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  1. - - - - - - - - - Creative Concepts--- A96 Nascent psyche is unenhanced and it will rely more on natural instincts but also animal instincts and will lack moral regulation,will depend naturally on conscience but will not grasp complicated ethical situations, will have less tendency to plan and strategize ,be naturally wise or intuitively wise yet lack reflective depth or wisdom ,will have inadequate information . Will rely on available information,have a tendency to copy and be more animalistic and primitive and work in tribal style of thinking, show less cooperation and compassion and not use critical thinking. Therefore incapable of making rational decisions . Can be easily corrupted to become sociopathic.
  2. ------ quotes page------- It's very controversial. I personally have a Darwinian approach but it's not necessarily perfect. In the end I believe in the power of goodness. Even the Darwinian approach is born out of empathy and a lot of people consider it to be wicked but it can be opposite of it The problem is very complex. We are animals and humans in some ways We are not completely human. There are basic animal instincts in us that we need to be thankful for. Otherwise a homeless man wouldn't try to battle the cold on a lonely cold dark night It's your survival instinct that works and helps you overcome difficult circumstances and it's a direct result of evolution and animal instinct No. We as humans started out as both and continued being both It's not possible to suddenly branch into being human. If it were we would have witnessed that happening with other animals too. So I assume we were implanted with both instincts from the beginning. The human part in us is our consciousness that probably doesn't exist to that extent in other animals Creatures evolve but even devolve and that has been the case with humans. We have evolved in our consciousness but we have devolved as animals The human is different from an animal I guess that a human has a different spirit than an animal. I do believe animals have spirits too It's just that animals have a more of a nascent spirit so more pure, virginal or naive. Humans have a spirit and a high functioning brain combined with a mind that hugely interferes with the nature of the human spirit. The psyche causes a ton of trouble Never let anyone make you feel like you are less. Because you are not. You have overcome so much. You should be proud of your struggles and how much you have overcome in life Nascent psyche and conditioned psyche. Both influence the spirit. Nascent psyche is healthy and uncorrupted. Conditioned psyche is both sociopathic or beneficial depending on the condition.
  3. A 94 ~~~~~~~ Finding healing~~~~~~ It's important to just move on and focus on the positive there is. There's no point in regretting in life. There are just many things that don't work. Yesterday I was thinking about resources and how that has a big impact on what we become. I was raised in a poor family with very little resources and I still struggled through it all. There just wasn't enough resources to do anything or get anything done. I couldn't have what I wanted which was nothing but a little peace of mind. Having some money would have made a huge difference. I'm no longer a dreamer and I left being that yesterday. I want to think more practically from now onwards. I realize now that my thinking was wrong. Practical stuff does make a huge difference life is not idealistic and dreamy. There are practical things like money and the biggest reason why we suffer is because of lack of resources. We don't have what we want and what we need and that's why we become who we are and not necessarily because we wanted to be that. We never expected or wanted the circumstances we have. We would have liked it to be better. But that's how it was meant to be. The irony is that those who have it just don't realize how valuable it is and waste it. Those who don't keep whining about it. But anyway having is always better than not having. Having enough money and good health and proper guidance and education would have made a huge impact on my life so far. I would have a better quality of life and would have been more happier and peaceful. It's a farce that stuff is fed to us to believe that money doesn't bring peace. It doesn't per se but it does solve problems in the real world. Having money is having access to good food thus good health. So yes it does make a difference. But that's just one of the many things we need in life to grow. We need health and care and emotional support and well being and a proper job or steady career and healthy work that would make our life more enjoyable or happy. So yea resources would have definitely fixed a lot of the issues I have and lack of resources along with having the wrong kind of resources or "bad resources" does impact life considerably. However finding healing is knowing that one has to make peace with life itself . Hoping for better things to come but not losing hope while you live. Finding healing is knowing that struggles and obstacles were also meant to be although undesirable because their complexity is what makes life what it is - a difficult piece of art. A story so unique that our best imagination could not have produced such fascinating tale of struggle, endurance, pain, misery, hope, recovery, happiness and victory. In essence every life story is a victory in itself no matter how miserable because the human body endured that level of misery and enjoyed the possibility of hope even in the bleakest moments. It's a victory because the person somehow survived through it all and managed to live although not a great life but still its life. It's a victory because they fought and they were innocent victims of their own circumstances and they showed Valor and still endured all the pain life brought them and tried to do what they could and even if they didn't try their best or strayed from a moral life they still cannot be blamed for their actions since they were just lacking higher intelligence so misery doesn't really make a person unattractive its just how we perceive it. Winning doesn't lie only in having or possessing the desired but also in showing sportsmanship and courage in bad circumstances and keeping through it when it's tough. Your healing lies in embracing your struggle. Your healing lies in knowing that you are not a loser for not having things but a winner for not giving up despite all the misfortune life brings you, for dreaming and hoping for the better even when it's so bleak and tiring, for creating happiness when the conditions are so discouraging, for creating beauty where there's ugliness, for striving hard when success is so tough, for trying even when you lacked capability, that may not make you a winner in the eyes of the world but you are a champion in your eyes because you fought. You kept going somehow anyhow.. that makes you a real winner. And thumbs up for making good even when there was bad. Eventually we all are winners because we weathered life good or bad. We dealt with conditions we were given and made the best out of those. This is how healing occurs in the mind, by realizing that in every moment when you are breathing you are still a winner.. Life in the long shot maybe unfair and brutal but the true essence in trying to survive through it and making peace with it or finding healing lies in creating beauty, happiness and peace in the present moment and knowing that you are always a winner even when you are struggling through the hard realities that everyday brings and even if the final outcome wasn't what you desired remember that you still have the power and the freedom to control this one little moment you have and create peace in it and enjoy the beauty you created in it even if the bigger picture is bad.
  4. When you know you suck at life and you are still rolling.
  5. ~~~~~~~~~Punching bag~~~~~~~~ Lol
  6. I hope tomorrow is a better day
  7. A 90 Constant normal growth only ensures progress. The concept of "constant normal growth"
  8. Forms of abuse 1 Gaslighting 2 passive aggressive 3 Codependency 4 domestic violence 5 Emotional Blackmail 6 suicide threats 7 Manipulation 8 curses and ill wishing 9 Guilting 10 Warnings 11 Stalking 12 Using past mistakes of the other as a way to cover up present misconduct or as a defense 13 Lying and Hiding 14 Pathological lying and compulsive lying 15 Use of physical force for restraint 16 Display of physical threat and intimidation 17 Abusive words 18 Discouragement 19 Obsessive Interference 20 Demonization 21 Systematic psychological degradation 22 Character Assassination and Witch Hunt 23 Targeting and Bullying 24 Slander 25 Cyber bullying 26 27 28 29 30
  9. --- - - - - - - - - - Index page---- - - - - 1 Deeper truths and Psychology 101 Index page Quotes page Deeper Truths Stressful Days Psychology 101 Important Journal Entries Articles and Health pages. Progress chart Creative Ideas for Productivity New Concepts
  10. 1 goal completed. Yay.
  11. To-Goal format Time 1 2 3 4 5
  12. Borderline Personality Disorder. I will have to do more research on this one for comparison purposes.
  13. How to reduce passive energy 1 focus less on the negative and the sad 2 remember life is unfair and there's no argument against failure. 3 most people fail because of lack of resources and not because of lack of intention... 4 create love in your heart every time you feel sad 5 focus less on problems and more on solutions 6.. do not be obsessed about life or the FINAL OUTCOME 7.. Embrace your struggle 8.. WORK HARD 9.. keep your goals and problems in mind. 10.. Everyone has a story not just you so don't feel alone 11 listen to sad music sometimes to let go the feelings 12 reduce stress 13 replenish every negative event with something equally uplifting and positive and more powerful to beat the negative that happened. You come out stronger and not weaker from the situation. 14. You are a survivor and also a fighter, a warrior and a struggler/worker. We are all workers, fighters,battlers warriors and survivors in this game of life.
  14. A 83 I need to keep a folder to track my stuff. One thing I need to work on is increasing my active energy and lowering my passive energy. How can I achieve this Increasing active energy 1 good diet. Energy rich food 2 exercise of course 3 positive Engagement 4 increasing self focus 5 remind myself the word effort every time I think of the outcome 6 concept of Manhood 7 keeping a track of my progress 8 negativity based motivation 9 seeing problems as challenges 5 working to fix self esteem 6 realizing that progress is always slow 7 staying away from toxic people 8 baby steps all the way 9 keeping people out of your life. 10 following a To-goal schedule 11 12 13 14
  15. Today I was being very contemplative and I thought of this hindi song that made so much sense. Lyrics Translation Banegi asha ik din teri yeh nirasha (One day this sorrow of yours will turn into hope) Kaahe ko roye (Why are you crying) Chahe joh hoye (Come what may) Safal hogi teri aradhana (Your devotion will bear fruit) Kaahe ko roye (Why are you crying) Chahe joh hoye (Come what may) Safal hogi teri aradhana ( Your devotion will bear fruit) Kaahe ko roye (Why are you crying) Diya toote toh hai maati ( If a lamp breaks, then it's clay) Jale toh yeh jyoti bane ( If it burns, it turns into light) Diya toote toh hai maati ( If a lamp breaks, then it's clay) Jale toh yeh jyoti bane ( If it burns, it turns into light ) Bahe aansun toh hai pani ( If tears flow, then they are water ) Ruke toh yeh moti bane ( If they stop, then they become pearls) Yeh moti aankhon ki punji hai yeh na khoye ( Pearl are precious to the eyes, don't waste them) Kaahe ko roye (Why are you crying) Chahe joh hoye (Come what may ) Safal hogi teri aradhana ( Your devotion will bear fruit) Kaahe ko roye (Why are you crying) Sama jaaye is mein toofan (You can weather any storm ) Jiya tera sagar samaan (Your heart is like the sea) Sama jaaye is mein toofan (You can weather any storm) Jiya tera sagar samaan (Your heart is like the sea) Nazar teri kaahe nadaan ( You're eyes are naive) Chalak gayi gagar samaan (As they shed those tears) Jaane kyun tune yoon aasuvan se nain bhigoye (Why moisten your eyes with tears) Kaahe ko roye (Why are you crying) Chahe joh hoye (Come what may) Safal hogi teri aradhana (Your devotion will bear fruit) Kaahe ko roye (Why are you crying) Kahin pe hai dukh ki chaaya (Somewhere there is shade from sorrow) Kahin pe hai khushiyon ki dhoop (Somewhere there is sunlight from happiness) Kahin pe hai dukh ki chaaya (Somewhere there is shade from sorrow) Kahin pe hai khushiyon ki dhoop (Somewhere there is sunlight from happiness) Bura bhala jaisa bhi hai (Good or bad, in whatever form it comes) Yahi toh hai baaghiya ka roop ( This is the form of life) Phoolon se, kaaton se, maali ne haar piroye (A garland is made from flowers and thorns) Kaahe ko roye (Why are you crying) Chahe joh hoye (Come what may) Safal hogi teri aradhana (Your devotion will bear fruit) Safal hogi teri aradhana (Your devotion will bear fruit) Kaahe ko roye Why are you crying Kaahe ko roye Why are you crying Kaahe ko roye Why are you crying
  16. The only thing I can trust in this world is God. Thank you for being in my life since September 2015.
  17. If you can't adjust with me, don't live with me.
  18. Huh..... Finally a break after many days of Chaos.
  19. A 78
  20. Concept of Manhood Application of this concept Problem solving Instead of looking at problems as problems look at them as challenges. Positive Engagement Focus on spatial awareness 1....goals Goals goals monthly goals chart... Clicker and task lists 2.....problem solving.. Application of Education to solve real life problems. 3..Personal Growth and Spirituality 4. ACTIVE energy over passive energy. Even high physical energy. 5 three perspectives.
  21. Increase will power Motivate yourself Reward system Points Reminders Focus less on the negative Keep timers Reduce distractions Positive engagement Self focus Self appreciation Remove negative thoughts and emotions Don't be upset if things didn't work out Say you deserve it Keep yourself intellectually engaged Task lists ready Positive visualization Keep yourself away from toxic engagement Be focused on the essential What positive can be done now What kind of negativity is dragging you down List of monthly and weekly goals
  22. A 74 High physical energy How to have more active energy and reduce passive energy. Active Energy - - - Passive energy _ - - -
  23. Three perspectives 1 Positive (step by step) 2 Nihilism 3 Combative but Grounded
  24.  stupid ego matters in society like feminism, race, politics, ego, power, hate and such.... That's what it is. You will try to expand your understanding of the world through all the chaotic events and matters that draw your attention. The problem is that your real focus in life gets diverted by these issues of the world. The world is a dysfunctional place full of social conflict and even a million saints won't be able to solve its complex problems. Much of those arise from greed, power, ego, money and things that have no place in genuine love and consciousness and spirituality. You would get very confused if you tried to mix spirituality with your understanding of the world. Because the world you see is the last place that operates on principles of spirituality. Much of the bad you see is just an authentic reflection of human nature that many are too baffled to accept and mostly the good you see is just plain fake. There's really not much which is authentic good because when something is genuinely good or beautiful then there is no place for narcissistic or opportunistic behavior there.. Much that you witness may not be a part of politics but it's still politics in some form. It's all a big drama because politics is like drama somewhat and so lot of issues may appear social but they are political in context nevertheless. They are born out of power battles and someone wins and someone loses and everyone is striving for the piece of the pie. Everyone wants the good life but not everyone gets it and that creates the need to compete to survive. But your real motivation should be to focus on your spirituality and not get distracted by a world that revolves on a different wavelength. Don't try to fit in and be yourself. You just have to get by. Rest is yourself and personal development, spirituality and consciousness Dabbling into world issues does help expand your intellectual grip of everything but can be extremely addictive and a drain of time. So you could even keep it to a minimum just enough to keep yourself updated on what's happening around you so you are not left unaware of important events. However long term it's generally toxic and negative and addictive like a addictive game. Nothing much to profit from it but I do agree that it helps expand your logical interpretation and understanding of how the world works. Don't allow it to take centerstage though. Much of dissonance and addictive frustrating and obsession arising in the mind comes from the need to change the world to your notion of goodness which usually doesn't happen. Most messiahs out there are assuming they trying to achieve that. Some achieve but some don't. But people have an innate desire to see the world how they want it to be and they desperately try to change it to their desires. But it doesn't work often, I mean social upheavals happen like centuries ago there is documented account of major events of revolution in history. But it's not always necessary for things to change the way they did in the past. You just have to play the devils advocate and wait to see what the final outcome is. It's literally like watching a drama play out. The final outcome is not necessarily going to be the desired one. So you have to be ready to brace it and get along with the changing times instead of thinking too much about how it will change. Because all that you could do is just be ready to face reality instead of trying to fight or be frustrated or whiny about it. In the end you just have to pull yourself up by the bootstraps and move on and decide how you gonna survive in the world you see. That's the final motivation. But at the moment when nothing much is possible all of it is merely distraction