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Good forum post Aeris Member 1,729 posts Posted 7 minutes ago · 7 hours ago, Arcangelo said: Because most girls have had dates with high value men. These men are not good nor nice they are arrogant assholes because they have options. You don't have options, that's why you are so nice. You are basically kissing a girl's ass thinking that if you kiss her ass long enough she might give it to you. So, you by not being an arrogant asshole tells her you are NOT a high value man with a lot of options. If you don't have options something must be wrong with you. The girl thinks: ''Why would i like you if no other woman likes you.'' Your SMV is determined by how other women perceive you not by how you, society or your friends, your boss etc. perceive you. My comments are not gonna be welcomed because this forum is blue pilled AF. Yes. Absolutely. IME guys that lie the most are the ones that get the most (and the best) women. There is a direct correlation between being dishonest and a liar, and having success with women. Again my comment is not gonna be welcomed because this forum is blue pilled AF. Everything, because good guys have no value. For a woman to get a nice guy is not that difficult, because they are everywhere, there is no challenge. And women in here are gonna tell you OFC we do. But you girls are not attracted to nice guys, you actually feel repulsed by them. It's only when a woman realizes that she is not getting any younger and SETTLES for a nice guy right around when they're 30 something. And that's the bottom line. That's just the way it is. Now i am gonna lay back and watch how the whole forum tells me i am wrong, deluded, trapped and projecting go ahead, it amuses me. I am teaching you, not the otherwise. Remember I am 40 yo. Respect your elder's wisdom. ARC Aeris The truth is all thinking is projection to the relative. We eat tons of red pill. But most people didn't eat the one that tell that everything is bs. That all conceptualisation remain the imaginary thoughts of animals There what we have is ALWAYS relative observation. truth is that all thinking is 'imaginary

Great. Awesome. A big thanks for this.

This is the greatest truth ever spoken.

This is my own thinking that I got one day during my early morning insight meditation. I do early morning meditation to get insights and pour them into my journal later. I get lots of insights the more I meditate. It needs intense meditation and focus. Thanks

Yea totally true. The karmic circle. I have my own saying for that. I don't know how much people believe in it but it goes like "you attract the energy you create"... I see this happening everyday. This is how the karmic cycle begins and end. Life for example if you say a lie, or have sex without the motivation of love, you have created a karmic energy in the moment. This karmic energy stays in the environment. Now after a few days either your partner or you realize the truth that the relationship has no true value and the sex was without love. At this point the karmic energy manifested itself as an outcome. Now understand this. This is where it gets important. The reason you attracted a partner who also showed similar karmic pattern is because of your own karmic energy created by you.. "you attract the energy you create".... If you had created the energy of truth, your karmic energy would have represented truth and attracted a truthful partner in return. Because the karmic energy you create has to find a way to expose or manifest itself. So it ultimately gets exposed or manifested in a situation that has been gradually attracted by it for the purpose of expression or final outcome or exposure. Now if you expressed the karmic energy of great friendship you will attract a great friend. You created the karmic energy of sex without love so you were gradually taken to a situation where you realize that both you and her were using each other for sex without love leading to guilt. This guilt situation was attracted by your initial karmic energy and also by her karmic energy. That's why such a situation came. Hope it makes sense now

Men are hollow and shallow. They lack depth and substance. They are cheap

Lmao this is funny. This is like saying girls who do plastic surgeries and do all sorts of makeup tricks to hide their real looks will get the best men.. In reality truth will always find itself in some way into the relationship. And when the truth is revealed the other person is more repulsed than they would have been if you told the truth. Nothing less attractive than being insincere, dishonest and inauthentic when you want a person in your life, I mean if you don't want a hoe. A true man / woman will value integrity, sincerity, honesty, Authenticity, realness more than anything. Lies only leads to a web of lies. A man gets completely turned off when a woman lies if he is a true man and so does a good woman. She will never honor something she herself is not. If you don't want to land up with a hoe or a flaky cheap guy, then begin to cultivate sincerity and what you cultivate in yourself will also attract people who have that in them...

I get attracted to nice guys all the time. I don't know where the perspective comes from, probably movies. In real life that doesn't happen. Attraction does not depend on whether a man is nice or not, it has got more to do with courtship and how you can please the other person. Being nice to people and being nice to her are two different things. She doesn't need a saint as a partner, why would she. She needs someone who can care and protect her and her kids in future. Are you able to provide that as a nice guy is the real question. Because if you can't provide that then she sees you as no good to you. I have been with both nice guys and bad guys. I won't say the experience differs massively. Sometimes a nice guy is only nice in the beginning only to win the girl, and when I realize that it's more hurtful than being with a bad boy who is at least honest and not trying to impress. A woman will not be impressed if you are dishonest with her, most often it's a sign of betrayal. I fell for a nice guy, thinking he is a nice guy but suffered terribly in the relationship because under the guise of nice guy, he was using covert way of controlling me and hurting me. I don't know what to say about bad guys. Seriously there is no such thing. I mean if they are really bad they would be in jail. Been with a guy who had been to jail. I can say bad boy. But he was honest. Never felt like he was manipulating me for something. There is something called as known rascality. If I know how much of a rascal a guy is going to be, I know the full extent of his rascality so I don't have to worry anymore but if I think a guy is too good to be true, I never know how his bad side is going to be because it never shows. Women who want to be with a bad guy to feel good or in position of control are dysfunctional. It's not a good thing.. All those women who like gang guys. Not a good role model. They don't do it out of love but for selfish reasons. Love is not just love but also romance which means passion. If you are going to be a nice guy lacking in passion, how do you think its going to work. But if you can work up the passion then good for you.. I think such phrases like nice guy bad boy are just words. In reality things are more ambiguous. It's more being good, honest, authentic, passionate and protective all at the same time. So don't stick to stereotypes. If by your logic, then all husbands in the world are bad boys lol. It doesn't work like that. Also a woman who is so hell bent on male image is not very intelligent. An intuitive woman likes a man for what he is worth. Show her what you can offer her. It all comes down to morality and survival. Morality because she doesn't want to be with a criminal or a threat to herself, survival means you should be good at sex. But even if all of the above is true in whatever way, the ultimate truth that triumphs all the little truths is that love withstands everything, true love. A woman who loves you truly will accept you for who you are and won't let you go unless you are a total jerk to her, nice guy or bad boy wouldn't matter. Try to be the best version of who you can be and invest in sincerity. Karma pays.

@28 cm unbuffed When love/desire and fear get all mixed up like that, you know that something really important is going on. Remember that we can only ever be afraid of ourselves. Try not to overthink it, but go into the experience for what it is in the moment.

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I'm sorry I can't do that. I need to move on..... Andrew is a great guy

It's time to put my spiritual concepts into practice full time

It's about how there are major complexes that are important to be considered. One thing I noted is that life is the experience of both physical and spiritual. After death spiritual is not relevant and physical does not exist. So only life is important. In life its the Fusion of both physical and spiritual and this is the only chance to experience it. The complexes are Socio-psycho-biology complex Psycho-biology complex Psycho-emotional-mental-spiritual complex Psycho-emotional-mental complex I will call these energy molecules or energy pathways. Development of all these complex or pathways is important. Now the spirit has a disposition but this disposition is also impacted by the Psycho-emotional-mental complex. Now life consists of aspects The psycho-biological and the emotional-mental-biological and psycho-emotional-mental-spiritual complex and Socio-psycho-biology complex. And psycho-emotional-mental aspect. In spiritual there are 2 psycho-emotional-mental-spiritual complex psycho-emotional-mental complex In physical there are 3 psycho-biological complex Socio-psycho-biology complex emotional-mental-biological complex If you don't water a plant then the plant will die. Therefore only spiritual aspect is not the only important aspect, it's also the physical or biological aspect that should be considered. But if you forget the spiritual aspect there are problems like depression and mental illness and degradation of the spirit. Therefore both need to be considered. You have a physical journey as well as a spiritual journey. The term engineering. This term has a special meaning. Every word, statement, action you make or do should be engineered lifeward.

Every side needs to be fulfilled Emotional Spiritual Biological Physical Sexual Social Occupational Financial Intellectual. Survival Psychological Mental

Life bucket

He has no integrity or foundation. Zero integrity. Zero empathy too... All just need need need need. Play it nice. Play it cool. The funny tragicomical part is that his feelings of pride are based on a fake shaky foundation. And when the foundation crumbles, his feeling crumbles. Totally delusional

Spiritual bucket and life bucket

The spirituality bucket and life bucket

God is a presence. Presence has no identity. It's infinite love, infinite awareness, infinite consciousness, infinite intelligence and infinite peace. Happiness can't be amazed by itself. But it amazes others.

I'm completely confused.

Thank you

The first question You can practice letting go the need to feel that others should be like you. Simply think that it's completely okay for them to be different than you and that you can easily be tolerant of their different attitudes as long as their attitudes fit under a moral paradigm. It's okay for them to have value structures and preferences different from yours. Maybe they don't see themselves as immodest the way you do. Maybe they think they are being casual or flippant or just having easy fun. You don't necessarily need to change your value structure to accommodate them. You can still have your identity as a modest person meanwhile still having the openness to accommodate their behaviors and value structures as well. This is called cultivating openness. The second question I'm sorry to let you know but this is your body is designed and there is nothing wrong with it. If they are loud to the point of annoying, you aren't wrong, they are not respectful of your needs and choices. You might want to remind them to tone it down and lower the volume and especially tell them to be silent at night. It's natural for you to be annoyed. I'm an Asian myself yet I respect others and I don't play loud music in the night so of course that's not a naturally acceptable cultural behavior. People around me who are Indians/Asians do not play loud music and are extremely respectful and modest. I'd be annoyed and tensed big time if I were woken up in the night by loud noise by roommates. It's not decent behavior. One thing would be to tell them to use earphones so others don't have to uncomfortable around them. If they sing in the kitchen that would be okay but certain behaviors are not okay even if you tried defending it using cultural context. So immature or indecent behavior is indecent behavior no matter whatever culture the person belongs to. They're not supposed to play music on portable speakers. Even if they did they should make sure you're not disturbed by that. If they don't change their behavior even after a polite request, they are being impolite, you might need to speak to your landlord regarding the messiness they are creating. And serve them landlord notice to stop annoying behavior. I won't put up with that sort even in my own apartment. Take care

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One sign of predatory behavior They remain calm if someone tried to provoke them. It's diffusion and reverse-provocation. They do the counterintuitive thing They show combative behavior instead of defensive or reactive behavior. They offset or counter the motive of the opponent.