Preety_India

Someone please answer.

Someone gave important advice on the forum in this regard. Stop watching videos... You are indoctrinating yourself with ideas that are not yours. The only way to know something is to derive it for yourself, not believe someone else.

So what are the current concepts I'm going to follow? Mint model The Golden, stone, Diamond key system The white bead necklace concept Goaling, Tracking and Scoring

I want to follow ideals and principles of stage Green, stage Red, stage Blue, stage Turquoise and stage Coral and make a nice blend. I think I've spoken about this before and I have called it the Mint Model.

I want to heavily rely on spiral dynamics to integrate ideas and concepts in my life. It's one of the simplest, healthiest and easiest models to follow. So I'll use it for my development. Now I don't want to stick to one stage. I'm mostly stuck in Green. It feels comfortable for a while because it aligns with my values

The key in this situation is to let go. Bring yourself closer and closer to what's good for you.

Everything has a key. ?️

These threads really consumed my time. My God. Each took 4 hours of my time. That's some stupidity.

Yup. This^

The goal of a discussion, debate and exchange should be to understand each other's perspectives and exchange of ideas. Not endlessly arguing. If you find the other person not understanding you, then simply leave the discussion. You're probably dealing with someone who is self righteous, Egotistical and dogmatic. No point in arguing with them. It is futile.

Promise myself that I will never participate in topics that lack substance.

Omg this is my most favorite. I always wanted to explore this.

Totally agree.

You're probably this type of psychic. I ain't that. So I'm good at level 2. You on the other hand though... Did you say P for Preety? Omg

You stole words from my mouth.

You can make fun of people all you want but facts are facts and opinions are opinions. And yes I do understand people psychically. A psychic and empath are two different people though. If you look at things very dry and mechanically you will lose psychic intuition. Jordan Peterson only acts "nice" whereas Richard Dawkins is actually "nice." However I'm an open minded person so even if I thought someone didn't have a good heart, I still choose to listen to them, because at the end of the day whether good bad, both are sides of human nature so if I find Jordan saying something that sounds good, then I'm all ears to it. I don't discard the baby with the bathwater. I don't reject something, especially if it's an intelligent idea or information that I find useful. However judgement is judgement and to have a basic judgement on character is important to avoid being manipulated So i can listen to Jordan Peterson without being manipulated. It's wearing the proverbial tin foil hat, is what I call it. (just because someone is dogmatic doesn't mean they have a bad heart and I don't agree with Leo's video on good intentions, I might agree slightly that good intentioned people might be prone to error, however they cannot cause significant harm, that will go against universal principle, good intentions are extremely important and so having a psychic understanding of things is even more important than having an intellectual understanding of things. We aren't given the senses for nothing.)

Exactly. You put it better than me.

Right now my biggest struggle is that I wrote an endless amount of concepts and ideas but Its difficult to implement them because I find myself short on energy and time. Also I'm not finding a valid way of implementing my own concepts in my life, it feels there is just too much pending and I haven't got enough time to manage my concepts, it is making me upset and anxious because I don't want my conceptual hard work to simply stay on paper like an incomplete Unfinished dream. I want to actually use all these concepts and bring radical changes in life. I'm constantly falling sick, my health is shitty, and my discipline is absurd, plus constantly dealing with family issues never leaves me any room or time to actually get things done As a result I'm frustrated. It feels like I am a movie director wrote the whole plot or storyline for my movie but my movie is not going into production and is constantly suffering delays due to silly reasons sabotaging it. That's how I feel.

@Opo I also admire Christopher Hitchens another truth seeker and true intellectual. It makes me sad that he is no more. Him and Richard Dawkins are my two favorite intellectuals.

He is a bit dogmatic when it comes to his atheist claims, I wholeheartedly agree but he has a golden heart, I can see through people, he is not phony, he sticks with the truth, he is clear with his view, doesn't change it to please the public or PC culture, he wants to see reason, especially scientific reason behind things, that's his principle, although it can be considered as dogma, at least he is true to himself and sees things for what they are, never appeasing anyone, of course those are his blindspots, yet he doesn't do things for money, he hasn't shamelessly paraded himself like Jordan Peterson on YouTube for making money, he hasn't triggered liberals just for the sake of making money off right wing donations, he has a true heart and a man of dignity not someone like JP who sells himself cheap and keeps rambling in circles to get people to circle jerk around his victimhood like JP, who accuses the left of being snowflake and then cries like a little kid on YouTube videos to play sympathy card and uses complex jargon to say the most insensitive chauvinistic, unempathetic views like his pathetic views on Covid in delicate language, who wears sheep's clothing but acts like a wolf, nah, Richard Dawkins doesn't play dirty politics like him, Dawkins isn't milking YouTube, Dawkins has dignity and doesn't stoop low to appeal people. That's the difference. We value in others what we value in ourselves. I respect his dignity, no matter how dogmatic. Also I see through people's hearts, I'm a psychic.

You seem to take offense at everything I like or dislike.

@LordFall I believe Richard Dawkins is a true intellectual.

There are a lot of threads that I shouldn't be paying attention to. It seems a lot of threads in this forum are trollish. Because there is zero substance in them. Don't respond to zero substance threads. It's like trying to reason with trolls

I don't even know where I was. I felt like I just didn't want to exist.

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