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Yup. Hahaha

@Marcel@ teasing you. You're the orange. You're orange. I'm green. Now let's pull out our swords.

@Marcel Lmao. (I knew it) teasing you. You're the orange. You're orange. I'm green. Now let's pull out our swords.

Many factors Sociopathy Poverty Lack of resources Parents are criminals Government/law enforcement is lousy Bad upbringing (parents don't teach ethics and morals) Stage Red Society Glorification and Glamourization of crimes and criminals in movies, stories, media, by celebrities, rap music etc Too many gangs in the area that are not being checked by the police because the police are "too scared" to go after real criminals. But they will take some weak looking drug addict and mercilessly beat him and put him in jail. Because police have zero spine to go after the real thing. Glorification of bullies No long term consequences for career criminals Illiteracy, lack of education, no life purpose, and zero interest in development Glorification of "male power"

@DocWatts our scores are very similar. I like how they give scores on red, blue and orange for comparative analysis. My orange score is higher than yours. Kinda interesting since you're American, I thought your orange score would be much higher. My blue score is equivalent to yours. Overall our results kinda match.

Took this spiral dynamics test. https://monicabourgeau.com/assessment/ Interesting results I got.

Coffee is not good if you suffer stress.

This is my result. @Marcel hun can you please take this test? It's a good one.

The other is self alignment and self attunement. Self alignment Self alignment is being totally aligned with one's plans, goals and needs. Self attunement It not only means being aligned and attuned to what one wants but also being able to communicate with one's own body and mind, being able to control one's own mind and being able to transform or adjust it according to the environment for survival. This is like biofeedback and the extreme self control for survival. Almost like developing a third eye. Quote

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Self Relationship Project Set aside time only for yourself... 1-2 hours per day just discussing your own issues and your own challenges and your own self. This is a self awareness project Develop your relationship with yourself Heal your relationship with yourself (if you have a damaged relationship with yourself) Self awareness Project. Catch yourself whenever you are neglecting yourself Tell yourself that you absolutely deserve to take care of yourself Get to know yourself better. (self exploration) what do you know about yourself? Invest in self exploration. Explore who you are. Explore your self image Identify how you feel and who you are. Express yourself as much as possible as openly as possible. I'll call this self expression exercise. Explore your conditioning and programming. Deprogram yourself Do you know what you want?<this is a part of self awareness> Do you know what you need to do for yourself? <this is a part of self awareness > How many times do you focus on yourself (self focus)? Have you gone deeper into yourself? (part of shadow work, this is a part of self introspection) Self awareness Self Introspection Self relationship Self exploration Self expression Shadow work Self focus Difference between self awareness, self exploration and self focus. What is self awareness? Being aware of what you want, what you need, what you are aware of what you are currently doing, and what you should be doing for your self. For example, if you are aware that you have a video game addiction but you are still playing a video game. You realize that you shouldn't be doing it and should be exercising in the gym instead. This is self awareness. Acute self awareness means you'll actually abandon the video game and start exercising. This means that you are not only self aware but you're very aligned with what you want. You are very coordinated with your own needs. Even if you are not fully aligned at least you are aware of what you need to do to be aligned. You have no confusion on that. What is self focus? Self focus is giving more time and attention to your self. Are you doing enough? Are you focused on everything else but not yourself? When was the last time you spent time alone or even discussed only about yourself? Living around narcissists will cause you to lose self focus because they will constantly demand your attention by talking about their needs with you. They will punish you if you begin to talk about your needs. The objective of their strategy is to not let you focus on yourself. But use all your time, energy and resources for themselves, not for you. What is self exploration? Self exploration is knowing who you are. Your personality. Your likes. Dislikes. Interests. Goals. Your personality type. Your values. Your temperament. Your stage of development. Your psyche. Your strengths. Your weaknesses. Your passions. Your limitations. I will also have exercises for self control.

Live in abundance.

This is so helpful.

Sets of labels for quadrants Goals Actions Needs Wants Priorities Strengths Weaknesses Opportunities Threats Health Mental Physical Emotional Psychological health Your life Your self and self image Your environment Your mind

Draw a circle in sand with 4 quadrants. Label those quadrants. Then draw a line and mark it as notes. Draw several horizontal lines and write your notes.

You can't really differentiate the two. Many people who had an awakening were actually suffering from a mental illness. Many people who had a mental illness pretended to have an awakening. Literally indistinguishable.

A beautiful quote.

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A dangerous pattern in my environment — I'm not allowed to be myself and I'm constantly manipulated to think against my own well being (almost like guilting and gaslighting) Quote

What's stopping you?

There could be so many limiting beliefs that are blocking your progress. For example, a major limiting belief for me — that I don't deserve good things. And this is a dangerous limiting belief. Quote

Recognition of patterns is under 3 categories Recognition of patterns in your environment Recognition of patterns in your life Recognition of patterns in your relationship with yourself Quote

What if you are making mistakes that are almost life threatening. Let's say a woman is dumb enough to be stuck in an abusive relationship and the guy kills her or injures her. Now this mistake has really bad consequences. She wasn't intelligent enough to get out early. What if you don't ever want to repeat such a mistake? I think it is okay for intelligent people to make mistakes as long as these mistakes aren't a big deal.. But when any of your past mistakes and dumb/foolish decisions are so bad that they have deeply damaged you, wouldn't you want to rethink what can be done to avoid those things in the future?