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Is this really vital to me or is this just a distraction

Some more keywords Combat Cope Resist Thrive Grow Defy Overcome Struggle Withstand Guard Vigil Fortify Build Prepare Secure Charge Independence Compassion empathy benevolence welfare

It's a mortal fear that grips the person who is still in the stage orange womb. They need a lot of growing up to develop unconditional acceptance Welcome to the world of bias and prejudice. And also... Self righteousness

Self care synonyms personal care exp., n. self support exp. self help exp., n. self supporting exp. self handling exp. independence n. self service exp., n. self government exp. self sufficiency exp. self reliance exp. autonomy n. empowerment n. independent n. self governance exp. self-service n. autonomous self-care n. thinking about yourself exp. nursing carer's self-help n. self-servicing n. self-treatment n. personal custody exp. self-aid n. looking after oneself n., exp. caring for themselves exp. self management exp. grooming n. selfcare n. self handlers exp. care of oneself exp. help themselves exp. care of themselves exp. self-accounting self aid n., exp. attention to yourself exp. care for oneself exp. self love care of yourself exp. care of ourselves exp. pamper yourself exp. autoprocessing n. self medication exp. help oneself exp. self-serve n. self-maintaining n. caring for yourself exp. self-initiated care exp. self appreciation Parts of speechTags synonyms page 2 ratinga-zz-ashort firstlong first 50100200 self-protective n. self-preservation self sufficient exp. self sustainment exp. promotion n. facilitating encouraging promoting conducive help himself exp. help itself exp. help yourself exp. employ v. operate v. wait on exp. use v. work v. handle v. service v. operating serve v. get along exp. selfservice n. personal hygiene exp. personal cleansing exp. body-care body treatment exp. personal attention exp. body care agent exp. toiletries n. personal care composition exp. personal care product exp. personal care products exp. body care products exp. personal care articles exp. personal care article exp. personal care item exp. self accounting exp. self-accounting unit exp. self accounting units exp. stand-alone self-employment self-contained devolved

MGTOW is like emotional independence

Well being Enrichment Nurture (helping to grow, encouraging to grow) Fortify

Keywords Nurture Well being Self love Self care Self growth. Freedom Healing Unconditional love Acceptance Guarding The art of well being

Well being Total self focus... Me me me me. Self love self care Bring your focus back to yourself < how can I benefit myself right now > ( Internal locus of control.. Will talk about this later) Be an opportunist Talk to them not emotionally but tactfully so that it benefits your cause and purpose Look at everything from the survival context perspective The self card Point by point Just look after yourself Like you can calibrate your effort in points In self investment All of the kind stuff is just bhoolbhulaiya Well being Nurture Care Survival Self care Unconditional love (from God) Freedom Look at everything in terms of context and survival. Whatever helps you is survival. Rest everything is context. Everything beside survival is context. Ask the question Is he cooperative or not? Men acting like assholes. Nothing new

I don't like how Deepak Chopra gets all wishy washy about things rather than coming straight to the point. I don't like how Sam Harris has this huge condescending ego, an all knowing messiah attitude and how he always wants to win every discussion and make crass statements just to look appealing to the audience, more like a show than substance. I have gladly dumped both in the garbage bin. At least Deepak chopra offers some information on meditation, not that Sam Harris doesn't, it's only that Sam Harris has this business approach to everything as if meditation is like doing bench presses. How many you did today.

@Key Elements we have a great chemistry overall. Plus I'm working on my own emotional skills. I don't want to invest too much emotion into him like I did last time. I'll take it slow with him. He seems like a really nice person. You're right about the attachment part. I'm letting go of too much attachment. It can bring unnecessary misery in the end. I focus more on end stage thinking now. My intellectual growth so far has afforded me some protection. But obviously I have more to learn.

I always thought that bossiness was a bad quality. But now I can see how it helps in survival As a survival combat weapon.

@Anna1 hahaha yep. Or they will say climate change is a fabrication. Or the moon landing never happened. The one making the rounds on the internet now is that Jeffrey Epstein is not dead. They should all be wearing a tin foil hat to protect themselves from radioactive waves coming out of alien spaceships. Or they might get MK ultra programmed by their governments.

@Bill W I told him this There must be some truth to your belief since the flat earther movement is getting bigger and bigger across the globe. He didn't get it.

Develop a kind of selfishness which is good for growth Do not trust too much Ask yourself the question Is this going to help my survival or impede my survival? Is this going to ensure my survival and wellbeing or going to be destructive to it. One thing I never had was a GUARD.... Building a wall helps. It helps in keeping destructive elements out. Do not deal with negative and destructive people. Throw them out Is this thing going to be helpful to me or is this going to hurt my survival and sustainance. Ask this question in every situation. Is this person, situation or event going to sabotage my survival.

I also wanted to start shadow work on a serious level. There are 3 things that I want to focus on right now Spirituality Shadow work Psychological tools and resources

Very very true. Golden words. Your thoughts are always crystal clear.

I'm trying to recollect the keywords Well being Growth Progress Health Nurture Healing Survival and life Flow and Organization Enrichment and empowerment Self love, self care Ensuring future survival and comfort Advantage

@Anna1 hahaha honeymoon. That was nice.

The other keywords that I was going to focus on was Well being and Nurture and Shucks I forgot the other word. My memory is getting worse. This affects my development work big time. Lags in memory I get a creative idea in my head and 2 hours later I completely forget it. My memory sucks these days..

I was going to talk about how there are different levels or forms of self esteem like low and high and strong and fatal self esteem

You really had to do the sexist thing of making it women VS men. Not a great idea. He is not his father by the way the one who caused him so much hurt and pain. You don't need to comment on other's suggestions and judge whether it's good or bad. Give your own suggestions rather. This is not a competition for good advice or bad advice. The OP reads everything and decides what he needs to do.

@MNR Mackey If he is texting you or calling you, don't respond anymore. Remove him from your contact lists. Disable notifications for his contact on your phone and social media. He should have nothing to do with you anymore. If I were in your place, I'd have been very angry and reasonably so. He has no right to talk to you anymore. Do not give him this privilege. Totally ghost him. Him being in your life will only make things worse. It will impact your self esteem and cause you despair and distress. There are people in our lives that always cause us sorrow. Best is to cut them out. They dont deserve our attention or affection. They deserve nothingness. Put him out of your life immediately.

Great list.

I certainly doesn't affect how I live. But the fact that he believes something as strange as that made me question his intelligence and sanity. Those are necessary for proper decision making and survival.. I mean of course you don't want to end up with a loony tune. But he is not that much of a crazy. He just believes in certain conspiracies and stuff like that. He calls it "out of the box" thinking. He says he thinks for himself and nobody can teach him and he is proud of it. Well good for him. I admire his independence but I just want to be sure he is not too wacky wacky. I like his other qualities so might as well just nod my head in agreement with whatever he says.

That was a good point. Are you from sweden