Preety_India

For me topics worth reading are politics, dating, and actualization sub section. I can't pin point a favorite topic because there are a plethora of topics here that are uniquely useful to every need. The best part of the forum is reading a wide range and variety of perspectives on the same topic.

By doing the following Read read read. Lots of information that we never bother to read Learn from past mistakes Ask ask ask. Be skeptical and critical and don't take things at face value. Like if someone told me that they are going to help me, don't blindly believe it. Don't blindly believe anything. Test test test. Test your ideas and beliefs in reality. Is reality aligned to what you think of it? Is your lover a lover or a backstabber? Think think think. Think about whatever is going on. Sit and analyze as much as possible to understand the situation through and through. Don't use too much emotion Judge Judge Judge. Learn to judge a Situation/person fairly and correctly. Do not be lazy. Don't take anything for granted. Learn from other's experiences and mistakes Get all sorts of experiences in life. Explore. Sitting in a house doesn't improve intelligence Learn to challenge your own beliefs and biases. But don't go overboard Be honest with yourself and never be in denial. Critical thinking. Come out of bubble Set boundaries to bullshit. Don't live in lala land. Most important Don't put too much trust. It is dangerous. Learn to develop foresight. Imagine both good and bad scenarios and be prepared for the worst. If something doesn't feel right then discuss the situation with someone either friends or an online forum. Others opinions will bring new perspectives you never thought of. Be updated about what's happening in the world Don't jump to a conclusion. First observe. Analyze. Your conclusion should align with your observations Observe observe observe. Keep observing everyone and everything around you. Rely on your gut instinct Be decisive and be cautious. Don't be vague Act urgently when needed Don't assume the best of everyone or everything Don't take everything lightly or don't ignore. If you see signs then watch out for more. Every sign is an indicator. Study study study. Take every situation/behavior seriously. Don't ignore it. Don't wait till the end plays out Develop awareness. Keep yourself aware of what's going on around you and within you Gather information and keep gathering and learning things. Learning new skills help to increase intellectual productivity. It sharpens your brain and thinking. It makes you witty and quick. It makes you prepared. Learn to prioritize on what is beneficial to you and what is not. Sort your priorities. Talk to a ton of people. The more you talk the more you learn and your intellectual growth gets a big boost. Guaranteed you won't stay dumb if you talk to people, just the act of communication fires the brain to think dynamically, it shapes your brain muscle to gain new perspectives and you get better at wisdom and proficiency. You'll become an expert in no time. And do not give up. If you think you are dumb, there is hope, there is sunshine. One day you won't make dumb decisions anymore. One day you'll be Wiser and smarter than your natural capability, people will be amazed and surprised at your change and progress. Being dumb is a disease. It lags us. It prevents us from our best life. Work on your intellectual health and growth and this disease will slowly get defeated. You won't stay dumb anymore if you keep progressing on intellectual growth. Even the dumbest persons will slowly get smarter than the smartest by putting more effort to be as reasonable and intelligent as possible. But this doesn't happen just like that, you have to put effort to always think and do things intelligently

A new morning.

So we can have multiple POVs at the same time?

I like this on low volume. These guys are giving me a kick, like a coffee kick, they sing and dance good and I like the rhythm of this song.

@Loba true. I am trying not to make dumb mistakes anymore. One way is to avoid it, is to listen to the gut instinct if my brain is not being logical.

You need a combination of democracy and dictatorship and meritocracy. Also geniocracy. Democracy just doesn't work. Democracy needs to be supplemented with positive leadership, Caesarism and some degree of populism. Democracy combined with kingship.

@Ecocotton thank you. I'm glad you enjoyed it

@Ecocotton nice

Hypnotic tune

Well I still feel this way. Actually thanks for reviving the post.

That was wise.

Hmm. I don't think it's a self esteem issue. It's just a sad realization that I have low IQ in social matters. I was a high scorer in class. But I was and am dumb in social things. And I got scammed a lot and taken advantage of many times. So when I saw that my friends were smarter in similar situations, I realized that I am dumb. I don't think it's a bad thing to know that I'm so dumb. It's helpful actually because it means I'll be more cautious in the future and try to improve my brain in this area. If I would have never known that I'm dumb, I probably would have stayed dumb forever. I think realizing one's weaknesses and admitting those weaknesses frankly and openly is a huge opportunity for self growth and self correction and that shouldn't be missed. I think everyone should have a SELF WEAKNESS ASSESSMENT exercise. So they can improve themselves before it gets too late.

Sweet. Every mom needs a son like you.

Lmao I didn't realize it's International Women's Day 2022 today March 8. What a coincidence! Happy Women's day to all women.

Early morning I can play this music. This music has almost become the Anthem of my life.

@Barbara I'm not sure if this might seem awkward to people on the forum but I just have to be a bit frank that in my opinion someone like Hillary Clinton is more masculine woman in my eyes whereas someone like Nancy Pelosi is more feminine in my eyes Just giving an example for reference for who looks more feminine to me. Since I mostly watch American politics, that's the only example I could come up with.

I'm good in bed. My past boyfriends used to like my attitude in bed. I'm flirty. So no complaints in that department. The only problem is that I'm not very feminine in public. I don't try enough.

One thing I can do is be a bit more sexy than usual. I usually never focus on what I wear. I need to get nice clothes. I like my BUTT. It looks good, at least in my eyes. I have small boobs and a curvy butt. I find Russian women very attractive.