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You're giving her this false hope that you love her. She will end up broken hearted. At least you're setting up an expectation for her to want you only for you to leave her.

Yes this has been huge for me. I get mightily confused on where to start or feeling uneasy that I'm doing something wrong.

Time to get a bit gentle, am I right?

@Marcel oh wow that's nice.

Can you go into more depth so I can help you? I'm not exactly understanding your words. What exactly are you looking for and I might be able to help.

I'm in a peaceful state now finally. It takes time to get here.

What sort of a perspective you're looking for?

You're so special it makes me crazy sometimes.

@Marcel An hour ago I was like this lol And now I'm like this

*Makes sure if you fell on your ass on ice, then I immediately place a cushion under your butt before you fall. Protects em butt cheeks.

Just thinking about you makes me want to roll and flop like this bird.

I'm so deeply in love with you. It's unbelievable. We only come closer. This is for you. Rolling and flopping myself all over you like a bird

Really comprehensive. I hope you will be able to push them all away, overcome them and find your true path. Thank you for your response, that was detailed and comprehensive. Really wonderful answer.

I wrote this for you. I love you infinitely. I never want to lose you. You are and always will be the apple of my eye, the essence of my soul, the breath in my spirit

I see. Totally relatable. Have you explored the ways to get rid of this negativity? What have you found so far?

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I don't know how to feel.. I don't even know what to feel. I just want to disappear. I just want to made it final. Everything feels like confusion. And yea, today is February 17. Self love is the key to a lot of problems in this world. You don't truly love yourself

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I want to invest more into self love.

That is a cop out. You don't want to understand a woman's perspective. Then keep expecting failures. Goodluck.

I woke up feeling a bit dizzy.

Yes women feel objectified. I am a woman and I feel objectified if some guy told me that he wants me only for sex. It's deeply hurtful and repulsive. It's a feeling I cannot convey to you as a woman because you're a man and you probably wouldn't understand it, you'll need to be a woman to know how it feels. A woman wants to feel valued in a relationship, not used for a man's needs. She wants a man to like her, want her for more than her beauty, body or sex. This is genuine feminine expression. I'm sure most women feel similar or this seems familiar to them. That's why I don't do casual sex. Because I feel, by doing casual sex, my value worth as a woman degrades. This is just me (as a woman). If a man asked me for casual sex, I would feel humiliated and degraded. I'm trying my best to articulate my feelings as a woman here. It's like being treated like a doll in a porcelain shop or being treated like a piece of meat for a man to chew into and take a bite and leave. Doesn't feel good. Feels like a sex slave whose only objective in life is to satisfy male hunger and thirst. Of course sex is an integral part of a relationship. Who denies that. Yet to be wanted and desired only for sex feels repulsive. This is core feminine. You can't dictate how a woman feels as a man yourself, but you can try to understand her feelings instead of denying them. If you want intimacy with a woman, then understand her emotions rather than denying it. I want a man who makes me feel that I'm a woman, not for sexual gratification of his desires, but for his admiration, his deep love for me, his affection for me and his connection with me. Sex will be a part of it. Yet I want more from a man than just sex. If a man only wants sex, hire a prostitute, but don't play with a woman's heart, make her feel loved and then make her feel used? Most women who play along and have casual sex with men for whatever reasons, that's okay. But a woman who is allowing a man to use her sexually isn't in touch with her deep feminine. Feminine is beautiful. Feminine is deep. Feminine is sensitive. Feminine is gentle. Feminine is delicate. Feminine is wise. Don't take advantage of femininity for your greed. Understand and cooperate with it, flow and harmonize. Don't be a sex monkey. What if a woman approached a man and said - "I love you only for your money and nothing else" Won't he feel objectified? I'm sure he would like a piece of rubbish and unloved on top of that. Don't make a woman feel what she doesn't want, what she deeply detests. If you do that and insist on doing that, you aren't really loving her. Love a woman as a woman wants to be loved or don't love her at all. Playing with a woman's heart is the worst form of delivery. Telling her that she is being loved when she doesn't actually feel loved.

Yes women feel objectified. I am a woman and I feel objectified if some guy told me that he wants me only for sex. It's deeply hurtful and repulsive. It's a feeling I cannot convey to you as a woman because you're a man and you probably wouldn't understand it, you'll need to be a woman to know how it feels. A woman wants to feel valued in a relationship, not used for a man's needs. She wants a man to like her, want her for more than her beauty, body or sex. This is genuine feminine expression. I'm sure most women feel similar or this seems familiar to them. That's why I don't do casual sex. Because I feel, by doing casual sex, my value worth as a woman degrades. This is just me (as a woman). If a man asked me for casual sex, I would feel humiliated and degraded. I'm trying my best to articulate my feelings as a woman here. It's like being treated like a doll in a porcelain shop or being treated like a piece of meat for a man to chew into and take a bite and leave. Doesn't feel good. Feels like a sex slave whose only objective in life is to satisfy male hunger and thirst. Of course sex is an integral part of a relationship. Who denies that. Yet to be wanted and desired only for sex feels repulsive. This is core feminine. You can't dictate how a woman feels as a man yourself, but you can try to understand her feelings instead of denying them. If you want intimacy with a woman, then understand her emotions rather than denying it. I want a man who makes me feel that I'm a woman, not for sexual gratification of his desires, but for his admiration, his deep love for me, his affection for me and his connection with me. Sex will be a part of it. Yet I want more from a man than just sex. If a man only wants sex, hire a prostitute, but don't play with a woman's heart, make her feel loved and then make her feel used? Most women who play along and have casual sex with men for whatever reasons, that's okay. But a woman who is allowing a man to use her sexually isn't in touch with her deep feminine. Feminine is beautiful. Feminine is deep. Feminine is sensitive. Feminine is gentle. Feminine is delicate. Feminine is wise. Don't take advantage of femininity for your greed. Understand and cooperate with it, flow and harmonize. Don't be a sex monkey. What if a woman approached a man and said - "I love you only for your money and nothing else" Won't he feel objectified? I'm sure he would like a piece of rubbish and unloved on top of that. Don't make a woman feel what she doesn't want, what she deeply detests. If you do that and insist on doing that, you aren't really loving her. Love a woman as a woman wants to be loved or don't love her at all.