Preety_India

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  1. @Meta-Man thanks
  2. I just find language and forming toughts and ideas, arguing, criticism is not a efficient form, and not the only one. I just want to entertain sielence more. I feel like i wanted to share this if i go soon. Thank you Leo, the Actualized.org forum staff! I am planning the same thing and had this same thought over the last week. You've been such a wonderful person. I had great conversations with you on the forum. I kinda resonate with your sentiment. This forum is a good place but it has it's downsides. It's the people(only some) . Leo and mods are doing a great job. But I can't keep arguing with someone everyday. And there are lots of people who send rude messages. "I just find language and forming toughts and ideas, arguing, criticism is not a efficient form, and not the only one. I just want to entertain sielence more." I had a similar thought and experience. I am not on the forum for unnecessary arguments and "judgemental" criticism. It halts my progress and growth. You can't talk to people who are biased against you all the time. The problem is kinda inherent. Everyone has to be pleased all the time which is the hardest thing to do. Something that is being said is always taken out of context and it is used as a means for ad hominem attacks. That's a very low conscious way to debate an opinion. There is a problem of constant judgement and shaming. Not that it's not going to happen elsewhere, but the kind of people that are attracted to the forum are sometimes the ones just looking to get a rise out of someone who is probably here for serious self development work. Those specific people only create drama and conflict and attacking each other just to get a thrill. This forum becomes their entertainment pasture. Don't like that part. I am not here for popcorn and drama. I get little time to even start a thread let alone sit hours arguing with someone just on the purpose of the thread. Some of the core issues I found on the forum created by these specific people Thread derailing Trashing the thread Continuously arguing even when told to stop Ad hominem attacks Trolling Tendency to provoke or trigger a fight with someone they are biased against The focus is more on the original poster rather than the content of the thread creating bias The problem is they make everything personal. They turn it into "you versus the other person" as though it's a fighting match and someone has to win. And the other worst part is the Labeling. I'm not here to be called labels. They are similar to name calling. This is not a place to decide "who is good" and "who is bad," I wish some people could drop the need for character assassination. It corners people making them more vulnerable to hate and attacks from others. So yea, I'll be taking a similar route and quit the forum at some point. I still have some threads that I need to respond to but after that I'll be done for good. Best wishes to you on your life journey. ❤️
  3. Our amazing moderator @Anna1 Anna has been a wonderful moderator on this forum for such a long time. I thought we should all really thank her for all the effort she puts in keeping this place free from trolls. She is the strongest, boldest, sexy, sassy and she can pack a punch when it's needed! Thank you. Thank you for all and everything that you do. Taking time out of your schedule to moderate this forum. Without you, this forum would have turned into Reddit long time ago. Your posts are brilliant, candid and to the point. Your active participation in the forum every day and your commitment means a ton to me and to all of us. You give credit where it's due. You maintain the forum by the guidelines. You help to keep the forum good and clean. Everyone is so proud of you. I appreciate everything that you do. You're always there to help and assist whenever someone needs something. You're always with us. You open meaningful and useful threads and keep the forum united. God bless you! Much love ♥ The amount of attention you give to all of us is amazing. You are a Pro. And you manage all of this despite your busy schedule and job which bears testament to your power and strength with which you continue to inspire us. Thank you for doing what you do. ❤️✌️ All forum members value your presence deeply. Thank you @Anna1
  4. https://youtu.be/xdBAy_fIP7M
  5. Eeedjit Pull the duvet over your head.
  6. Men lovin to flirtin ???
  7. This lovely natural music. It brings me closer to my soulmate.
  8. You are welcome.
  9. The worth of the goods is already accounted for. The bill has been returned back during the transaction. But an additional $30 given for a false transaction. So a net total of $100.
  10. The thing is he takes a $100 bill but has to return it at the time of buying. The bill is back in its original place. But instead of the bill goods worth 70$ are with the thief along with the change of $30..a total profit of $ 100 to the thief and the same loss for the owner. In every situation it will be $100 only since the buyer or thief doesn't wish to spend his own money but utilizes the money he stole. So only $100 is exchanged each time one way or another.
  11. The thief could have made the same profit by buying (basically stealing)$ 100 worth goods.
  12. Forgot to add 1 more moderator. Hey much love and appreciation for Our Moderator @cetus56 You're awesome and take great care of the forum. Appreciate your hard work.
  13. Wow, thank you so much Anna All light and love ❤️❤️
  14. Yea. It's April 11. We can celebrate April 11 every year as the official Annual Appreciation Day for Actualized.org. Won't that be cool? Who is with me on creating this annual day?
  15. @Anna1 thank you for your grace and support. It means a lot. ❤️✌️
  16. Photobombing this thread with other precious moderators. Mini appreciation threads for all our Moderators on the forum for keeping it a wonderful place. @Nahm, @Natasha , @Anna1, @Serotoninluv, @ajasatya, @Key Elements @Shiva And lastly thanks to Leo Gura for creating a beautiful forum to help us grow spiritually. All love and blessings to all of you. ❤️? Sending everyone hugs.
  17. Thank you for being a valued moderator.
  18. Not at all. Leo got rid of it for good. It was a horror show. Lot of bias and all it does is create an Echo Chamber. Don't need that here.