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Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to identify and manage your emotions, as well as other people's emotions. If you're emotionally intelligent you have the ability to: Identify what you're feeling Know how to interpret your emotions Understand how your emotions can impact others Regulate your own emotions Manage other people's emotions Some people naturally inherit high EQ but it's a skill that you can practice and develop. By practicing emotionally intelligent behaviours your brain will adapt to make these behaviours automatic and replace less helpful behaviours.

How to think like a Pudwiser

I can make this oil at home rather than buying this snake oil at 96 dollars plus tax.. No thanks

It's self defense and protecting the innocent from the wicked. This is going off topic so I won't comment more on this thread. Adieu

That's not violence, that's Kali.. Go become Kali

The problem of language, blabbery and Mental Gymnastics. The thing is that I always get tempted to easily react to mental gymnastics. It's tough not to. But I'll try. The other thing is the question "what's the point of blabbery?" The question I ask myself is "Why not invest in healing and aesthetics and more growth in non invasive/defensive ways? “ Growth does happen through antagonization and debate and relentless thought provocation. But can be stressful and overwhelming. Try growing through other positive non impactful and healing paradigm ways. Of course there is no denying that debates help in shadow work and understanding and learn the truth and the game of the world better, but it is a huge expenditure of peaceful energy, a huge cost in terms of restlessness and chaos Retain the peaceful energy and focus on growth instead.. The opportunity to grow through critical thinking is always at hand's reach. So don't suck into it. But rather start conscious focus rather than instinctive/intuitive focus. Or focus which is naturally inclined or allocated. Higher paradigm thinking. Think from a bigger tier. Higher wisdom. There is always a wisdom higher than yours and try to think from that tier. Leo's Structure Versus Content deals beautifully.... I need to think big picture think. But I'm going to reform it just a bit. Instead of saying big picture think I'll say high tier thinking. Think from the next higher tier of wisdom. Build it up like a Domino. Keep building

So this week I wrote about flow theory

Getting arrested can be for good reasons? “he beat up a guy to a pulp, so he spent 6 months in county jail. I felt responsible for that. February 1999 in Omaha Nebraska he was arrested for burglary. He was convicted. He spent 3 years in prison. He got out in February 2002.“ So I guess in your opinion, burglary is also for good reasons. I'm sorry but I'm not the type who rationalizes bad behavior. But good for you if you have reached that stage of spirituality

I was thinking about the importance of aesthetics How to think like a...... Pro

Did you forget the part that he was violent and had multiple arrests or did you just skim over that part?

Your husband is a white guy right. I'm assuming that your husband who is a white man is a good guy. I don't think you regret that. I have no idea why you would bring up the past about your native American boyfriend but maybe it could be an inner doubt bugging you. My point is this. The story you said about your native bf looks awful to me.. I'm sorry but I'm taking the side of your father. Whether you like it or not or if you consider me racist. He was being intelligent and only wanted the best for you. He wanted to protect you. Maybe he was right (just being blunt, not trying to blame). Your bf has shown some reprehensible behavior and if I were in your place, I would call quits right away. I don't think your father is racist if he is being legitimate. I don't get the logic. Your father is a white man. He is married to a Puerto Rican woman. How is he racist. If at all, it only proves that he is not racist. Your dad did the right thing imo

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Thank you again. And Merry Christmas.

Thank you so much for the recommendation. I'll place the order right away. They are wonderfully cheap. Needed them so much right now.

This is the most beautiful thing in my life right now

I think the biggest thing holding you back is your Ego. Your ego is extremely resistant. It wants to preserve who you are to the point that you don't want to be subjected to even a slight offense. As a result your heart has closed. For you, relationships are not an opportunity to find love, but a situation of "what if this" , "what if that", this is a cycle of catastrophization you are already l engaging in when a relationship has not even begun. Your ego has already conjured up all the negative consequences of a relationship in order to proactively protect you from getting hurt. Release yourself out of this. If you approached relationships and dating with a pessimistic catastrophizing mindset, you will have no success even if you found a really wonderful potential date/partner. First work on yourself on getting more social and dropping fear based thinking and insecurities. Understand that even bad/toxic relationships are not something that people keep regretting every minute, they learn something from it that helps them grow, they get important learning lessons out of it so it's not entirely regretful. And there is always some love even if there is some hurt and pain. That's the nature of life. Everything cannot be served on a silver platter. Anything and everything has it's ups and downs. You cannot bypass it. Living life means enjoying the rose, forgetting the thorns. Nothing is ever going to be problem free or peaceful or perfect. You'll have to work around it and find your way through tough situations and get what you want. Take the good,leave out the bad. I feel like you're confident, you just avoid approaching because of the ego backlash or ego resistance. Open your heart more and cultivate the quality of openness. Once you do that you'll look at people in a different light. You'll learn to welcome good behavior and let go the ones that act weird. Openness can make you more loving and less scared.

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Learned a new word today. Nontent. Vs content.. No content =Nontent

Like they say love is blind. I also fell for an abusive guy not long ago but finally got freedom. Now much better.... Love to all

Seems dangerous to me

Do you have a blog and website. Would love to know more

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Thanks Anna

You got some fantastic responses here. I believe in the law of attraction although I know that some people think that it's nonsense. You attract the situation with your energy. Do not live in LACK It's detrimental to self esteem if you constantly focus on it. Because it makes you feel deprived. This can unconsciously attract toxic relationships without your awareness. A relationship is a big deal. So even if you get a gf, it's not all smooth sailing. There will be challenges in such a way that sometimes you might want to be alone. Fights are common.. But obviously a relationship makes you feel wanted, desired, grounded, nurtured and attached. It makes you feel secure The one thing that you can focus in the meanwhile is personal growth. Think how this will attract your future partner. Think how much work you did on yourself to attract this future person.. It will make you feel proud of who you are. But do not wallow in self pity. Understand that you deserve love whether you get a gf or not. Which means you will need to engage in self love.. Every mental need is deep down a craving of the mind. And when it gets fulfilled its not a big deal.. Because you kinda get over it and it is not as great as you thought once. Another option to feel affection in your life is to adopt a pet. Animals are naturally intuitive and loving and they can make you feel loved if you feel lonely. You can learn so much from them. Of course human company is an entirely different thing. But whether there is a will there is a way. So be hopeful and positive. Always learn finding love in yourself is also a journey which is equally exciting. And try to connect to people. Do not lose your romanticism just because you don't have a partner. Read romantic novels. Watch emotional movies. Watch comedy. Connect to that side in you so you always have that ESSENCE even if you don't have that PRESENCE. Like someone said here that you can always dream and live in those dreams and still manifest your desires in those dreams.. So never stop dreaming and always work on yourself and have an open heart.