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I'm going to keep a milestone jar with small folded paper. And a charms jar as a reward jar. Of course the milestone card album. And reward points for every task completed or milestone achieved.

I'm going to keep a milestone photo album with digital decorated milestone cards for future reference and I'm going to keep a milestone jar with small paper letters folded together as messages.. Something like this will serve a good purpose.

I can do something creative like this

I don't eat a lot of chocolate. So I don't know. I don't think I can use chocolates as a reward since I don't eat them. That would be a waste..

I'll make a box for my milestones.

I should have a reward system for myself. Like coins or points or just toffees. I can get a bunch of chocolates whenever I get a milestone. I'm also going to make a list of my milestones achieved.

I feel like my zest for life is coming back. It's returning. I feel like a triumphant return from the depths of misery, sabotage, shock and pain.. 2 years ago when I started my 1st journal here, I was feeling very miserable and clueless and helpless. And yet here I am and I'm feeling like a miracle.

I feel good today. I did good. Did all the cleaning and sorting. Got stuff done yesterday and today.

Activities will have codes like A1, A2, A3, A5, T1, T2, T4, etc.. I will have reference manual or spreadsheet for these activities.. Activities will be tasks that will be pre planned.

Sabotaging kind of piep

So I just created a pie chart for yesterday. It only includes major activities that I did yesterday but not all of them because this is just a trial chart to see how it will all work out..

I can create my own pie charts or use pie charts applications for this. Which I'm intending to do.

So next to the activity code I'll write the time or the percent of the daily time. So If I have been reading for 3 hours then I'll write that as 21% of the daily time, written next to it. The pie chart will automatically reflect that. The pie chart or full plate will show the shaded region occupying 21% of the full circle or pie.

So 100 percent represents one full day from morning to bed time. In that, suppose I read something for 20 minutes I'll call it 840 minutes a day.. I'll have a minute calculator So let's I spend 15 minutes in doing some task. It's going to be 1.7 % of the daily 840 minutes. 3 hours will be 21% of the daily time

These days my philosophy is going to change a bit It's going to be a plate And my plate is going to look like a pie chart that will help me track down how much time I spend in whatever activities I do. Activities will have code words to shorten them. Also the activities that help me with my personal development are going to be called Engaging or Useful. The rest are going to be called Random.

Switching mindsets can help. I found a big difference.

Not feeling great this morning. But I guess it's okay to not feel okay

Hurt

Stress

I'm not this way in real life. I was being sarcastic in that post. Yes I did go through some bad experiences in the past and my attitude towards men changed after that. I'm not even looking into dating so I don't have to worry about what guys care about and what they don't. I'm very warm, kind, funny, smart and open and was this way always with the men I dated. Now I choose to be with the boyfriend I have. I am quite happy with him. Past relationships did hurt me. But I never allowed that bitterness to plague my current relationship. I don't carry resentment. I just get silly and sarcastic. And yes I keep boundaries for a lot of different reasons. Thanks for the advice.

Today feels like a clean day. Hint hint

Self preservation is the key

Note to myself Don't be a workaholic but immerse in work