Preety_India

Space can be given in 6 ways 1. Giving them an outlet for their outbursts, let them open up 2. Giving them time to heal and cope and recover while not being in contact 3. Giving them room for further negotiation and communication. No cutting communication. 4. Give them room to express difficult feelings or ideas or thoughts or doubt or question. 5. Give respect to their needs and wants and requirements and boundaries. 6. Give them their own time for themselves or "me time"

What to do when you communicate in a Non-violent way but the other person takes it to lightly

Can anyone give me an example of how this communication will look like?

I'd say it's an abusive pattern if it happens and the other person does not take accountability for saying such words or they repeat it way too often to feel healthy about it. Especially if they are also not ready to resolve what caused them to say such things in the first place. I think that's a big red flag. If they got that angry to the point that they had to resort to name calling then they should have a solid reason for it, or else it is really abusive. But if the communication is healthy and each can put up with some anger and don't mind it too much, it can also reflect trust, vulnerability and allowing each other room to bark and get angry without taking offense. After all there should be an outlet for anger and fiery emotions Only trust, intimacy and vulnerability can allow space for such emotional outbursts to take place.

Without fights how will you grow

Please don't say that. At least there should be a way around this and some forgiveness, some leeway I feel so punished.

I'm dying in guilt and shame. I wish there was a way to be angry that would be very intense but not hurtful. Because I don't like to keep things simmering inside. I wear my heart on my sleeve so I get emotional and bark it out like a dog bark. That's my feisty nature. Later I calm down on my own and forgive the other person. It's hard for me to not get angry if I'm hurt deep down. My emotions have to expressed in the most violent ways or else I feel smothered and suffocated.

I actually called him a "fucking asshole" and now I'm feeling guilty as hell. I also called him "fucking pig." I didn't have control over my anger. I don't know how to express anger in a way that actually won't hurt. For me anger is accompanied with those kind of words. I'm feeling sick with guilt over my impulsivity.

I feel weak. In the end, better judgement will prevail. I pray to God for things to be okay. Let there be infinitive love

I'm like God. I understand things which people don't.

In the end everything happens for the better. God is always with us. We're dependent on his mercy and grace. I believe in supernatural forces I need to be in hermit mode.

You need to surround yourself with love.

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Today is March 18. All of it happened between March 16 and March 18. But whatever be positive.

Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting Stop hurting

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Marriage therapy

Because you didn't have to deal with shit, maybe that's why, probably.

Sometimes I also feel like the notions of femininity tend to fool women rather than benefit them.

That I should have no agency or power whatsoever just by the default condition of being a woman yet you should be perfectly entitled to every agency and Power you need.

People always want a woman to sacrifice everything she got even to the point of hurt. That I should have no agency or power whatsoever just by the default condition of being a woman yet you should be perfectly entitled to every agency and Power you need. Sometimes I also feel like the notions of femininity tend to fool women rather than benefit them. Because you didn't have to deal with shit, maybe that's why, probably.

I'm an introvert myself.. It's very hard.