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6 l will never fall in love again.

What a cheapster..

Very helpful. Thank you guys.

Thank you for sharing. I like your name is Loving Radiance. Lately I have been thinking of loving Radiance.

@Spence94 thank you. Your support means a lot.

This is an oath I need to take. I need to change my behavior drastically. Or else things won't change in my life. Now is the moment. I need to repeat this chant everyday. I'll do everything in my power to heal myself

They don't love money. They already have too much. But of course they're not going to be giving everything for free. They got staff to pay. Plus they already do a ton of charity in India for free. It would be ridiculous to expect everything for free from them.

Do you have a helpful video on this? (thanks for this information though)

@puporing @Tristan12 very helpful tips. Thank you.

A lot of Sadhguru stuff is free. To be frank. Indian gurus don't try to capitalize too much. Hindus have a negative attitude towards money. Yes his program is expensive. But that includes living costs. That expense is nothing even for Indians.

@puporing thank you so much for understanding me. Yes it's definitely because of having a tiger mom as a child.

How fair or okay is it to be called a "bitch" in a relationship during an argument? How many times until it is not okay? What if a man calls you a bitch only once during an argument? Should the relationship be broken over it or should there be second chances?

I might need some anger management classes because my anger usually gets the better of me no matter how much I control myself. That anger comes up again like an evil beast.. Although I have subdued significantly over the last two years.

This is ridiculous. It's a well known fact Dave Rubin is gay. I think the only reason Rubin wanted to join the Band is because of free speech. Understandable For me free speech is the ultimate test of liberty.

Thank you. That was helpful and kind

I also verbally abused. I'm more guilty than him. I own my blame. It was purely my fault and I'm ashamed of myself. I can't beat myself enough. Why couldn't I have a moment of self control? I so wish I had not been so foolish and nuts. I gave into anger. I gave into my impulses. I should have known better. I was being abusive and I need to own it.. But I took liberty in a moment of lacking awareness. I took liberty out of laziness and exhaustion. I did wrong but unable to undo it.

Leaving this forum because I'm dealing with some tough emotions right now. I already gave the answer. Only pure love, eternal love, true love, absolute love, infinite love, the only ultimate truth is infinite and pure love. Bye

Lovely comment.

A few tips Don't fall for any man. He should have game. Don't fall for negging. Negging is begging. Don't go for needy desperate men. Always the biggest mistake. Movies tend to make women believe that you can be happy with assholes. Actually no. Because your life experience teaches you otherwise. Don't fall for that alpha man protector stereotype even if your body is attracted to it, it's good in the movies, bad in real life. Usually such men turn out to be abusive. But they're portrayed positively in movies. Don't go for men who don't have a purpose in life. You suffer eventually because such men have too many Insecurities. Look for men who genuinely care for you, unlike those who guilt trip you to be with them. Remember all the polarity, aggression and Negging is a part of male game, it's not male love. Male love is beautiful and faithful and understanding and kind. So don't fall for red pill talk or "hunter" talk because those men are only good at hunting but not loving. If a man doesn't show great interest in you, just leave as soon as possible. Because it's not a good sign. It means he thinks you're just an option or he might be looking for someone better. Guys will treat you like that where you will confused about their signals. A guy who loves will give you clear signs. He won't be too wishy washy. If a man doesn't commit to you, don't be a sucker, leave and never turn back. Don't fall for breadcrumbs. Keep firm boundaries and you will get a man who you truly desire and not have to deal with frustrating men anymore. Have a good day

I wasn't talking about players. I was talking about someone who creates attraction, he is gaming but not necessarily player.

There is a certain truth to this but there is also a certain bias to this. For matured people, relationships are more like contractual agreements rather than falling in love. I have seen such people and they don't fall in love, the whole concept of romantic feeling is kinda alien to them or inconvenient. You can call it high consciousness or whatever but it does not have a natural joy to it, since the people involved are too stoic. People who have a child like quality (that is immature people) tend to fall in love and then fight like kids. Although to an outsider it looks immature, there is a certain joy to it that only a child like person would experience, not the matured person. For the matured person, it would look like a joke. But here is the key. When two very matured persons meet, it's not always the most beautiful thing, it can be very robotic and stoic, it can take the joy out of it, it can get boring pretty soon, it's like eating ice-cream without sugar. On the other hand, a super immature relationship can be very colorful and intoxicating, but both get to play around like kids, however if the immaturity gets out of hand, it can turn into an unhealthy on and off relationship. What is needed in an immature relationship is endurance to carry through all the wars and last till the end and still be able to celebrate the fireworks of that relationship. The couple can actually get old together and then laugh about all the fights they had. But this needs an extremely high level of tolerance and the ability to forgive, forget, and get past one's mistakes, errors and flaws. It means not carrying a grudge forever. It means having that vulnerability and trust and deep intimacy where such fights are either completely ignored or made fun of later. But that would need extreme openness from both sides to be able to take things lightly long term and not make things ultra serious. At the end of the day, everything has its own flavor. How you execute yourself reflects how much joy you wish to create, whether done it in mature or immature ways. Even if we all had to act like kids and super immature, there can be ways to bring our best selves to the table, it doesn't always have to be destructive. Some kids fight, but some other kids act like kids and play like kids yet don't get destructive, they spread joy although in immature or childish ways. Yet joyful. The thing is sometimes it's good to bring out our most wild natural instincts and operate from low consciousness because there is some meaning to it too, I have seen people who act like they are high consciousness in every possible way, they look young yet act like 50 year olds but they are super creepy. I wouldn't want to follow them as inspiration because it's kinda perverted, no matter how matured or high consciousness, there's just something about it that's not very innocent. What you see is not what you think it is. You see a matured person, but you dig deeper and you see that it's just an act, their maturity is a protective cover against showing courage, deep down they are cowards and develop a matured ego to avoid self reflection, you see a person who is acting super immature but during times of crisis they exhibit such empathy and strength and understanding that your mind would be blown away by their courage. I have seen both types. I have seen matured people in my family having a psychopathic detachment to things, to the point you can't create or force an emotion into them, they are also very insensitive because of their maturity. And I have also seen people like my mother who are always super immature, but during bad times have shown exemplary courage through public display of emotion. I don't take anything for granted. To me all traits in human nature (except highly evil destructive traits with criminal bent) are a reflection of karma, they show us something, they point to something, they have their advantages and disadvantages. They are all like weapons, big or small, the big ones are important but so are the small ones. These traits are unique in of themselves, they are simply representations of the inner self, the pure inner self that is like a white chalkboard inside all of us, now whatever color you throw on it, those are colors, yet the whiteness of the chalkboard doesn't change, it is still white. Same way, human traits, inferior or superior are like colors on that chalkboard. The real self is the inner self that is exhibited through these traits. I have come across people who are super immature and low consciousness and have shown tears and empathy for a homeless person and given them food and assistance. I have come across people who are super matured and high consciousness, smart and wise, able to control emotions and very brainy yet they have zero empathy towards that homeless guy and just let him suffer. That time I'm inclined to believe that high consciousness is sometimes a farce, like white collar crime, looks good on the outside but creepy on the inside. And what good do these people bring.. In the Great dictator movie there is a passage that implies that we are greatly annoyed and upset at the actions of the local thug on the street yet the major corporations who create war through their super intellect go unpunished. There is a certain innocence to immaturity and a certain trust that is not found in maturity. Beware of all matured psychopaths, who knows what's lurking behind.

Leave the forum cmomn.

I will have to be off the forum for some days.

I'll focus on self love and infinite love. And on solitude mode.

7. Give room for mistakes and errors. 8. Give regard for their concerns, feelings and reactions.