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Finally I'm having this under perfect control. The only thing I need to is to chart out a good path I forgot to write about predatory behavior.

Once you pick the vein, everything goes into a flow I work intuitively..

@Raphael Yeah I find TV very boring.

It's called 50 laws of power.

If this was a reverse situation , guys wouldn't mind using the word cougar freely in plenty

Let's not judge. (Smiles when a woman is judged)

@Angelite lol

Spirituality causes increase in awareness

Understanding a woman is key. There are some basic rules Don't be so needy that it begins to border on obsession. This will frighten the woman and turn her off. She might run away. Or she might get stressed. Don't be too detached or un-needy. Because that can make her feel like you don't care about her. When she needs you be there for her. Show that you love her,care for her, adore her and most importantly that you respect her. Find a balance between the above two. Difficult but easier with practice . This is called relationship work. Understand what a woman wants , what your woman wants. If you don't know what she wants, ask her directly and maybe she will tell you. Poke her. Give her what she wants. Don't listen to pua community and invalidate her feelings and wants. You're not trying to please yourself or the pua community, you're trying to please the woman if getting the woman is your goal. If even after doing the above she doesn't want to be with you, either she is not the right fit for you or she is impossible to please. Either way you should drop her and seek someone who is pleased by you and likes you. But even if she likes you a lot lot lot lot, you'll still need to follow the above rules to make it work long term.

Let me figure out but I'm not the best at this so take whatever suits your opinion Maybe you have the tension because you think that they are not modest. That's creating cognitive dissonance. You want them to conform and you feel uncomfortable when they don't. The easiest reason. Maybe you crave a sense of control but can't put a finger on it If they are being loud in the night, the frustration is natural Maybe they walk around the house too much and you are not used to it The problem could be that you're focusing too much on them causing anxiety leading to tension Maybe they are not friendly with you and you can sense that and this could be at the bottom of the issue You are unable to feel happy for them out of egotism. Complimenting them makes you uncomfortable. Maybe you feel tensed because you haven't got to know them better Is this related to culture or sexual orientation that is creating inner discomfort. You don't like someone whose body you perceive as inferior to yours to be flexing and showing off because you think it's unwanted. You're the only one who can really tell what's going on in your mind. But the easiest solution is to just let go. You're not require to specifically admire them or compliment them just to compensate for your inner tension. If you find them weird you can just let it go. It's completely okay if someone is not matching your standards of behavior. Because you can't control or decide how someone should behave. Also it's not a huge problem if they don't pose a real threat to you. Practice letting go.

Maybe I was going through something emotionally

That's morally wrong if I had to do that. Rationalization of immoral behavior.

A nightmare about cows and financial exploitation. Hmmm. Unusual. Mass hysteria

Ok

Unusual behavior in cows Researchers used Google Earth to find that cows tended to face north-south along the Earth's magnetic field lines while grazing or resting. Past research has shown that wind and sunlight can cause herd animals such as cows to change their alignment, depending on the conditions.

He lost me. He lost his job. Lost his place. Basically lost everything. Karma I guess Hubris got the better of him.

How did I go through that ordeal One is Positivity Having a bigger heart

I wish it's a bright morning again. Yesterday I had a lot of panic attacks. The relationship stress was showing. But hopefully I'll cope well. There was a bit of separation anxiety.

had a string of boyfriends. Not healthy. Need a break from it all for some time before I start dating again. The ride hasn't been easy. Or maybe I'll never. The last hurt was too much. One day I'll find peace... The song in my head right now....how deep is your love. I really need to know. I know your eyes in the morning sun I feel you touch me in the pouring rain And the moment that you wander far from me I wanna feel you in my arms again This was a memorable experience.. I grew into another plane. And the moment that you wander far from me....I feel the pain. The days are lonely. Without you it seems lonely. Those moments were lovely. Now I retreat in a shell, interspersed with memories of happiness and underlined by peaks of pain And the moment that you wander far from me....I feel the pain. I'll never be truly able to get over you Joe. It was too much. I always thought you were my soulmate. Maybe some day ....you'll understand How deep was my love....I really need you to know. Cause we're living in a world of truths Breaking us down When they all should let us be We belong to you and me How deep is your love. Mine was deeper than the ocean

Hehehe you're funny. Baseball cap lol. Sorry to hear about that. It's never too late though. You seem to be warm. Tide is on your side. Just be yourself and your beauty queen might walk up to you. Sorry you had such a terrible experience at the supermarket. You must have felt really awkward. Nevermind. You never know when things can suddenly brighten up. You seem to be warm and funny. So everything will work out for you. Cheers .

Did you have girlfriends in your younger years? Were you ever married? How was your past dating life ?

@Arcangelo I'm hilariously surprised why you didn't include all these details in your original post. It's like you're gradually leaking all the details.

This scenario is a bit atypical. But you can always try

I respect your honesty. But I disagree with the whole age factor. Don't let age restrict you from enjoying life. Laughter is great for you. You don't have to be sad or angry about anything at all. Life plays you but you gotta laugh at the devil. Actualizing happens throughout your life whether you are 16 or 60. It's your happiness that matters more than what people think. And society's idea of happiness is warped in show off and social status. Hard to not get overwhelmed by it. Please take everything lightly because in the greater scheme of things, whatever you say, whatever I say and whatever people say means nothing. If you can enjoy the moment, you got life by the bull's horns. You'll do well Wish you all the happiness

Thank you so much for your support. Appreciate it and it means a lot to me.