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Actually I'm not thinking that being drunk always means going out there and getting belligerent and starting fights. I had positive experiences with drinking where it decreased my anxiety and made me more funny and chill. With drinking there are two opposite reactions or behaviors. Some people get angry and rude. Some people act very funny, crack jokes, lose sense of reality and become totally relaxed. For some people, drinking actually helps them open up, become free, more vulnerable, even cry, let out their anxieties and become their true authentic self. They don't want to start a fight, in fact they want to make peace, they might even forgive their enemies while drunk. Some people assume that drinking makes a person careless and aggressive. I guess it really depends on the person.

<<first case>> Do you think it's appropriate to get drunk before approaching a woman or a man? Does drinking help to lower your guard? What's your experience? <does it get too embarrassing > <were you ever tempted to get drunk > <<second case >>hypothetical scenario Imagine a hypothetical scenario. Let's say alcohol did not have any impact on your health and you felt fine the next day with no health issues. And you could freely drink as much as you wanted and it made you feel calm, lowered inhibitions. And it didn't cause any addiction. <hypothetical scenario > Would you then prefer to get drunk every time you approach a woman?

Needy is not when you show affection. Needy is asking rather than giving. Showing affection is giving. Needy is using people's time and eating their head. A girl feels happy and impressed by affection. A girl feels stressed by neediness. No girl wants to me a guy's mommy. Simple.

Girls who are doormats might be attracted to ruthless assholes. Girls with certain dignity and self pride will be put off by ruthless guys

When masculine guys show affection it can be very appealing.

I think a more appropriate way of putting it would be - don't be too needy because girls don't like it. And that is somewhat true. You can't be too cold, girls won't like it. But coming off as needy can trigger a woman badly, like breaking out in hives.

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I was talking about two groups of people. The high quality and the lower group. High quality people contribute. Lower group people are destructive. They disrupt and exploit. We will have a better world with higher group of people solving their own issues and then moving to remedy planet earth and the environment. Lower group of people should slowly auto-eliminate themselves from the system. Basically they are no good.

It's time to start working on my life again from where I left off.

I'm really digging into different foods and research on it.

How do you know they never asked? Did you ask them?

People who are not generous with money are also not very generous with affection and love. (personal experience) you could argue otherwise but reality is always reality. I have been generous with money but I have also been generous emotionally. It's a people quality. Generous people are always generous, they've a giving hand, material or non material. Whereas those who calculate too much are generally the most un-generous, insecure people who are also emotionally not that invested or loving, they basically have a scarcity mindset and cut down on all shit, it's a generally a bad experience to be around such people because they are always calculating and tallying. They never want to do shit for others.

Leo is very inspiring. There are traits and qualities in him that are very admirable. On of his important traits is his ability to directly see through things. And measure these issues correctly. And he is very very masculine which helps him deal with things minus the bullshit. He is very hardcore. He gets things done. A very important trait/quality that most people just don't have. Being objective, realistic and hardcore means he sees things way ahead of time, he already sees what's coming and is well prepared to face it head on. He pulls the punches, doesn't just sit around thinking about things but gets around to actually do it. His advice is always very pointed and not wishy washy. Objective. Getting shit done. Not complaining. Not lamenting. Something we should all integrate.

Leo is very inspiring. There are traits and qualities in him that are very admirable. On of his important traits is his ability to directly see through things. And measure these issues correctly. And he is very very masculine which helps him deal with things minus the bullshit. He is very hardcore. He gets things done. A very important trait/quality that most people just don't have. Being objective, realistic and hardcore means he sees things way ahead of time, he already sees what's coming and is well prepared to face it head on. He pulls the punches, doesn't just sit around thinking about things but gets around to actually do it. His advice is always very pointed and not wishy washy. Objective. Getting shit done. Not complaining. Not lamenting. Something we should all integrate.

Just hold on. You know your entire life has been a joke. You just want to get drunk and drown it and forget it. You can do no more. You can fight no more. What do you do? What do you do? I feel like I fucked up majorly in my life and I was fucked up.

What do you do when you think your life is falling apart?

Just wanted to share my insight. Women can be attracted to a guy's strength/looks but ultimately not be compatible personality wise. infatuation is different from compatibility. There are lots of attractive men, lots of them... But that doesn't translate as harmony, compatibility, chemistry..... passion, commitment, understanding, connection and intimacy/bonding. Always be aware of what you really need.

Yes this is a very important point. A woman can be attracted to a guy's strength and looks, especially looks, but ultimately not be compatible personality wise. There are lots of attractive men, lots of them... But that doesn't translate as harmony, compatibility, chemistry..... passion, commitment, understanding, connection and intimacy/bonding.