Preety_India

Yes women feel objectified. I am a woman and I feel objectified if some guy told me that he wants me only for sex. It's deeply hurtful and repulsive. It's a feeling I cannot convey to you as a woman because you're a man and you probably wouldn't understand it, you'll need to be a woman to know how it feels. A woman wants to feel valued in a relationship, not used for a man's needs. She wants a man to like her, want her for more than her beauty, body or sex. This is genuine feminine expression. I'm sure most women feel similar or this seems familiar to them. That's why I don't do casual sex. Because I feel, by doing casual sex, my value worth as a woman degrades. This is just me (as a woman). If a man asked me for casual sex, I would feel humiliated and degraded. I'm trying my best to articulate my feelings as a woman here. It's like being treated like a doll in a porcelain shop or being treated like a piece of meat for a man to chew into and take a bite and leave. Doesn't feel good. Feels like a sex slave whose only objective in life is to satisfy male hunger and thirst. Of course sex is an integral part of a relationship. Who denies that. Yet to be wanted and desired only for sex feels repulsive. This is core feminine. You can't dictate how a woman feels as a man yourself, but you can try to understand her feelings instead of denying them. If you want intimacy with a woman, then understand her emotions rather than denying it. I want a man who makes me feel that I'm a woman, not for sexual gratification of his desires, but for his admiration, his deep love for me, his affection for me and his connection with me. Sex will be a part of it. Yet I want more from a man than just sex. If a man only wants sex, hire a prostitute, but don't play with a woman's heart, make her feel loved and then make her feel used? Most women who play along and have casual sex with men for whatever reasons, that's okay. But a woman who is allowing a man to use her sexually isn't in touch with her deep feminine. Feminine is beautiful. Feminine is deep. Feminine is sensitive. Feminine is gentle. Feminine is delicate. Feminine is wise. Don't take advantage of femininity for your greed. Understand and cooperate with it, flow and harmonize. Don't be a sex monkey. What if a woman approached a man and said - "I love you only for your money and nothing else" Won't he feel objectified? I'm sure he would feel like a piece of rubbish and unloved on top of that. Don't make a woman feel what she doesn't want, what she deeply detests. If you do that and insist on doing that, you aren't really loving her. Love a woman as a woman wants to be loved or don't love her at all. Playing with a woman's heart is the worst form of delivery. Telling her that she is being loved when she doesn't actually feel loved.

Actually we didn't. A huge global population is religious. And don't forget that sometimes atheism can itself become a religion.

You'll have to be careful with posting on the forum. Take the bait. (it won't play out well)

What specific mental illness?

Overpopulation is the biggest and the worst epidemic of the 21st century.

Hey buttercup, so what's up? I'm feeling a bit drained,empty stressed right now. Very deeply anxious. The cough isn't completely gone. My sinuses are stuffed. She was kinda throwing anger. Acting like a bully (I really need a split personality to talk to me. Something like my own mirror image talking to me). Hey buttercup, just take a deep breath again and relax please. Be gentle. Be calm. Take baby steps and slowly do things. No need to hurry. And no need to worry. I had multiple panic attacks in the past 24 hours. I'm trying to stay calm and relax as much as possible. It's so hard. I'm still having throbbing pain. I really need to learn how to completely relax. Since yesterday I've gone into some panic, frenzy mode. The most important step is to love myself. And this thread. I had it locked. It was scaring the shit out of me. Love yourself.

Because change is how we grow. How else do you expect any growth to happen?

A PRESIDENT CAN . . . make treaties with the approval of the Senate. veto bills and sign bills. represent our nation in talks with foreign countries. enforce the laws that Congress passes. act as Commander-in-Chief during a war. call out troops to protect our nation against an attack.

I really did not get this. This sounds a bit twisted to me.

I still feel a bit tired. I'll need to split my personality into two parts. PREETY A AND PREETY B. PREETY A IS ME MYSELF. PREETY B IS MY HIGHER LOVING SELF. PREETY A IS BUTTERCUP PREETY B IS COMFORTER.

Hey buttercup, Just try to be gentle with yourself. I know you are going through a lot. But it will be okay. Loving yourself begins with gentleness.

Some relaxing imagery.

Life is a precious gift theoretically. But living life involves a lot of suffering.

@Something Funny I usually appreciate relaxing things. The ocean and fishes help me relax and unwind.

@Something Funny why is it weird though?

Yes I usually watch sea ocean documentaries. Best distraction.

Hey its okay mate. I trust you wholly and completely. I know that you never any Mal intent and you won't abuse any information. It has always been a pleasure talking to you. Don't worry. You are all good.

I think fantasizing is about wanting something that you don't have. Through fantasizing you reach your higher self. It's a form of poetry, basically expression of the self.

The real question is - what is nudity or nakedness? Does nakedness even exist or is it an illusion?

I just want to end this suffering. I had an argument with my mother. Then I simply sat talking to myself. And she threw a bottle in my direction. I'm terrified of her. I don't want to live in constant fear and tension. I just want to give up. I don't want to live being controlled 24/7. Being terrified 24/7. Would it be wrong if I killed myself this moment?

Can this topic be locked. I got enough helpful responses. I won't be returning to the thread. OP request.

Trying to relax now with this.

Venting helps me a lot. It's like throwing poison out of your system into this journal. Coping with a situation. Right now the only solution is to cope somehow. Cope with the situation Be gentle with yourself. I'm crying so badly right now. I need some gentleness. I wish someone would just hug and tell me everything will be okay. Someone who would just hold my hands and calm down my panic. Someone who would give me love. The only thing to do now is to be as gentle as possible. Take a deep breath and be calm. I'm super emotional right now with little control over my emotions. My dad's dead body/corpse constantly comes to my mind. How he died.. Why he died. I wish someone could lay me down and stroke my forehead and tell me everything is alright. Because I'm crying and feeling so fragile right now. I tried to sleep through my panic attack. But when I woke up, I broke out in nervousness. Don't cry please. Please. My muscles are weak right now from Covid.

And then she plays victim to neighbors. She makes me look like a bad daughter. She hurts me punishes me. I'm so anxious right now. I try to distract myself because it's hard for me to focus on this negativity.