take advantage of this reliability. ISFJs tend to have a small group of very close friends. While they may be quiet and reserved around people they don’t know well, they are more likely to "let loose" when they are around these close confidants. They place a high value on these close friendships and are always willing to support and care for the people to whom they are close. Career Paths ISFJs have many characteristics that make them well-suited to particular careers. Because they are so attuned to the feelings of others, jobs in mental health or the healthcare industry are a good fit. They are also meticulous and orderly, making them suited to jobs that involve planning, structure, or attention to detail. Their commitment to their work, reliability, and ability to work independently make them attractive to a wide variety of employers. Because of their solid people skills and desire to create order, they often do well in management or administrative roles. They excel at coming up with plans and helping other people work together to achieve a common goal. Popular ISFJ Careers Accountant Administrator Banker Bookkeeper Child care provider Counselor Nurse Office Manager Paralegal Social worker Teacher Friendships If you are friends with an ISFJ, you are probably already aware that they tend to be warm and selfless. Even though they are quite social for introverts, they are not always good at sharing their own feelings. Asking them how they are doing and being willing to talk can help them to open up. You can help be a good friend by paying attention to their needs. Take the time to see what they might need you to do for them. Parenting ISFJs are natural caregivers and are very nurturing toward their children. They are good at giving their kids structure and order, but sometimes have a difficult time enforcing discipline. If you are the parent of an ISFJ child, be aware of your child's need to have time alone. Also, be aware that your child may be willing to give up things that are important to them to make other people happy. Encourage them to pursue their interests and goals and remind them that meeting their own needs is important as well.

ISTJ resources

Came across this today

ISTJ ISTJ (introversion, sensing, thinking, judgment) is a four-letter code representing one of the 16 personality types found on the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). People with an ISTJ personality type tend to be reserved, practical and quiet. They enjoy order and organization in all areas of their lives including their home, work, family, and projects. ISTJs value loyalty in themselves and others, and place an emphasis on traditions. ISTJs are planners; they like to carefully plan things out well in advance. They enjoy an orderly life. They like things to be well-organized and pay a great deal of attention to detail. When things are in disarray, people with this personality type may find themselves unable to rest until they have set everything straight and the work has been completed. ISTJs are both responsible and realistic. They take a logical approach to achieving goals and completing projects and are able to work at a steady pace toward accomplishing these tasks. They are able to ignore distractions in order to focus on the task at hand and are often described as dependable and trustworthy. ISTJs also place a great deal of emphasis on traditions and laws. They prefer to follow rules and procedures that have previously been established. In some cases, ISTJs can seem rigid and unyielding in their desire to maintain structure. Strengths Detail-oriented Realistic Present-focused Observant Logical and practical Orderly and organized Weaknesses Judgmental Subjective Tends to blame others Insensitive Dominant: Introverted Sensing Introverted sensors are focused on the present moment, taking in an abundance of information about their surroundings. They also have vivid memories of the past and rely on the memories of these experiences to form expectations for the future. Auxiliary: Extraverted Thinking ISTJs are logical and efficient. They enjoy looking for rational explanations for events. They prefer to focus on the details rather than thinking about abstract information. Being efficient and productive is important for people with this personality type. They appreciate knowledge that has immediate, practical applications. ISTJs make decisions based on logic and objective data rather than personal feelings. Tertiary: Introverted Feeling As they make judgments, ISTJs often make personal interpretations based on their internal set of values. This is often described as an "instinct" or "gut feeling" about a situation. ISTJ might make a decision based on logic, only to have this feeling kick in telling them to trust their feelings rather than just the facts. Inferior: Extraverted Intuition This aspect of personality enjoys new ideas and experiences. This is the weakest part of the ISTJs personality, but developing this function can sometimes lead to a more balanced personality. Personal Relationships ISTJs prefer spending time alone or with small groups of close friends. People with this personality type are usually very loyal and devoted to family and friends but may struggle to understand their own emotions and the feelings of others. They can be quite reserved and sometimes fail to pick up on the emotional signals given by other people. However, once they are close to a person and develop an understanding of that person's feelings and needs, they will expend a great deal of effort toward supporting those needs. Career Paths Because of this need for order, they tend to do better in learning and work environments that have clearly defined schedules, clear-cut assignments, and a strong focus on the task at hand. When learning new things, ISTJs do best when the material is something they view as useful with real-world applications. Concrete, factual information appeals to ISTJs, while theoretical and abstract information has little value unless they can see some type of practical use for it. While they may exert tremendous energy into projects they see as valuable, they will avoid wasting time and energy on things that they view as useless or unpractical. Popular ISTJ Careers Accountant Computer Programmer Dentist Doctor Librarian Lawyer Police Officer or Detective Military Leader Tips for Interacting With ISTJs Friendships ISTJs tend to get along best with friends who are similar to themselves. While they tend to be a bit serious and by the book, they do like to have fun. They might not be willing to jump into new things, but you can be a great friend by helping them pursue hobbies and activities that they enjoy. Parenting ISTJ parents tend to be quite focused on tradition and are good at providing security and stability to their children. Children of ISTJ parents often find that their parents will treat them with care and respect and that they also expect the same treatment in return. Parents of ISTJ children will find that providing consistency can help their children feel more secure. Sticking to routines, introducing change slowly, and giving them time to adjust to new situations are all ways to help an ISTJ child. Relationships While ISTJs may experience deep feelings, they often struggle to show that side of themselves in romantic relationships. You can be an understanding partner by not expecting them to bare their soul to you right off the bat. Sometimes it may seem that your partner is not considering your feelings, but you can help them see your side by rationally presenting facts and logical explanations for your side of the argument.

I was suspended before I could do it.

@BuddhistLover hahaha.

Here's what I replied a few months ago to another thread on eye contact issues- Quote I had the same problem. I couldn't maintain eye contact with people. I used to look at the floor when talking to them with hints of eye contact here and there. In a 30 second long convo, 10 sec would be below average eye contact while the rest would be me staring awkwardly at the floor. And this was, of course, extremely unattractive and awkward. I had this problem more with girls than with guys. Now I hold strong eye contact with whoever I am talking to, whether girl or boy. So how did I make this shift? I travel in metro for 1 hour each during morning and evening. People sit facing each other in the metro. During the 2 hour travel time, I make laser strong eye contact with anyone who I "accidentally" lock eyes with. Anyone: girl, boy, old man, child, beautiful, ugly, etc. The trick I follow is that I don't break eye contact unless the other person does. And I succeed 95% of the time. And boy, does it get awkward. The longest I held was around 7 seconds. Now 7 seconds may sound very normal, but it's normal only during a convo with a person you know. Not with a stranger who isn't conversing with you. It gets super awkward and tense. I even think sometimes that the girl I am eye-contacting may get up and slap me for staring at her. Or it can start a verbal/physical fight with a guy. Luckily, it hasn't happened yet. I follow the same rule with the girls and guys in my college. But only during convos. Treat your convos like staring contests. I did this exercise in metros quite rigorously for 2 months. I didn't learn it from anywhere, it just struck my mind one day. And I still do it now, just not so aggressively. If my eye contact with a particular person becomes too long or awkward (this usually happens after 5 seconds), I break it. Simply because it starts becoming- Creepy and perverted- If it is with a woman. Aggressive and "come fight with me"- If it is with a man. This simple exercise improved my eye contact from 2/10 to 7/10. Now it doesn't even seem like an exercise. It is natural for me to lock eyes with someone for 3 seconds, before I even realize what's up. You can say that my "safety timer" shifted from 0.5 seconds to 3 seconds. Beyond 3 seconds, tension starts building up, but still doable. Beyond 5 seconds, I usually break it. It is yet to reach a level where I can stare straight into a stranger's eyes for more than 7 seconds, without any flinching or hesitation whatsoever. But for now, I am happy with my results. I can stare right into a cute girl's eyes for 5 seconds straight(while talking to her). No big deal. Actually, this problem could be deeper than just eye contact. Ever since I got into a rut of chronic health issues and depression, my eye contact naturally became terrible; and so did my overall confidence, humour, and "aliveliness". I wasn't the most charismatic guy out there, but I was average in all these departments. When depression struck, I rock-bottomed in all these departments. Even now I am terrible in all other aspects, because depression is still there. My eye contact has become strong because I deliberately trained it through brute-force. Even with such training, if I get into a very bad depressive "low", my eye contact starts becoming shaky. Because your eye contact isn't isolated from the rest of your life. It is deeply connected with all other aspects of your life. PS: I see that you are suffering from multiple psychological issues. I want you to understand both the scope and limitation of this exercise. This exercise (or any other exercise for that matter) will work only when you have a certain baseline level of physical and psychological health. Your first and utmost priority should be bringing your body-mind structure to such a level that these issues come into "solvable territory" for you. Like Leo said, become a level 8 human being, and a level 5 obstacle isn't even an obstacle for you. Whereas for a level 2 human being, it's simply impossible to cross that obstacle. I know you are already taking notes and working through your issues, and I appreciate that. Just wanted to give you a customized perspective. And then with that temporary feeling embodiment, you walk through the street and you look people in the eye confidently, you open your heart, you unapologetically penetrate them with sexual energy, you feel grounded, solid and just powerful. Woman don't know you. They have no previous connection with you. They only now see your powerful aura. And then when your consciousness disconnects from those parts of the body, then you shrink into your baseline bubble and she won't be attracted to.

Write here. Record here.

@Ramu you are welcome

This is all because of my autism I'm fastly going through a downspiral. If only I had known what I was doing. This would have never happened. I didn't suffer too much after April 10. Whatever happened on April 13 put a heavy strain on me mentally. I didn't know what was to come. I was heavily depressed and acting maniacal and autistic. I gave into whatever evil presence came to me. I suffered terribly. I opened up about my bpd struggles only to be horribly judged and attacked for it. I made one mistake and I paid a heavy price. Devi why? Why must I suffer for being honest and loving? I was merely defending myself?

@Ramu then the only solution is to get the pure substance in my opinion next time when you do it. Sorry you had such an experience.

Could it be possible that you just weren't in the mood?

Devi I invoke you to protect me. Please protect me from monsters who are out to get me.

Devi none of this is my fault. Lots of things are happening against me and I feel helpless. You know I have worked extremely hard and my existence is being challenged.

Devi please help me. I feel helpless and awful. I feel cornered, weak and terrorized. I feel tortured and my power taken away. Devi please give me strength. This period is testing me so hard I have worked so hard. Devi why don't you do something? I'm so fed up with being victimized.