Preety_India

I like this topic. It's interesting. Omg this thread is so so good

Reserve questions How should I navigate through my life Can meditation help me? What is the goal of my life? What is the purpose of spirituality? Why is reality so hard and brutal?

I did see him laughing a couple of times in the video as the client speaks. Although it's not a very big issue, his overall approach and demeanor speaks of disregard, insensitivity and lack of empathy. Sorry but he is not a decent fit for counseling. I find Dr Ramani on YouTube to be a great source on psychological research.

This is my new method of therapy. I'll be staring at these eyes and asking questions. It's a great relief that I found this method. So far this is really helping me.

This is the whole problem with such things. I mean in the field of mental, psychology and psychiatry. People without adequate qualifications (even if they do have) should not be trying to have an authority on what's the right treatment for a mentally ill person. I myself had my own share of predatory behavior on this forum alone. Someone approached me saying that they will be my therapist(and friend) and help me (with zero qualifications in the field) and straight up began to invalidate my trauma and then proceeded that I sign a pact with them whereby I share all my personal information with them for the supposed service they're trying to offer. I found it very creepy, fishy and shady and blocked that person. It's difficult online where everyone who is not experienced or qualified is giving advice. Now we do that even on this forum, but here it's understood that we are not qualified and nothing comes with guarantee. However Dr K should be careful with clients. He could tell them to use 911, psych wards if things are serious. He does mention that what he does not constitute mental health treatment but what I find unethical practice in his situation is that he is trying to be a friend to his clients. That's the number one unethical behavior any psychologist would do. In my mind I'm trying to come to a conjecture that he is probably not getting many clients in real life as in the official sense of clinical practice so he decided to use online platforms to get a wider reach and use donations. Low key it's a grift to use twitch for his popularity and entertainment and then insert his business agenda into it in the effort to create a base for himself meanwhile preying on vulnerable people who become his Guinea pigs. Maybe his advice is helpful to some people but I did see him neglecting basic protocol, for example telling his BPD client that he is not suffering from it, (like some people on the forum told me that I don't suffer from trauma, when I have been independently diagnosed with CPTSD by two different qualified psychologists. That's some pop psychology stuff). I think Dr K telling Reckful who is/was suffering BPD that he was going to love him for 2 years is extremely awful and unethical because you literally can't say that to someone with abandonment issues. That's why I don't like authoriarian people who act like they know better. They're very reckless. Much of his behavior is discussed here.

In what exact way has he behaved unethical? What law or goodwill did he violate/break? A person can be a bit shady in their general attitude/disposition yet ethical in their practice. Conversely a person can be unethical in their practice but frank, kind, open to debates and appear remarkably moral and neat, clean cut in their attitude.

@Marcel thank you for the cake hun. It's awesome.

I love you.

I've decided to divide spirituality into two halves - Higher spirituality Lower spirituality Higher spirituality will focus on aspects like humanity, caring for the world, expanding love and happiness and peace, bringing healing, peace and happiness. Spreading love. Lower spirituality will focus on aspects like self love, tarot reading, law of attraction, guidance and manifestation, wisdom and self elevation (upgrading one's character and personality in the spiritual sense)

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Thank you for your perspective dear husband.

Marriage is the most beautiful thing in the world.

This video was quite sick even if it was satire.

I have to let go of this pain that has been bothering me. Disconnect from them. Disconnect from them. Disconnect from them. I'm getting a panic attack again. This is just hard. One thing that I need to do is try and try and try to not be emotional in the next 7 days. Please. Don't cry. It will be alright. Just stay strong.

I kinda agree with this. Well, I've just known too many druggies who've drowned their minds in a cocktail of substances for years on end. They're not woke to "higher truths", and they're not especially wise. I say this all with love for these people, some of whom are my good friends. All I wanted to say was, I think it's pretty naive to say, "just take a drug and you'll know what awakening is". You almost certainly won't. I don't know what all the pieces of the puzzle are. Like I said, I'm not awake.

I've to eat something and then continue writing. Got so much to write.

Continued from above How about just being silent? How about not just dealing with it at all? How about zero conflict? Then there is simply no reason why anyone will point a finger? And if something is inevitable then I guess it would happen anyway you like it or not. What should you do about the enemy? The answer is that the devil cannot be reasoned with. You only have to escape the devils radar. You gotta be sneaky. Being manipulative won't help. Playing games won't help. You better wear a hijab. You better sneak out in the night. You better run for cover. You better stay under wraps. And the devil won't miss you. Don't leave a scent of your trail. Just go. Disappear. Don't care too much. Don't worry too much. Don't think too much. And you'll be fine. Don't harm yourself for what's to come. Be ready to face. You could actually have a victory who knows. Stay out of enemy territory.

Why do we have to play games. Because reality is so fucked up. Yes. But when you play games you are weaving a web. A web. An entanglement. It's best to sit back and relax and let reality unfold on its own. Whatever plays out plays out. You are worried that things are fucking up your mind. You're worried that something will turn against you and destroy your prospects. You are worried that something bad will happen. But it's okay. These are thoughts in the moment, although these are valid thoughts based on past experiences. It's totally valid to have all the fears you have. But are these fears real? See that's the question. Maybe your fears are just not too real. Maybe they are not imaginary either. Maybe these fears are real and true but even then these are simply fears. There's really nothing happening. And the possibility of something happening is just a possibility, just that. You can keep safeguards against these possibilities yet you can't expect too much. You cannot really do anything about it other than just find ways to keep yourself safe. You'll have to eventually bear the consequences of what's to come, you can manipulate this process, yet manipulating anything always comes at its own risk. You can make it better with manipulation or you could make it worse. Manipulation can go either way and even backfire instead of helping your cause. (see this is the reason why we play games, we try to manipulate reality.) Reality is obviously not fair to us and thats perfectly understandable. Yet this is the way of things in the world and you can hardly do anything to change it, if you didn't want things to be this way.

Destructive forces are self destructive. You aren't fighting against real demons. You're fighting against imaginary demons. Reality is the devil. Universe is the cure. Lay down low. Don't get into conflicts. Don't project too much. Have reasonable fears. Know when it's unreasonable. Keep a clear subconscious. Even when something bad happens, trust more and more that good will take over slowly. Yes there's damage in this world and it creates more fear. Yet there's also healing and goodness.

Asking questions What should I do with my current anxious feelings? (I've some thoughts and anxieties about my work. How should I find a resolution to them?) Mr/Miss Eyes - Try to embrace reality rather than constantly putting up a fight against it. Trust your mind. Trust your body. Trust your spirit. Trust nature. Trust God. Trust the universe. When you have fear, it means you don't trust anything, you don't trust transformation. You don't trust the process. You don't trust what good can happen for you. You live in paranoid delusions. These fears do more harm than good. The fear and paranoia makes you go crazy. You think the worst. This is not about dealing with an actual fear but dealing with a projected fear. You fear something bad might happen. What if it's not going to happen? You need to let go. Embrace reality. Reality is dark and brutal. But there is always a silver lining to everything. There's always an opposite process that's going on. You aren't aware that in the moment that reality is constantly spinning out devilry, the universe at the same time is constantly working to heal and restore. These are two forces at work. Reality is the devil. The real devil. But in the cosmic game, reality cannot absolutely win or else no good would have ever existed in this world, the sparrows would have been lying dead by now. The forests would have been barren.. Everything gone. But no. Yes reality is tough to digest. You feel like humanity will bring an end to everything with its drama. But you don't understand how the universe operates. It operates on karma which is already coded in our DNA. That which is trying to destroy something else is also self destructing at the same time, meaning it simply cannot keep sustaining on its own if it tries to sabotage good. There's something wrong with it. Because if it recognized good then it won't sabotage it. Universe works in mysterious ways. It punishes too. So if something is trying to gain control of the universe through devilish authoritarian means, it will never succeed and get punished instead for its own devilry. The devil dies of his own accord. Nobody kills him. The devil is defeated by his own chaos energy. Destructive forces are coded to be self destructing. That's how the drama goes up to infinity. In essence nobody no matter how powerful can control the universe. In fact it's the most powerful ones that go down first. God doesn't admire power. He resists it and punishes anyone who wants it. As said before, destructive forces are self destructive. What treats you like an enemy today won't treat you like that tomorrow. First writing And then reading.

I know that this is very complicated but you have to be very intelligent here. You need to figure out what works for you.

I've observed that I have been self destructive since my teenage years. What can be the causes behind self destructive behavior in both teens and adults? Please give as many responses as possible. Because I'm researching into this. I want some ground breaking information. Thank you so much for your help.