Preety_India

I see superiority, egotism and self bias and it goes deep. Condescending, patronizing, supremacy based and not neutral. Lot of entitlement and self bias. Premature growth. Talks like a 50 year old.

Don't worry about it. The West can handle Russia, no big deal.

This religion will have rules One of the rules is that I won't do anything that's harmful to me.

I have chosen this emblem for the novoexcellente religion. Three lines and a yellow circle on a slate.

These songs are beautiful.

Novoexcellente will combine aspects of ancient European religions and Ancient Egypt.

I'll call this the Neopagan Roman religion. Novoexcellente It will have pagan concepts. Of course it's not without God. I had a beautiful temple in mind.

Hahaha sometimes

Women are beautiful angels dancing around a fountain. It's not that we don't give sex. We only give it to the man we are pleased with.

In a twisted way, Hitler helped Germany overcome the ultimate fate. I think in the absence of Hitler, Russia would have captured Germany and today Germany would have been another Soviet state. Nobody wants that. Hitler deeply feared Russian occupation. It's a fate he didn't want for Germany. Well at least Germany is Germany now, not a Russian Slave. Germany is free and Hitler's dream came true. Although posthumously.

Yes he made wrong decisions later. Yet he was selected at first because he helped Germany become a super power in no time. Putin helped Russia, defeated Chechnya terrorists. Yes Putin is making wrong moves. The problem is that no leader is perfect. They make a combination of both right and wrong decisions. Also the pressure of being a leader is extreme and can contribute to their failures.

@hello1234 this is what I was talking about. You definitely need some history lesson. Germany was in abject poverty before Hitler. He got Germany out of it. Germany was on the verge of total economic collapse. Hitler became famous and Germany adored Hitler because he had done so much for them, that became a part of his charisma. He had helped poor people. That's how he rose to power. That's the secret behind his sudden rise. He might not have been a great leader for the world, but for the poor Germans who he helped, he was a great person for them. There are footages and footages of Hitler being welcomed with flowers and waving and cheers both in Austria and in Germany.

Yes and that's what made me think that he is not a good President. Because a good President would have already seen Russia as a threat and quelled it. Did Zelensky try anything before to stop Russia? There is no evidence of him having done anything like that.

Zelensky should have had a peace treaty with Russia way before the war. If you are a good leader, you can make your country strong within just 6 months. Hitler got Germany out of poverty within just 2 years. A great leader is someone who is bringing rapid changes immediately. I don't think Zelensky is like that. Ukraine deserves a better leader. He has no political acumen, he was an actor. Now people will call him a hero. But people can't see how he indirectly failed Ukraine.

@hello1234 I apologise for that Putin thread. My humble advice(out of love) to you is that you remain calm. There is no point in blaming Putin. He is not the villain. It won't serve your purpose to think that way. He is doing what he has to for his own needs, whether those needs are moral or immoral. Calling him madman will not solve the problem of your country. You have to see how you can save your country. Mad people will always exist. You President Zelensky is only appearing to be nice. He is playing the hero card. He should have made Ukraine strong already, but he did not. He should have assessed this threat. This is the problem when you make an actor a President. They only care about their image. He wants to create a hero image. Is this helping Ukrainians? So many Ukrainians died already. What's the point of his heroism now? I feel like he subconsciously cheated your people. If he was so caring, he would have already done a lot to save your country and not waited till the last minute. My conclusion is that he is more show, less substance, the way actors usually are. The lesson to learn here is that evil will always exist. But in order to combat evil, we must be strong ourselves. Because nobody else is going to defeat that evil for us. Our greatest empathy lies in taking care of ourselves our land and our people and Ukraine needs to learn to be united. It's the courage of its own people that will save them. When something bad happens there is no point in blaming the person who is doing bad, it's their karma which you can't change. If you are unable as a country to save yourself, it's your own failure. If a rapist rapes my child, then I can go on blaming the rapist till eternity, yet it is my own failure that I couldn't protect my own child. Love /hate for the rapist will change nothing. But if I learn to protect my child from any threat danger then it's a good change. This is the wisdom here. This sounds like victim blaming. But it's more about empowering the victim and letting them know that the key to survival and safety lies in your own hands. The world is just a spectator. Relying on the world is a mistake. You have to be strong yourself so that no country can attack no matter what.

If a Russian does it, then we can all breathe easy guys. No world War 3.

But the one ready to accept that bounty might not be Russian.

Assassinating Putin can cause WW3 just like assassination of Archduke Franz Ferdinand led to World War 1.

I praise you for your resilience and honesty in the face of worthless criticism. You don't owe anyone an explanation. Just be you and it will be enough. Good job Leo.

Not true. A woman who feels safe with a man won't feel used. A woman's body is designed to screen for threat. She can tell if the guy is being an asshole or a gentle dude slowly escalating. She can sense discomfort naturally. See This is the problem with you guys. You don't have a woman's body to understand how a woman feels. Then you feel confused by women. Then you are confused forever. Most women can tell if a guy is bad or being authentic unless he is extremely manipulative. Asking how to gain the trust of a woman is to ask how to gain trust of a naive customer. The fact is not that you are trying to gain the trust of a woman, because there are many ways to do it, the real question should be how ethical is your process of gaining trust. An ethical way to gain trust is to make her feel safe, escalate only if she is truly interested, like Leo said try to vibe with her. Be an honest guy. Don't lie to her. Be well dressed. Don't be forceful. Don't make her feel threatened. Be gentle. Give her space and time. Don't sound desperate.

Countless people also get roofied and raped. Should I care about someone's recklessness? Countless people are also getting STDs by sleeping with random strangers.

@Aleister Crowleyy it's a creepy feeling for women. A woman needs trust. She is not simply going to sleep with some random dude asking for sex. Sex is supposed to be intimate. People don't give rides to a stranger in their car let alone sex to some random dude.

Have an escape strategy. Try to escape things that are toxic rather than being stuck with it.. Think of escape as a good thing rather than a weakness.

Be more used to peace. And less used to arguments. I think this has to do with my upbringing. I'm more used to arguments and fighting because I was raised by fighting parents. I never knew what peace actually looked like. As a result my default state became - "fight." So even if I don't like arguments, I still tend to attract it because that's how my psyche was shaped.. Not having that fight can give me withdrawal symptoms.. Maybe if I got more used to peace, I would be a different person.

Another thing I need to focus on is to decomplicate things as much as possible. Don't make it overly complicated with a lot of stuff on the plate. I know I want to learn as much as possible. But don't push. Don't get greedy. Keep it minimum. Try to decomplicate.