Preety_India

Sometimes what we consider as selfish can be just being smart.

Only one way to know.

Just a straight question I will never be comfortable having sex without getting to know the person on a deeper level (emotionally) at first. Does this make me a bad person or stingy or a closed minded person? Are my emotional needs as a woman a blockage to society or to men? I'm not demonizing someone's sexual needs or the ways they go about fulfilling it as long as it is honest and ethical? Then why are my needs as a woman judged or looked down on? Then Why am I wrong in honestly expressing and stating my needs? Why should I do something that doesn't make me feel right/good just because Men/Society wants me to? If you're gonna shame me, then remember I'll ask moderators to lock this thread.

For example, I come across a negative comment online and sometimes there is no option to block it. And once you've read it, it kinda stays in your mind and ruins your mood. I'm consciously trying to mentally block negative things or Comments or opinions because the internet can be such a toxic place most of the time I want to spend time online because it actually makes me feel better and I like to explore different things, it helps with my mental growth so logging off is not an option. The only thing I wish to avoid is all the negative things and negativity that some people bring I like harmonious environments. What are some tips that I can use to avoid the negativity from impacting me and how can I involuntarily and subconsciously block it from my mind after reading it especially when there is no option or unread or block such people or comments Thanks.

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You're trying to make it like spirituality is all about engaging in material pleasures. Who told you that spiritual people don't enjoy a material life? But they don't mix the two. Do what you want but your judgement is a gross error

And this one is also you. I have decided that these two are you

Just tell her that you are not okay with it If it something not too serious, then you can let it go. If it is your insecurity, work on it. If you think you're being legitimate and you really feel uncomfortable with what your partner is doing, talk to them honestly and frankly and let them know that you don't like it. If she is cooperative, she will either understand your concerns and not judge you for it and do what you like or she will find a middle path.. If she gets defensive, try to communicate gently. She shouldn't feel like you are controlling her. At the same time she should be respectful of your needs as well If she is being disrespectful and does not pay any mind to your needs at all, then be blunt about it and let her know that you don't like her behavior. This is a test for both of you. A person who is truly in love and truly understands will try to give some space without getting overly controlling or overly defensive.

This one @Marcel

Did you ever meet someone who was truly yours?

Feeling Electric.......

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But you forgot one thing. This all should happen naturally. Spontaneously. Not in a nerdy formulaic computerized robotic fashion. That's the real fun.

Actually I'm enjoying a lot of that in my current relationship especially 2) and 3) and 4)... It feels AMAZING! Don't ask how. It just does. It feels like a dreaaaaaaaaaaaam

Intimacy is more like - in-too-mee-see