Preety_India

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  1. Empathy and reason How far can reason go... Rationalizing everything is also a problem. Green values Rationalization without understanding and empathy is like a food without nutrition. Empathy without understanding is like petting a snake I'm against hardcore rationalism
  2. Hehe yea There's a video of his in a different shirt in his younger days. And the other video where he talks about stoicism. Cute.
  3. I have always been getting this weird dream lately where I am eating a weird substance that is being banned from the market I have no idea what to call it. It looks like macaroons. I am supposed to add some flavoring substance to it.
  4. The world needs a God and a godfather
  5. One day her conscience will wake up but it will be too late
  6. This is a nice list. At the moment not much than Wake up Phone Messages and emails Meditation for 5 to 10 minutes Breakfast and shower Newspaper for 2 mins Work related calls and fixing schedules with clients if any for the week Journaling Need to have a good morning routine that will be stable and more productive
  7. Adam Green Brother Nathaniel Steve Frassen. Nick Fuentes
  8. I've understood that brae is an inescapable matrix. Just be in non continuation shit
  9. I am feeling much better now after reading some poems. Maybe I can get this under my belt. What I will do is this. I will write positive affirmations instructions in glitter text. That will uplift me out of my dark periods.
  10. My feelings of darkness originate from my childhood. My beloved cat died when I was 15. I blamed myself for her death I went into depression. I felt like I didn't deserve to live. I felt like a failure
  11. I just sink into this deep despair and a place of darkness. I start to blame myself and feel like I don't deserve any love or anything good. Like I'm very low value. Useless and worthless and good for nothing. It's a place of darkness. I feel unloved, abandoned, uncared and rotten inside. Like my life never carried any value. My narcissistic family was so abusive for so long. They never gave me a sense of worth. I was raised to believe that I was nothing. This was constantly fed into my head that my life meant nothing. I was nothing. It took me years to feel normal. Yet sometimes I go back into it. It's so hard. My ex used to abuse me mentally. It was brutal. I used to beg him to stop Then one day I realized that I need to stop this person in my life. It was a cold dark sad feeling. The feeling of betrayal of trust. How could someone do this to me when I was so good to them. I treated him so nicely and kindly and yet he took advantage of me. It hurt so bad. Like a stab in the heart
  12. I'm trying to fix things right now. But I feel like I'm slipping away. Things are getting crazy I just can't handle it any more I feel like my whole life was a joke
  13. Things are pretty ugly. I don't even feel okay anymore. Just got some bad news and it's so frustrating once again. She called me and it was such a long argument. I'm fed up with what's been going on. I literally lose hope every day. My tarots only help me
  14. @Pritpal Singh from the forum. Not before that.
  15. @fi1ghtclub thanks for the support
  16. There are so many tarot decks
  17. @Parththakkar12 you can't call observations projections
  18. What I noticed on the this thread are a bunch of intellectually dishonest maneuvers in order to steer away from a healthy resolution for rape Some of the observations I made are Shaming a woman for the way she dresses Not discussing male mentality Challenging a woman and telling her that it's own problem and only she should sort it out alone Using religion as a distraction Calling the government corrupt and completely dismissing its role Not discussing enough about the role of law enforcement Calling society a jungle and using that as a cop out Not talking openly about a man's role in this resolution Thinking safety is an entitlement Blaming women and implying that they are victim playing Bringing up men's issues in the middle of a core issue Telling westerners to stay out of this Using rape happening in other countries as a cop out or lame defense Comparing Islam to Hinduism in this context Blaming the oppression of women on women Blaming the patriarchy even though patriarchal systems are dominated by men I guess I was the only person and a few others who tried to stay on track and strictly discuss the issues affecting a woman's safety and survival. Nothing but a bunch of male apologists. Sadly I expected better.
  19. @Parththakkar12 in the context of rape no. I never said that I'm dismissing a man's issues. All I'm saying that it's not very relevant in the middle of a discussion of rape that impacts women very deeply.
  20. @remember That should be addressed separately under dating difficulties for men and women in a patriarchal culture. It's not like women don't face it. I am scared to go on Indian dating website because of an unsafe environment. Thus even i face issues in such a structure not just men. But let's not use this to distract from the topic of rape
  21. @Harikrishnan good to know
  22. @remember this is a thread about rape. A woman's survival, her most basic right being in danger. I think he can discuss his dating woes later. I think when a man is trying to bring up his cultural issues when a woman is trying to discuss her problems is like deflecting and downplaying her issues by mixing his issues into it. Maybe it's not his intention to distract but it does reasonably appear that way