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Life bucket

He has no integrity or foundation. Zero integrity. Zero empathy too... All just need need need need. Play it nice. Play it cool. The funny tragicomical part is that his feelings of pride are based on a fake shaky foundation. And when the foundation crumbles, his feeling crumbles. Totally delusional

Spiritual bucket and life bucket

The spirituality bucket and life bucket

God is a presence. Presence has no identity. It's infinite love, infinite awareness, infinite consciousness, infinite intelligence and infinite peace. Happiness can't be amazed by itself. But it amazes others.

I'm completely confused.

Thank you

The first question You can practice letting go the need to feel that others should be like you. Simply think that it's completely okay for them to be different than you and that you can easily be tolerant of their different attitudes as long as their attitudes fit under a moral paradigm. It's okay for them to have value structures and preferences different from yours. Maybe they don't see themselves as immodest the way you do. Maybe they think they are being casual or flippant or just having easy fun. You don't necessarily need to change your value structure to accommodate them. You can still have your identity as a modest person meanwhile still having the openness to accommodate their behaviors and value structures as well. This is called cultivating openness. The second question I'm sorry to let you know but this is your body is designed and there is nothing wrong with it. If they are loud to the point of annoying, you aren't wrong, they are not respectful of your needs and choices. You might want to remind them to tone it down and lower the volume and especially tell them to be silent at night. It's natural for you to be annoyed. I'm an Asian myself yet I respect others and I don't play loud music in the night so of course that's not a naturally acceptable cultural behavior. People around me who are Indians/Asians do not play loud music and are extremely respectful and modest. I'd be annoyed and tensed big time if I were woken up in the night by loud noise by roommates. It's not decent behavior. One thing would be to tell them to use earphones so others don't have to uncomfortable around them. If they sing in the kitchen that would be okay but certain behaviors are not okay even if you tried defending it using cultural context. So immature or indecent behavior is indecent behavior no matter whatever culture the person belongs to. They're not supposed to play music on portable speakers. Even if they did they should make sure you're not disturbed by that. If they don't change their behavior even after a polite request, they are being impolite, you might need to speak to your landlord regarding the messiness they are creating. And serve them landlord notice to stop annoying behavior. I won't put up with that sort even in my own apartment. Take care

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One sign of predatory behavior They remain calm if someone tried to provoke them. It's diffusion and reverse-provocation. They do the counterintuitive thing They show combative behavior instead of defensive or reactive behavior. They offset or counter the motive of the opponent.

How has toxic masculinity exactly impacted you?

Negative energy is like a very overwhelming creepy feeling that blocks and tazes your mind. It comes like a tsunami towards you and gulps you

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My spirituality practice helped big time not only as a refuge but also a coping mechanism.

I would always be living in my fairy tale bubble if I didn't have these experiences A bubble of immaturity, collegeness. Because you are not facing reality and hardships. You're not the Frontline leader. You're still that soldier with no experience but still going to war but still joking along the way. Because you don't know real shit But when you have to face real shit, you become a real person. Times of great calamity and confusion have been productive for the greatest minds. The purest ore is produced from the hottest furnace. The brightest thunder-bolt is elicited from the darkest storm. The iron rod gets shaped only in the furnace of hardships. Through every trial we grow. All suffering we experience has a meaning. Though it seems very cruel, it is like the fire that smelts the iron ore: the steel that emerges from that furnace is beautifully strong, useful for many purposes. - Yogananda Paramhansa

Do I regret the bad emotional experiences of my life? No.... Why ..... Because today I'm much more aware and matured directly as a result of these bad experiences. Had I been in a non-bad experience but not exactly pleasant, it will be mundane, nothing to grow,nothing to learn and like a blur... It's like white noise White noise is pointless whereas music sad or happy has a meeting, a way to grow.

Understanding the importance of spirituality. It's not some esoteric bullshit It brings in consciousness and awareness. What's the difference between me as preety in 2017 august and me preety in 2019 November. The answer is consciousness and awareness. It comes through spiritual insight. It's one thing to have a psychology and it's a different thing to be aware of this psychology. Because of my spiritual practice I'm more aware of this psychology.

I have to make certain posts on predatory behavior

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