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I think that particular individual in my life suffers from paranoid schizophrenia. If this person forever loses me its actually good because it's karma. It's hard to deal with them. God will never forgive them for what they did. They are a complete failure. I will boycott them They have created a lot of drama in my life. I have been treated miserably by this individual for years now and I wish to be free. I hope I get freedom from their toxicity. 9

I pray that I get freedom from 2 specific individuals who I think are out to get me. I have suffered in my life too much because of these 2 individuals. And I hope I get freedom from them

Sometimes we dismiss certain things as a a person lacking in intelligence. But it is not that. I have realized that it is deeper. It's that person's qualities that attract that person's level of intelligence. So if a person is selfish that's why they lack intelligence. Let's say jealousy is green and empathy is white.. And selfishness is red. This means the white ball in the space will attract deep intelligence. The green ball of fluid in space is unable to attract that level of intelligence. The red ball of fluid is also unable to attract intelligence. Because all these balls become impervious to the infinite intelligence inherent in the consciousness around them. White ball is like a sponge absorbing the intelligence from the consciousness. The other balls cant absorb. So finally it's the character that determines everything

I both agree and disagree with her. I agree with her that a person should not be fired for their opinions because it's freedom of thought. But I disagree with her for having supported a anti trans activist. She could have bypassed this by saying she doesn't necessarily agree with the activist yet does not find it fair for her to be fired. But she didn't do that. She has previously supported another anti trans activist so I think this tweet was deliberate. More like a statement. Transgender people are also people who need value and respect in society and their status cannot be denied. To deny their gender is to deny them respect. I won't say it is transphobic but it's definitely not supportive of transgender communities. By saying that she means that gender is not binary which means that only 2 gender exist that is male and female and this is decided at birth by the body anatomy and that sex change is just superficial and does not mean that a real sex change has happened. In other words a transgender man who was a woman is still a woman in her eyes and a transgender woman who was a man before is still a man. She does not identify their current gender but only the gender they were born with and thus according to her gender interchange is not possible

Of course it's not a gender thing at all. Men can behave bad in their own ways. I was just pointing out ways in which women can behave badly (especially when given control and power) and this bad behavior is usually hard to notice because it's covert.

What I saw from personal experience is that when women get full and absolute control and power, they turn into gangsters, they become hard and unempathetic. They get impossible to deal with. They develop this "my way or no way" attitude towards people and things. Conversely it could also be that women who are bossy and controlling are more likely to fight for a dominating position or a place of authority. They vie for such positions because it fulfills their need for power and control. Also in my experience I have worked under both a male and a female boss. And a domineering male boss is obviously bad but a domineering female boss is even worse. Here I'm not trying to imply that each and every woman is like that. But based on my personal experiences, I have tasted the toxic feminist experience and its hard to deal with. I want equality for both men and women but at the same time I have witnessed that women so often try to bring each other down that it's hard to believe if they really mean what they say when they use the word girl power. I have seen many examples of women tearing each other down by insulting, humiliating, Jealousy and sabotaging each other's progress that its hard to take a woman's word seriously and think that she genuinely wants other women to do well. Therefore at least in my opinion a woman cannot be completely trusted in a position of authority because she does not leave her emotions in her bedroom, she carries them on her sleeve. When I see a woman in a position of authority I see her more worried about her husband and kids than the role she is supposed to play in her capacity at her position. She appears to be psychopathic, manipulative and selfish and uses the resources for her and her family's benefit rather than focusing on the commitments of the role. It's like instead of using her skills and talents to bring value to her role, it seems like she uses the role to bring value to her life. The word that will describe this behavior is "self serving." Women are absolutely capable of achieving the same thing that men achieve but there's a caveat and that is her attitude. She brings this " I'm a woman" attitude to everything which makes it hard to consider men and women neutrally. It means that she wants equality but actually bags for more than equality, and she wants everything to be gender neutral yet her constant need to stress that she is a woman actually makes her very exclusive and difficult to be considered ordinary or unassuming. When a woman doesn't get what she wants in an authority position she is quick to play the victim which I see as another tactic to get what she wants. These are just some of the instances of behavior I normally observe in women in authority positions. These are not absolute representations of women, just relative and depend from woman to woman. Of course not all women are going to exhibit every toxic behavior, but these are some of the behaviors that represent or bring out the toxicity in feminism.

Is that the reason why prenups exist in the west. Is that the reason why men are scared to get married there. Is that the reason why my ex was never allowed to see his child and his ex got hold of his house, car and even his dog. I am not very convinced.. Men in western countries aren't complaining for nothing. I know how the situation is. The judge awarded the custody to the wife and he protested it in court. Still it was her win. Plus do you wanna know what else his ex did.. In May of this year she went to court to have their son's last name changed over to her last name, so basically completely obliterating her ex husband's identity from her son's life. And when he informed her that he is going to protest it in court, she immediately filed a retraining order against him on absolutely no grounds because a woman's word weighs more in American courts than a man's. It's the whole "me too" movement in America.. Believe a woman even when she is bullshitting. His ex has flouted all rules when it comes to coparenting. And the courts have never done anything. If he ever tried to protest he is made to look like the bad guy. He was hit by another woman in the face right in front of me when I was there with him in New Orleans. Guess what.. She went to her room and called the cops on him and lied to them that he was the attacker. My testimony saved him. Because there were injuries on his face. So they arrested her and basically just released within hours. So much for equality Casey Anthony is another great example. I'm not saying that equality doesn't exist constitutionally. But nobody cares about the nitty gritty of the constitution in small county courts. Women are easily believed and they also have an upper hand in divorce cases a lot of the time. The only time the man is believed is when there is hardcore evidence of her abuse and if she is a drug addict with a bad history of abuse. Maybe then Western feminism is just getting toxic day by day. It's getting sexist. Hillary Clinton defending a rapist and dehumanizing a 12 year old and getting away with it. Women in western countries don't face the same consequences as men for similar crimes.

Perpetuating my own cycle of grief is making me suicidal I hate everything at the moment. It's like everything has come down on me

Women are not trying to beat men. A woman needs financial independence. It's absolutely important for her. That in no way means she is trying to defeat the man. I have no idea why you think that. Women need a job just as much as a man needs. Why should it be otherwise. This does not degrade her feminine essence in any way.. In your mom's case I can completely understand that she might have wanted a wonderful person in her life to share her struggles and take pressure off her, but it's kinda unrealistic to expect that. There is no knight in shining armor kind of a guy who wants to rescue a woman from all her troubles and take care of her emotional and security needs. The word here is "willing" that you have used here Most men are not willing or they are willing only for some time. Do you think that if you were offered money to sit on the couch then you would say no. Absolutely not. Nobody will.. A woman is very lucky to find a man who is wonderful and kind. But it's not always a story with a happy ending. She has to find her own way. Now the toxic part of feminism. It is true that women need independence so they can survive on their own two feet. But feminism is not all rosy. There are parts in it which are toxic. Like I have seen women in higher positions wielding their power to demean and destroy people. My boss at work is a female. And I have encountered a lot of misuse of power and abuse. She fired an employee simply because they didn't get along well, she was a hard working girl and we had become good friends but the boss was sorta jealous of her and wanted to rid of her. This is where feminism gets toxic. Feminism is not inherently toxic. Because it was meant to empower women and help them with their survival, needs and ambition.. But a lot of women exploit feminism. A very good example of this is seen in divorce cases especially in the West where the woman strips the man naked of any financial asset and sometimes even denies the man the right to see his children. My ex boyfriend who was an American had this problem. His ex wouldn't allow him to see his own child. Its ridiculous. His mom sent him to a cult where he was exploited and abused. He was raised without a dad because his mom did not think that a man was needed around her kids. Now you see? His mom and ex made his life unbearable to the point where he was suicidal. That made him abusive to me in return because he started despising women as a result of his past and I had to suffer the brunt of his hate of women. But his hate is reasonable because he was a good guy, he was great at school but the women in his life ruined him. This is where feminism gets toxic. When a woman gets disproportionate amount of power and she can do whatever she wants for her family, children etc. Her decisions have no supervision or approval. And if she ever gets criticized she is quick to pull out the woman card. Feminism becomes toxic when a woman thinks she can never go wrong and when she is never subjected to scrutiny and when she is never held accountable for her bad decisions and choices. When she never has to pay or get punished for wrecking lives but let go with a slap on the wrist just because she is a woman. Feminism becomes toxic when a woman is not treated as a normal human being capable of flaws and failings, but put on a pedestal and treated like a goddess. I have seen both good and bad sides of feminism. It's like a double edged sword. The good side is when a woman is given support so she can survive on her own when she is empowered to Iive her life with confidence, when she given tools and resources and opportunities so that she can achieve her dreams and ambitions, when she is offered help in distress so she quits abusive dependent relationships and finds her survival. The bad side is when she uses her power to control and dominate other's lives, when she makes decisions that are never objected or questioned, when she assumes unquestioned authority and nobody can find her wrong because she is a woman.

She is a mixed Indian. A lot of Polynesians have Indian origins. Also I just mentioned her as indian, not that her race matters at all.

@Anna1 So true

Emerald has a bunch of videos where she explains Jungian philosophy in depth. Might want to start with that.

This Indian woman who is so eloquent is so much better for a candidate

People don’t spend time on “introspection”, their observer “judging” self with honesty. Instead, people judge and project onto others. Allegedly it is what they project that is an issue in themselves they refuse to own and address. It’s a way for the ego to protect itself. “That “bad” is in them, I see it, but it’s not in me, no way!”. Unfortunately, judging and projecting is addictive and becomes a natural thing many people never evolve from. And why is it that people will not and do not believe an experience they’ve never had? And why too do people think that everyone is or should be just like them? The unseen brain/mind is just as diverse as the faces we are born with. Concentrating on being objective during one’s thinking processes opens the door to conceptualizing and understanding things beyond one’s subjective reasoning based on their own p̶e̶r̶s̶o̶n̶a̶l̶ experiences. It’s not easy to do and be consistent about it as by natural most of us are emotional creatures under a lot of stress and pressure to live up to societal norms.

Heaven's gift to earth

Then why is he always winning? Why do people elect him?

@nowimhere that's good news then Good for Trump

There's a difference. We don't have the same responsibility as politicians do. We are on a much smaller scale whereas a politician is held in high regard in the expectation that he might shed light over social issues and use his leadership to bring effective solutions to current problems. His leadership is trusted with every vote given to him. So he isn't expected to be completely like us or else we would not look at him/her with great admiration and respect. He definitely mirrors us in a nonchalant way yet he has qualities and capabilities much better than the common man. He is a representative of our struggles and problems because he resonates with them but he is also a representative of leadership, tact and intelligence which makes us believe in his authority and decisions. Its another matter that we allow any Tom Dick and Harry to become a leader or politician. That way it's more likely that the person we elect is very similar to us in ideals and visions. But hypothetically it shouldn't be this way. The politician is a leader, a statesman, a skilled diplomat he leads the way and he is a visionary. He shouldn't be an ignorant selfish small minded person. This is like saying books are bad because of the authors who write them. No. Books are not bad. Authors are. There can be good authors too. They don't represent the bad ones.

I need to remind myself of the flow again and also about mini updates through the app (vibr) Also I can write mini updates here. These updates help a lot. Vlogs help too.

Situation 1 Situation 2 Situation 3 Situation 4 Immunity Shorter recovery or bounce back time. (what does this person want, what are their intentions, what can happen, what will be the end result of this Yada Yada Yada I forgot the 7 step model lol. Alzheimers lol

Modern society is defined as a world system consisting of the sum total of all communication happening at once and individual function systems (such as the economy, politics, science, love, art, the media, etc) are described as social subsystems which have "outdifferentiated" from the social system and achieved their own operational closure and autopoiesis. He had coined the term autopoiesis. Which means filtering and processing information from the environment. I can see why you think it's similar to spiral dynamics. Because even in spiral dynamics we seek to gradually to the next higher stage. Yea if you think that way there are similarities.

Nice book. Thanks

The latest concept in my journal was about enrich and vital.... I had created a picture sign for that The other concepts are in my other journal... Keep a reminder for this from tomorrow... And yes.. Stop bullshitting yourself sweety. Don't fall in that trap. Also start taking things seriously. Haven't done that in a while but need to. Oh God, so many things on my plate. Need to jot it down.

Dispel the negativity

Guten Appétit.. Should have said gluten appetit!