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I'm having such a great day. Finally. Some things are in order.. Rainbow after the rains!

Don't try to pin it on Neil by making him a scapegoat. It's all your own doing. You dug your grave now sit in it. You were being a douche to me. It's been long overdue.

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Anna, you must have noticed that the ones who don't have a gf are the ones who wag the most about divorce and women! Ironies.

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He hates my guts hehehe.. This time gave him good.

So many changes have happened in the last week, and I mean the whole first week of January. I can't be more grateful but at the same time, there's tension looming over my head. So much needs to be done. I have been through too much and it's high time I move on. Andrew has been beside me as a friend and guide. Very supportive. Wait till I get this pig out of my life and I will be so happy.

So true. I wonder too. Yea men lie to themselves a lot. I couldn't articulate it in the best way but this is what I was looking for, well said. All these truly define the experience with men which is very frustrating. And very few men care to notice. This is a myth in my opinion. Women do not have many options if they cancel out or reject as many as they can for bad behavior. Deep down the "the respectful honest man" is such a rare thing. Most men just wouldn't do this but would be glad to throw the blame on a woman. Absolutely agree. As we learn, we make better and better choices.

Such good, much love, aah yess Honor to the doge I think I'm too tired to deal with this crap. I don't mind hurting you. The feelings are dissipating. I have taken enough bull. So. You are always a dick head. So I just don't have the energy to deal with a dick head anymore. I can't be blamed. I showered affection and attention And... you're ungrateful and incapable. I'm done with that. You are emotionally abusive. You are mean to me. So i am getting out. That's what any person will do. I get shit on like constantly. I have no patience. I don't want to deal with that. You take me for granted just because I love you. So I'm better off without you. I need a person who loves me for who I am. Not a floozy. I need a person who values me, appreciates me. Is attracted to me. Has a chemistry with me. Not someone who just wants me around. You have been so mean to me. Feel like you don't like me. Maybe you do. But you come across as cheap. Past several days I've been drained by your crap. So when you said you didn't need me, that was the last straw.. Too much self respect. Can't take. Call it female ego or whatever. Don't want to deal with that.

Commitment is necessary to bring up children in healthy functional households. With lack of commitment, there is this single parent phenomenon which has adverse psychological effects on children. Nobody likes a non committing partner, not people with high values. People who are okay with lack of commitment do so because they themselves cannot commit. Both men and women get displeased by a non committing partner. It's just counter productive to mental and emotional health. Divorce is not the same as lack of commitment. Divorce happens because of reasons that are unforseen. You cannot simply predict that your marriage will lead to a divorce on the first day. That would be a very pessimistic approach. A sense of commitment shows a sense of responsibility in both men and women. Anyone who does not have this sense of responsibility appear unattractive.

I'm not a native speaker. So forgive me!

I have decided to operate from a perspective of the "brand new me" To be self positive. To have this abundant mindset which is empowering and move away from the low self worth low self esteem scarcity mindset.

Why should an amazing woman like me be with a duldo like you who rates women only based on their looks.. Ughh. Don't need that sleaze. I am happier than ever and discovering the new me. The amazing me now. I am looking for a wonderful life ahead. A truly amazing incarnation.

I will flourish in a nourishing, supportive, positive, Empathetic and empowering environment.

You know all the those tricks and you have done a good job. The Satan is pleased by the performance.

Boundary decides everything between good and bad. When a certain thing crosses a boundary, from good it turns into bad. Certain terms that define abundance mindset Empowering Enriching Kind. Abundance mindset Leadership Empathy mindset Enabling Opposite words Incapable of loving Judgemental Narcissistic Disempowering Unempathetic mindset Unkind Scarcity mindset Unwilling (to help) Disabling Incapable of loving Incapable of unconditional love Selfish Insecurity Lack of Openness Ungenerous Demonizing Unsupportive .. Gaslighting and reverse Gaslighting. Gaslighting is direct. Like 'you're a bad person "... Abuser Reverse Gaslighting. Example " I don't want you to do this so I protest " " you're a bad person for protesting ".. Abuser.

You're the best devil Takes one to know one.

I think I don't look at life this way. Maybe it's just me. But my attitude towards life is based on a bit of stoicism. I think life is meant to be about challenges and obstacles. So I don't categorize people as healthy or unhealthy because in my mind every person is a work in progress. If I were to label a man as low quality or high quality that would probably be a bit unfair but I understand the whole idea. I too have standards when it comes to dating. But my standards are based more on moral values rather than the psychological or physiological makeup of a person. Because I take it this way. I can meet an incredibly wonderful man who has suffered trauma in his life and has anger issues or has other problems because of his past trauma but he is otherwise a wonderful person. I don't want to let go of his redeemable qualities only because it appears that he is lesser than me in some way. So I don't buy into the whole idea of dating up or dating down.. My idea of dating is more about finding a soulmate, having an experience in life rather than calculate the costs or rewards of a potential relationship. The only thing i wish to avoid is a person who is not genuinely in love with me because such an experience is surely not going to align with my emotional needs at all. I believe that life is about struggle. So if I had to struggle with a man I'm in love with then I'm ready for it because in my mind struggle is a part of life and it will be worthwhile to struggle in whatever I can if the man I'm with is worthy of my love whether he is low quality or high quality. Coming to the perspective of standards. I wouldn't ever date a sleazy piece of.... That is part of my value structure and I think that's completely fine. Because why would I compromise with my values and principles. I just wouldn't find any attraction to a man who doesn't match my value frequency.. Which means his mentality and ways of thinking should have to match mine. Coming to the question. I don't know if I can qualify for a high quality woman, I just find the term a bit odd, but all I can say is that I don't think a woman needs to give up or put up with anything when she wants to be with a high quality man, because I believe that in a loving relationship she will face the same struggles as in any other normal relationship and both of them will need to keep the relationship going and face its challenges as they come. The only thing that differentiates a high quality dynamic from a low quality one is every low quality relationship has toxic patterns, energy draining, lack of consideration and selfishness. Both men and women need to avoid relationships that drag them down and don't help with their life goals, value structures and relationships that erode their potential growth.

I WILL NEVER TRUST HER EVER AGAIN. EVER. SHE BROKE MY TRUST

I would have probably just left the gathering. Or asked other women to help me out to get her off me. What she did was so gross. I'm sorry you had to go through such an ordeal. I'd have been stern and probably left her a warning not to do that again. And if it went too far or happened too often despite the warnings then I would have created a scene at the party and screamed and got the other women to notice what's going on. And reported to the police once I got home.. It's not okay at all. I will consider it sexual harassment. Although I would have felt sorry for her homelessness but i would have still not allowed such a behavior. I mean it's hard for me to feel empathetic to people and also scorn them at the same time. I guess it's tricky. She is a total wacko total weirdo. I hope you are safe. The question really is, if she is capable of that, what else is she capable of? So as a word of precaution I would say never be around this woman if you are ever alone like in a bedroom or a bathroom or any room or trust her in any way because she can do harm in the name of fun if she is that much of a nutcase. She can experiment to test your boundaries and go overboard and try some sadistic games with you or something. So better be safe than sorry. Weird behaviors are obviously signs of mental issues but can transform quickly into criminal intent and this often gets ignored. So be on the safer side with this weirdo woman. Now coming to the part of your friend. If she is your true friend, shouldn't your friend understand your boundaries? What kind of a friend takes your concerns lightly? You need to have a sit down with your friend. Tell her straight up that her cousin is weird and you can't stand it and tell her that you value your friendship with her but the cousin needs to stay away and stop the mess. Be upfront and honest but also remind your friend that it's not being offensive to her or her cousin. It's just you standing up for your self respect. I hope you do that. And if your friend is beating around the bush, then there's not much that can be done other than just avoiding this weirdo woman. That weirdo woman needs to be dealt with and put in her place. It's sexual harassment and gross and vile, whatever nonsense she is doing.

Patriarchy was never a beautiful thing no matter how much ever you defend it. It was a system designed specifically for sexual dominance on women so that they can be used for the purpose of men. We need a system of equality neither patriarchy nor matriarchy. It's important to uphold each other's human rights first before considering the gender. The world will be a better place if we considered a woman a human being first and then a woman. The identity with a gender is a part of the low conscious ego trying to protect and prove itself. Rights cannot be given by men or women, they are protected by laws and a system put in place by the majority. It's created by people. And it's stupid thinking that women chose to get oppressed. Nobody chooses to get oppressed. Women were subjugated and subjected to oppression in mass numbers and then convinced and manipulated to believe that this was the only they could live. That's oppression, not choosing oppression, just like nobody chooses to get raped! Get your head out of the sand. In old times, the physically powerful dominated the weaker ones and established a game of survival where certain rules were made for survival and these rules were made in the favor of men to suit their needs in the survival game. We don't need that anymore. Women creating their own systems?.... Gender doesn't work like that. There is nothing like a male system or a female system. Older systems were male dominated because men dominated women, simple. Once the domination is gone, we can have a system which is more equal and gender neutral. Women don't need to create their own systems which excludes men because that's equally as low conscious as patriarchy. We need a custom fit. A system that values the rights of everyone, weak or strong, men, women, trans, mentally ill, disabled, young, old and this should be an all encompassing and accommodating system that accommodates for the needs of everyone. Anyone who thinks that such a system is not viable is operating from low consciousness.

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I was hanging out with Neil. And that pissed him off lol. Cute. But I'm not going to leave Neil. He js an important support for me.. My claim to little fame. He has been extremely handy and helpful. He called me amazing and a wonderful person. I'm glad he was with me.