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@itachi uchiha thanks

@itachi uchiha thanks.

Thanks I'll look into that.

@Karmadhi I don't like to judge people on their looks but since you brought up looks ill say - Judging by your profile pic, you look better than 60% men. You don't have any reason to feel insecure. You just have to be right with your approach and approach an emotionally resonant girl. She will be nice with you and she won't leave you. The key lies in your hands only.

@K Ghoul lmao incubus.

Don't care too much about what other guys think. Maybe they are not emotionally developed. Lack of emotional development is a handicap in relationships. You don't need to focus on people who never put much effort in developing themselves. Again you're trying to attract the wrong kind of girl. Why are you so focused on attracting someone that doesn't match your values? Its like me being attracted to abusive assholes and then complaining about them. I have to change my mindset because abusive assholes will always exist. Again wrong here. I have been hit on by guys who only wanted sex. It was a trap rather than a privilege. It in fact caused me to completely give up dating because my needs of intimacy were never met. Guys like you hardly approach girls Most guys who approach girls are very manipulative and girls end up with bad experiences. But most girls want a guy like you however guys like you hardly approach. Why are trying to attract a girl who is only interested in looks? What makes you think that she would be interested in you and offer you an intimate connection when she is only interested in superficial things like money and looks and doesn't wish to appreciate you for who you are? Why not attract a woman who doesn't care about looks? For example, I dated a guy who was my second ex who was quite unattractive and had no charm or anything attractive or special. This is because I didn't care about looks There are plenty and plenty of girls who don't care about looks or money or anything at all. They only want intimacy and connection. If you approach them, they will easily want to be your girlfriend. This is like saying I want to date a millionaire who sleeps with a different woman every day and I'm also expecting an emotional connection from him. But how is this possible? He is just not that type of person who can give me that. But there are several guys who can give me emotional connection, maybe I should look for them instead of chasing the millionaire? You're chasing people who are into superficial things so you will also end up with superficial results. They will dump you as soon as they find another rich handsome guy. Why would you want that? Look for people who actually share your values. Then you will find someone equally compatible and you won't have to deal with this frustration you're facing.

@Loba yep I'll try that in my next witch ceremony. I have several of those ceremonial knives.

This has hardly anything to do with age. More to do with emotional maturity from person to person. Find women in your age group who are more emotionally matured if emotionally maturity is what you are looking for. As regards to women in their 30s,even they can be emotionally immature if that's how they choose to be. A choice in a man is not dependent on age but what a woman wants. Even a 40 year old woman might want a macho masculine guy. And a 20 year old woman can prefer a guy who is emotionally resonant. Look for the right woman who aligns with your emotionality If you are looking in the wrong places and expecting women to behave nice in those wrong places, you won't get the outcome you are looking for. You're creating a classic paradox and expecting a miracle out of it Again you're looking for women who will dump you You're pegging yourself low. If I looked for men who would eventually dump me, I am the only one to be blamed You're wrong here This is because you aren't developed enough. If you develop your inner core, you will begin to crave intimacy and connection just as women do To think that a man doesn't crave emotional connection is dumb toxic masculinity. Most men simply follow the stereotype created by Toxic Masculinity and never question it. Well obviously It's not. When were men told that they can express their emotions freely and openly? Answer is never. It's like a dog endlessly chasing its tail. If you were taught to be intimate you would have no problem in feeling and experiencing intimacy with a woman, in turn you would also look for more fulfilling relationships. You create a toxic loop and get stuck in it.

@Loba I had been researching on this topic for the past week I found this video that was a bit helpful. To get rid of negative cords.

100 % My whole point basically.

This part only applies to immature women who take men at face value. It's good for sex. But not for an organic relationship. It gives a good ego boost to men. But it doesn't teach men to be wholesome. If a man wants true fulfillment, stop looking for validation from women, integrate the feminine to access your deeper manhood and become and live the life of a wholesome man. Don't pander to societal expectation of masculinity. It is very misleading and a huge trap for men.

Can you elaborate please? How did red pill make it's way into this thread.

@Karmadhi a lot of guys also need to integrate the feminine. A man too hung up on his masculinity is boring to a female because she can't relate to him

The perception of women in some of these threads is ridiculous. Stop putting women on a pedestal and then bringing them down. Some of these guys act like women are holy goddesses going around crushing men at every corner. Women are just like men, as humanly as men. We are just like you. If you want a decent relationship, we want a decent relationship too. You try to make us look like some mysterious puzzle that needs to be cracked after attending hours of Rsd. No. We're no mystery. The only reason I would reject a guy is if he doesn't resonate with me. It's that simple. You make being with a woman so so extra complicated. It's your mind making up theories and assuming things that aren't true in the female perspective. Do you even speak to women as much as you read about them? Go approach women.. Get friendly. Stop nonsense limiting beliefs that only look for confirmation bias and extension of victimhood. Set your mind free and approach rather than complain about female nature. The amount of effort you put in remaining in your biases and stuck in philosophy, if you put even 10 % in actually making a woman feel good, you'll definitely land a girlfriend in no time We aren't so complicated as we are made out to be.

Then they are probably looking for women in the wrong place. Most women don't have a problem with being with an average dude. I have dated average men. Ask women on the forum if you want. No woman is desperately hunting for a millionaire.

Because they're lower than average. Plus you can't decide the whole population of women on the basis of a ghetto app like Tinder. Most women on Tinder from what I have heard are scammers and are looking to get someone to scam them out of their money. Who in the right mind judge women on the basis of Tinder?

In most cases statistically, men are more likely to cheat in a marriage than women. Women are bound to their family by their children. As a woman ages, she finds it difficult to get a partner so she is more likely to stay with the person she is married to Women show higher commitment to their partners once they have children because biologically women are conditioned to look for security and stability. They don't want an unstable lifestyle of multiple partners. They want the safety and security of a home, husband and children. So they are less likely to cheat. Also women experience strong biological and emotional connection with the guy they are consistently sleeping with as a result of the female biology and this is another reason they are less likely to cheat. This only looks true on paper. In reality women don't go around seeking partners at the rate men do. Women are also more likely to reject. Having sex is not always the best option for women. They can get accidentally pregnant or they might have to be on birth control pills. Such decisions aren't easy on women. Because it means compromising or interfering with their biology. Unlike men, women have hangups around sex that women don't openly talk about. They have their own fears, insecurities and anxieties. Being with a man is like a constant job for a woman. Being a girlfriend or a wife is not an easy thing. Most women have already experienced an abusive or toxic relationship by the time they are 22,especially if they are sexually free and open to dating. 1 out of 5 women in the US have experienced some form of sexual assault by some they have known in their life So externally it appears as though women enjoy privilege when it comes to getting sex don't mistake this as actual privilege. Women hardly ever want what men want. Women don't want to go around wanting to have sex with multiple men, it's not something she finds a desirable goal. So this privilege is practically useless to her It's like gifting someone something they find completely useless. Not only do women don't find anything of great privilege in finding easy sex, as that's what they are never looking for, they find it super annoying when undesirable men constantly annoy them with requests for sex. That's the last they want. I agree that rejection is quite painful and men have to approach. However rejection can happen on both sides although being rejected by a man is not that frequent. We have to take into account how women are generally discouraged from approaching men actively by a patriarchal society. A woman being forward with her taste in men is generally regarded masculine or undesirable. Also if the tables were reversed and if women mostly approached men the same thing would happen to them. If men were spoilt for choice, they would reject women as well. Why would someone want to be hit on if they were already in a relationship? I don't think cheating is a good thing. Again. A woman could end up dating a rapist or a axe murderer. She does not feel as free as you automatically assume A man can move on.. In most relationships where men abandon women, they go for a younger woman, a woman younger than their girlfriend or wife. This is nothing new. Women don't have much privilege once the man thinks she is used up enough. Men are still privileged to date younger women. Most older women once they are divorced find difficult to get a partner because men of their own age don't want them. So not much privilege. Men as long as they are attractive, their age won't matter and in fact they can even get much younger women. The pendulum of privilege or the lack thereof swings in both directions.

Isn't this something that even men do? Like do men approach women that they find unattractive? I've always observed this double standard in the dating section where if a man wants a desirable woman, he is doing exactly what he needs to do yet when a woman wants to be with a man who she finds desirable, it is painted as an undeserving privilege or some sort of injustice or unfairness So a woman should not look for a man who is desirable in her eyes yet a man is completely free to make his choices in women?

I know right. It's such a delusional idea floating on the internet spread and perpetuated by people who suffer deep insecurities Ironically its these same insecurities that actually prevent them from a wholesome relationship.

It's not true that a woman wants to secure a top man. This is a manufactured concept out of the red pill book. Women choose partners on the basis of whatever clicks with them in the phase of life they're at.

@Marcel You're the best thing that happened to me I'm so grateful I love you with all my heart. You make me who I am..

@Loba I agree. Trying hard to get to it.

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