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There are only two things matter and energy. Matter is physical and energy is spiritual. The physical nature of things and the spiritual nature of things. They both should flow together otherwise there is imbalance.

trinity. 3 forces Material or physical [matter] Spiritual or emotion [energy] Intelligence [divine] In order to have intelligence you need spiritual growth or empowerment. That's why evil breeds in ignorance and stupidity. In order to implement whatevr is in the spirit you need physical force. Anything devoid of spiritual growth or both spiritual growth and physical growth will not have intelligence. This will lead to chaos and destruction. Anything that lacks physical energy will live in a perpetual state of unfulfillment. Desires will never turn into reality In order to experience God's love and to be in tune with the universe, the universe wants us to be stronger in both matter and spirit. Attain mastery of both the physical and the spiritual. So both are fulfilled. In order to experience love in its full form, one has to experience pain. Sex is not without pain. With pleasure comes pain. Without pain, love cannot be full. To love is to suffer. To love is to know and feel pain. In order to experience God's love, one has to go through the cycle of life and pain and suffering. To experience the highs and the Lows of a relationship. But to feel that one has to be able to sustain through the lows. For this one has to be physically strong to survive through the journey of highs and lows and be able to take all the pain and still be happy. This will need tremendous physical and mental strength. A weak person will back away or lose themselves in the struggle. They will get crushed by the lows and escape the whole experience not able to withstand the storms of a relationship. The universe does not change for anyone. It stays the same. The universe does not support the weak but favors the strong, intelligent,, brave and empathetic. When you are an empathy, you develop intelligence. Physical growth is acquired by proper body care. Spiritual growth is acquired by empathy. Empathy. To be in alignment with the universe, is to be in alignment with nature and the earth This is the way to be closer to God is to be physically and spiritually stronger.

Try to live in love and positivity Take baby steps God loves you infinitely In God's world, there is no skin color , no religion, no culture, no rule, no law, no barrier, no competition, no hate, no money, no ill or healthy, no better or worse, no greater or lesser. In his eyes you are perfect and whole and good. He doesn't judge or ignore or reject. He loves you for all your imperfections.

The universe will come together to fulfill my wish. I trust the process of life. I trust the process of the universe. The universe will come together to build my world.

The greatest thing that is worth doing in life is To be yourself and be live a completely authentic life To live the life you want.

The greatest thing ever. Nothing matters more. This matters the most. The greatest achievement ever. . Is. To live the life you want to live. The life you dreamed. The life you wanted. The life you visioned or desired. If you didnt try to live the life you wanted then you didn't live at all. There is no achievement greater than this This is what your soul yearned and wanted. This is what you were born for.. So ask yourself every day "what do I want" We should live not by drugs or medicines, not by crutches, not by money, not by assets but by faith, by love,by determination, by healing by bravery and a spiritual force. Live by what you want. Live how you want..do not hold yourself back. Think every day what you want and attract it to yourself by using the power of abundant mindset and attracting what you want to yourself. This is the secret to life.

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From now on I want to be my authentic self The greatest inspiring message to give to anyone would be "Be Yourself." When you are yourself and truly authentic, you are doing the greatest honor and service to yourself. Self esteem lessons 1. Be yourself 2. Do not give value to those who don't add anything useful to your life. 3. Be matured. Take responsibility 4. Show your emotions freely. 5. Say no when you have to 6. By being yourself you are not rude or unkind. 7. Do not let people dictate how you should be or behave. 8. Be free from fear of judgement or fear of offending. 9. Stay away from people who create toxic stress 10. Do not bend your rules for others stick to what you want to do. 11.do not love others more than yourself. 12. If someone doesn't care about your well being than they don't love you. 13. Be assertive and upfront and honest. 14. Start being your authentic self and you will realize that there is less sabotage. 15. Nobody should have to abuse you for giving you affection. That's a crime 16. By being free and honest you are not being unkind. You are just being you. People who care will eventually accept you 17. Do not be with a person who does not allow you to be yourself . Such a person is not needed and is no good to you because he or she will eventually do you more harm than good. Cut them out. Such people will eventually be toxic to you. If they cant accept you then they can't love you. 18. Learn what you really want and make that your goal.your daily goal board should have what you really want in life and every day you should work toward it. 19.connect to yourself on a deeper level know exactly who you are and what you want 20. If you are with a person who does not allow you to fully express, makes you to hold in a lot, then you will be more likely and inclined to lie more and that will create a lot of confusion and chaos. Because such a person is enabling your lying behavior 21. You should have the confidence and the ability and the audacity to say fuck you to someone when you don't like their behavior. Do not assume that you are being offensive. There is no problem,its absolutely fine, in being offensive when you feel that you are not being respected someone is not right with you or your well being is threatened. You just don't have to be this poor victim. When you need to be offensive you need to be offensive. You need to let that person know that you won't take crap and you don't fear anyone, no matter what, even if the person wants to break friendship with you. 22. You don't need to "lick boots" in order to be accepted. If you are not accepted it's fine. 23. You don't have to kiss ass to be in someone's good books. You just don't need to be good if thats what it takes to be good for someone. It's alright be bad or called bad, because you are being yourself and not having to put on a show of pretention I order to feel acceptable or good it's ok to be a baddie 24. Do not give into the bandwagon effect. That is do not force yourself to have the same opinion as others in a group in order to feel wanted or accepted. That's weakness. Just say fuck them all if all oh them are being wrong or if you don't agree with them. 25. 26.

3 reasons for my irrational behavior Lack of freedom. Feeling like I will be constantly criticized, judged, and that I will end up offending and make myself appear weird. This brings or cause pretentious behavior in me. Stress. Emotional, physical, mental stress in the environment. Noise, work, tension buildup. Conflict and dysfunction at home. Lack of love and affection. Feeling neglected. Not getting emotional love and mental affection and physical affection That' causes me to lie a lot, to hide, to act out, to act weird, to manipulate, to be very defensive and belligerent and suddenly flying in rage and not showing self control or maturity. Showing compulsive behavior [feeling the need to do something despite knowing inside that it's wrong], and impulsive behavior [getting a fit to do something without restraint and thought of consequences]

Flow tasks Bridge Situation appropriate Urgent Context tasks

The other definition of success can be balance. When everything is in balance its success. Nature has an immense capacity for balance and it always tries to restore balance even I the worst circumstances.

Lol I discovered the secret of success at least in my mind. Haha It is this Lots of positive energy. A vehicle needs fuel to run and speed to reach the destination. [my English lol] This speed is attained by the energy derived from the fuel. In life we need positive momentum or speed to move. This positive momentum only comes from positive energy which in turn comes from Positivity. This momentum makes it possible to get speed and to move at a faster rate towards the goals. Now if there's a hurdle in the road, the momentum or speed causes you to crash against that hurdle and overcome it and pass over it. This point where you cross the hurdle is the breakthrough point. Once you have crossed many hurdles, the journey becomes smoother and easier and then begins the process of transformation. Before the hurdle you are person A and after you have crossed the hurdle you are person B. And this is success. Remember that real success is only that which is defined by the universe and not by humanity. What happens when you are negative. Negativity causes negative momentum or zero speed or even backward movement. This means the distance between you and the hurdle increases and then the hurdle gets bigger and you get trapped in your hurdles and problems and you slowly start to degrade. Whereas when you are closer to the hurdle, the hurdle gets smaller and it's easier to cross over it. 9 out of 10 people you are going to interact with are going to make you feel negative. Much of the world is stuck and mired in negativity and this is the major cause of the problems, chaos, suffering, entropy in the world. We have so much money, technology, resources, ability, knowledge and so many people almost 7 billion or more and still we cannot achieve progress and in fact the burden of problems is increasing and we are going backwards instead of progressing forward. We can choose to work synergistically and make it possible for each one of us to have a good life but instead we choose to create antagonism and discord and act parasitic to each other and feed on each other and create negativity and ultimately destruction. Positivity is the ultimate secret to the success defined by the universe. Universe defines success as vitality, growth, flourishing, sustainance, survival and beauty, order, flow, equilibrium, rhythm and perfection. It's already seen in nature which is perfectly designed by God with intelligent design in mind. God has already shown what success should be. Yet man has created his own definition of success and its all about making money and ruling others and achieving fame.

Using the word perfect at least for the short term does have positive psychological effects of dopamine and pleasure. But be aware that it's just a word used for aesthetic purposes and should not fool you into believing that everything is perfect or has to be. How to have a perfect flow of your life right now? Jot down three things you can do right now to have a perfect flow.

Pain and pleasure receptors in the brain. We mostly try to cater to or appease the pleasure receptors that give us the feel good feeling and this becomes a vicious cycle because the feel good becomes a high or a drug that is constantly needed to fix the fix. You keep craving for more when the effect wears off thus leading to an addiction. This feel good is nothing but a dopamine kick that needed for instant relief and motivation. It keeps you away from real goals and real results. Soon you get tired and bored of the mundane task because the pleasure becomes routine. It doesn't give you lasting relief only motivation and a push that is enough to last a day but not more. Whereas pain is unpleasant in the short term but long term struggle yields positive results with enough patience. It doesn't give the feel good dopamine kick and is generally very unpleasant boring dissatisfying and tedious but eventually gives permanent long lasting results or effects. You have to remember that you don't need to have a perfect day or perfect everything. That's an erroneous need of the brain to feel OK all the time. You should accept and feel happy with your imperfections. To expect perfection is ridiculous unnecessary and is born out of obsession and is unhealthy. Almost Narcissistic. The natural way is being imperfect and living through struggles and being real. So it's completely alright if you are falling behind on your schedule and not able to keep or had a lazy unproductive day. It's called life and life should never have to be perfect. An expectation of perfection will make you push yourself too hard or to unnatural things or get dissatisfied or disappointed easily leading to decline in motivation or feeling exhausted or obsessed and unable to deal with imperfections of even the slightest nature.

From his side of the looking glass. Com Six Ways to Grow Spiritually, Connect with God, and Increase Confidence By Kristen Clark Our ability to grow spiritually requires an intentional and intimate relationship with God. In connecting with Him on a deeper level, we learn to trust Him to do what we cannot do ourselves. In essence, we increase our confidence – in Him and in us. Use the suggested approaches below to develop your faith and increase your confidence in God. Faith is the key to spiritual growth and requires a deep and personal connection with God. He wants to be the head of our hearts, king of our souls, and guide to our spirits. By allowing Him free reign in these areas we create an opportunity for lasting intimacy with the Creator. From intimacy comes confidence – in Him and in us. Here are six ways I increase my faith and confidence. You might also find them helpful. 1. Pray. Reach out to God through prayer and surrender to him everything that makes you anxious and worried; let go of those things you are powerless over and let God meet your needs with His grand and divine solutions. Present to Him your heart-felt concerns and listen for His wisdom and guidance. Don’t forget to praise Him in the process, showing your gratitude and thanksgiving for all He has done for you. Connect with God through prayer and feel the unexplainable peace that will protect your heart and mind through all situations. 2. Read the Scriptures. The scriptures are the foundation for our success. They direct our paths and encourage our efforts. They offer life lessons and suggest compelling principles to live by. Make time every day to read the scriptures in your effort to understand God’s plan for you and apply His teachings to your life. Read a Study Bible for additional context and clarity, and any other scriptures referenced. Let God’s Word be your compass. 3. Fellowship with God and Others. Keep company with God and those who also want to grow spiritually. Learn from the experience, strength, and hope of those who have gone before you. Listen to and apply their wisdom and truth to your own life circumstances. Pray together. Dine together. Praise God together. Read the Bible together. This is how we hold each other accountable and invite help where we need it most. 4. Embrace Suffering and Adversity. Life happens and nowhere does it say that life with God makes us immune to or free from trials and tribulations. Stretch yourself by pressing through hardship and adversity. Experience suffering in all aspects. It is through difficulties that we develop talents and skills that God will use later. It is through hard times that we grow – in faith, confidence, and strength. Experience the pain and celebrate the progress. 5. Rest and Rejuvenate. We often make things harder because we don’t take the time to nurture and care for ourselves. We are not Super Heroes. We are human beings with limitations. It is critical that we recognize our limits and tend to our needs in order for us to be our best, reach our highest potential, fulfill our noble purpose, and be the very person God created us to be. Make time for quiet and peace, and listen for God’s personal message for you. Be still and know that He is God. 6. Participate in Service Work. Find opportunities to help others. Serve in ministry at your church. Serve in community at your local library or hospital. Volunteer your time and talents to help someone else. When we help others we get out of self and become an instrument God can use. Be a good steward of opportunities for assistance; don’t hesitate when the need arises and serve with a heart of willingness and humility. Spiritual growth takes time. Not unlike any other relationship, developing an intimate and personal relationship with God requires an effort on our part. It requires us to be willing, present, and vulnerable. When we offer ourselves in this regard, and follow the steps outlined above, we mature spiritually and connect with God on deeper levels. In essence, we grow in confidence – in Him and in ourselves. ____________________________________________

Ways to connect to God Prayer.. 3 types of prayer ..... Seeking prayer, love,devotion praise, gratefulness prayer and higher intentions or compassion prayer Charity altruism 1. Pray with somebody. Read Mark 14:38—even Jesus realized prayer took some effort. And while we need private prayer times, we also need the prayerful support of others. So, ask a friend to meet with you once a week during lunch or after school. Share issues in your life and pray for one another. It might feel a little awkward at first, but it will get better with time—and you'll get closer to God and to each other. 2. Take a day off. Even though Jesus didn't want "honoring the Sabbath" (Exodus 20:8) to become a mindless ritual (Mark 2:27), he believed getting away and focusing on God is really important (Luke 5:16). So, what should honoring the Sabbath look like? Well, it should be one day every week—usually on Sunday—when you take time out of your regular schedule to rest and connect with God with your Christian community. No homework, no work, nada. When you get away from schoolwork and other things that distract you, there's a lot of space to rest and think and pray about what really matters. For more insights into honoring the Sabbath, see our article "Give It a Rest". 3. Unplug. Every once in a while, unplug all your tech toys. Video games, TVs, cell phones, internet—everything. (The world won't end, I promise.) Use this unplugged time to talk with a friend, face-to-face. Go on a walk or play guitar. Read a good novel. Hey, read the Bible. Or just sit quietly, allowing God to speak to your heart without all the normal distractions. 4. Eat temple food. Sound weird? Well, the Bible says your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. What does this mean practically? Let's say you're standing in front of the vending machines at school. Pretzels or cheesy puffs? Soda or water? Now, this isn't to say we can't enjoy a sweet soft drink or a nice chunk of chocolate cake once in a while. But the important thing is to not always fill God's temple with junk—or junk food. And when you do eat, whether it's a Snickers or a carrot stick, thank God for tasty snacks and good food that nourishes your body—his holy temple. 5. Go green. Taking care of the earth is "in" right now. But God was into the planet long before hybrid cars and recycling. God created the heavens and the earth, and he said his creation was good. When he made humans, he told them to care for his creation (Genesis 2:15). We still have that responsibility. When there's enough natural light, leave the lights off. Recycle. Carpool. Ride a bike instead of driving. Thank God for the earth he created and treat it as the beautiful masterpiece it is. 6. Memorize Bible verses. Why? Because God's Word "exposes our innermost thoughts and desires" (Hebrews 4:12). And Psalm 119:9 says we can keep ourselves pure by obeying God's Word. When we memorize Scripture, we have it ready when we need it. It's in our heads, helping us make good decisions and helping us reflect on God's promises. Pick a favorite verse and write it on your mirror with a dry-erase marker. Whenever you look in the mirror, repeat the verse in your head. When you've memorized it, put up a new verse. Where to start: Why not Hebrews 4:12 and Psalm 119:9? Stay Connected to God by Stopping All Compromise Refuse to allow the things of the world—material possessions, career position, sinful pursuits, ungodly relationships or social standing—to eat away at your time with God. Get His Word into your heart so deeply that no one else’s opinion is important. Stay Connected to God by Praying It’s time to talk directly to God. Instead of relying on anyone else to tell you what God wants for your life, start a direct conversation with Him. Tell Him what is on your mind. Tell Him your concerns. Ask for what you need and even what you want. Pray for the needs of others. And, believe that what you ask will be answered (Matthew 21:22). If you need to learn more about prayer, check out Kenneth Copeland’s series on prayer in Believers’ Academy. Stay Connected to God by Accepting Jesus’ Love John 14:21 says, “Whoever [really] loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I [too] will love him and will show (reveal, manifest) Myself to him.” You don’t have to be shy about your relationship with the Father. You can be confident of God’s love for you and His desire to bless you. Rufus Moseley, a great man of God who went to heaven some years ago, once said, “Life in Jesus is gloriously easy. It has one responsibility: the responsibility of remaining in union. If you stay in union with Him, He’ll take care of everything else.” When you incorporate these steps into your life, staying connected to God is delightfully simple. You’re able to keep that vital connection and trust Him to take care of everything else.

Allow the universe to heal you. Deflect all sorts of negative energies of negative people. They are not in tandem with the universe. Hence they will be of no use to you or the universe and they will bring you down or sabotage you. So avoid them.

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The universe says "let my love heal you, my love will heal you."

A poem to the universe. More like a prayer Let me live and thrive in peace Give this day our daily bread Let us live in love togetherness and be happy Give us [me] faith so that we walk with it as our companion Show us the ray of hope Teach us how to live May our actions and intentions be how you want them Let there be peace and love in the world Help us to accept reality and truth meanwhile trusting in your absolute love to protect us Let us move in joy, happiness and grace. Let we grow beautifully and thrive wonderfully Let we be liberated from all illusions and set free from pain Let we find calm balance and tranquility Let we rest in peace This is my only prayer to you.

The universe has all the resources and the power to heal you, cure you, restore and renew your body and also your mind and spirit. It can change your body and mind only if you allow it. Show your admiration and love to the universe and jn turn the universe will reflect the love back to you. Let the universe heal you. Make a sincere request, a sincere prayer to God to give you peace and sustainenance and help you thrive. Love is the most powerful fuel and catalyst used by the universe for growth. Faith is what it lives by. Hope courage strength endurance patience logic perseverance devotion peace joy happiness truth love honesty purity authenticity grace beauty freedom liberation faith tranquility equilibrium balance. Are qualities that make up the beautiful universe.

Some factors required to get a flow in life : Connection to self........ .........how authentic you are and to be yourself completely. No fakery, no dishonesty no pretending. Just true to yourself. Gut instinct and intuition. Something you need to sharpen with time by being more innate, emotional and sensitive to how you feel about everything Connection to the universe and God.- being in sync with what the universe wants you to do and how the universe wants you to be What is a flow A free flow or just flow means your life has a rhythm and it flows as you want, your needs are met, your frustration is less, it moves as you want, you feel a sense of power and control and there is less chaos, more stability and less chances of being sabotaged.

Observe the universe. The universe already has written the book of life, that is it has already shown how to live. There is no other manual on life. Universe shows it to us through its laws and creation. We uncover and study the laws through science and these laws can help us to understand the nature of life and how to live. So everything you wanted the universe has already given to you. You need not look elsewhere and even if you did you will only get half hearted answers. The universe is the key.

The incas and the Aztecs, the Mayas realized this and worshipped forces of nature. So did the Egyptian and other Asian ancient cultures.