Preety_India

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  1. I don't consider myself low value. And I don't like low value guys. I have seen plenty of high value guys who are still needy. To me neediness is a psychological and cultural thing rather than attraction or value based thing. I have seen high value girls who are extremely smart and beautiful being needy. I myself have had so many relationships so it's not like I'm in deep need of a relationship. Neediness to me is a glue that holds the relationship together. I don't like these tricks that you talk about. It's too mechanical, like you said to withhold sex. How can someone have a relationship where they're constantly thinking and planning the next move in the relationship, that already looks quite unhealthy and low value in my opinion. High value relationship would be something that flows effortlessly and spontaneously with no planning on any end. The kind of relationships I had, those people weren't even in pickup, nor any training, and they could effortlessly maintain intimacy with me without having to make moves. To me it's all about frequency and not so much about how many people you date or socialize or kind of game. If you found the right person, which is more likely to happen if you build your law of attraction vibration and actually wait for the right person to be in your life (this does not mean you shouldn't approach, but you shouldn't make it a score game, just wait for something natural to build up over time, meanwhile still socializing) but once you lock that right person, you feel that "click" and then you find someone on your frequency, then they don't play games with you, as a result, you don't need to do anything special to hold that person. This only happens when you like and love someone for who they are and they like and love you for who you're, then there is no competition, because you already found what you wanted, also I don't really like this low value and high value stuff. Value cannot really be decided by anything. I could be with a guy who is homeless today but a millionaire tomorrow. Try to focus on real values like commitment and authenticity rather than fake hyped social values.
  2. Also why is neediness such a bad thing unless it's truly cringey and desperate on a terrible level. I actually admire neediness in a guy or else he would look so cold. I'm never attracted to cold guys. Some neediness is good. Because as a girl I'm needy as well. So If a guy is needy it's a good match for my wavelength
  3. Lmao you're so funny. Being a guy and holding off sex. How is that even possible. They already struggle with nofap This is like telling me to not want to eat when you place a big chocolate cake in front of me. Even if you hid, I'm gonna find it. You come up with some novel ways lol.
  4. Don't you believe that some people can do it naturally without training just like there people who can sing very beautifully naturally and never had an ounce of training in their lives. So many people with great social skills. Who takes pua training, those who lack social skills, but this is niche population. The bigger part of the population doesn't have social problems
  5. @Marcel I love you. This is what happens between you and me and then I faint
  6. @RickyFitts thank you.
  7. I have to really put a lot of hard work Even more than before. I need to do this.
  8. I want to get deeper and deeper into my identity as a woman.
  9. @Marcel that's beautiful.
  10. @Marcel I lub you
  11. I like her lipstick color.