Preety_India

The divine self as a measure of protection against toxicity or bad forces has only one solution to keep itself protected. Is psychic and divine intelligence. This is the ultimate answer for the deeper self and the deeper souls on this planet. The psychic intelligence will act as a buffer, shield and aura of protection and guide the deeper self's life and journey through the world whereas knowledge will fortify it in general. For the deeper self there are only 2 solutions Psychic intelligence And God's love True love. True love and psychic intelligence. True love will renew and empower Psychic intelligence will guide and protect And gifts Gifts and Acts

This is the biggest question dominating my mind.

I have been lonely most of my life.. I am an introvert unsocial person like a hermit. I have been suffering loneliness for some time now and I feel drained. I want to talk to people and be out there which I never did before but I want to try now. Can you tell me how I can make more friends and chat buddies?

Jordan Peterson is my new inspiration. Wow.

True love

I have anger issues. It took past 2 years to realize that I have anger issues. I don't like myself anymore. I'm always angry. I try to control. But I feel like breaking things when I get upset. The feeling of "hurt" can drive me nuts. I can go crazy when I'm angry or provoked. I was bullied as a child. On days when I meditate im calm. What more can I do to subdue myself?

I didn't attack him. I respect him. Just that if someone says high value low value I find it elitist. It makes me feel like we are making people feel bad by saying they are low.

But not many people are ready for this?

In a way yeah. But it's not Elitism to criticize Elitism. You see that?

I think a person should have some basic expectations in a relationship otherwise it loses meaning in practical life.

@Sucuk Ekmek

The biggest question is how to not be a victim. How to not be a loser/sucker

The divine self will not only seek the divine self but also give the divine self. The world is an antithesis to the divine self I will call the divine values deeper self values and the world values as outer values or egoic values. As a result the deeper self values are constantly in clash with outer values As a result the deeper self is never satisfied or fulfilled and sometimes poached.

My search for true love in a man sadly comes to an end. I have realized through personal experiences and struggles that true love sadly does not exist between a man and a woman. Sadly humanity has raised too many barriers for such love to even develop. True love exists but it exists like a concept, like a poetry, like a vibe. In reality it is too rare to hold. If someone loved/loves you truly, cherish it while it lasts (technically true love should last forever but this is idealistic). True love exists on its own like humanity or goodwill or courage. You can find glimpses of it but it won't come to you in a materialized form (like any other divine quality). This realization for a spiritual Seeker is important so that they don't get disillusioned in the quest of true love. The love that you seek is here around you, it always existed but you never noticed it. It was there. Did your mother love you truly? It doesn't matter even if she didn't. She didn't abandon you. True love, like a divine attribute doesn't forsake. Doesn't let you down, doesn't let you fall. Is always by your side like courage and loyalty, like a true comrade always with you no matter what. The lyrics of my favorite song Ave Maria demonstrate this point. She was lost in so many different ways Out in the darkness with no guide I know the cost of a losing hand But for the grace of God go I I found Heaven on earth You are my last, my first And then I hear this voice inside Ave Maria I've been alone When I'm surrounded by friends How could the silence be so loud? But I still go home Knowing that I've got you There's only us when the lights go down You are my Heaven on earth You are my hunger, my thirst I always hear this voice inside Singing Ave Maria Sometimes love can come and pass you by While you're busy making plans Suddenly hits you and then you realize It's out of your hands Baby, you got to understand You are my Heaven on earth You are my last, my first And then I hear this voice inside Ave Maria Ave Maria Ave Maria ----------------------- Sometimes true love can come and pass you by and you never realize that it was there for you all along. It never went anywhere. But you failed to notice it. It's not charming or fantastic or attractive like a package with a bow, it's just pure simple deep harmonizing and beautiful, Empathetic and liberating. It understands what you feel and it knows what's right for you. It doesn't want you to suffer. It wants you to grow and heal. And keep healing. It's like an ocean, it's too big and strong. It will never let you go. It will always want the best for you. It won't be conditional or limited by barriers and expectations. It's not ruled by any doctrine. It binds you because you are a part of it not away from it. It does not divide or separate or look down on you. It does not pretend. True love is like truth. It stands there like a mirror like a river always flowing and always nourishing and always guiding and always giving. Like an endless river. It's never going to be dry. Sadly human beings don't have a capacity for this, so you will unfortunately always be unfulfilled in relationships no matter how hard you try. Relationships are governed by principles of attraction which can easily fade and turn away on a dime. You'll try for better and better relationships yet they will somehow always end in trouble because of expectations, fights, greed, cheating, insecurity, fear, dissonance and all other human maladies that will eventually plague even the best relationships. There is no loyalty. There is no fulfillment. You'll always be restless. Some relationships can mimic true love and you would be very fortunate to have created or found one. This is not for everyone though, just a few lucky bunch. So don't hinge on to someone else's experience and think you would have it. Maybe not. In the absence of such an experience, you create your own. At the end of the day, everyone deserves love, fat, ugly, strong, weak, young, old, beautiful, dumb, nobody is too bad for true love. The most hurting deserve it even more, just like the most hungry deserve food. But the laws of the world are designed in such a way that the rich get richer and the hungry ones are left to perish. The world gives it to those who didn't even earn it or might not even need, yet the ones who truly need are neglected. Because it's a stage Orange unempathetic world that has designed rules that serve survival of the fittest. In this dog eat dog world you can't find it. You'll always be wandering aimlessly like a disembodied voice in this world that is not suited for you, this world is not for me, not for you. Jesus Christ put it correctly, "it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God"This world is based on survival. It does not fulfill deeper needs. That's why the deeper self is at conflict with this world. The world cannot be spiritual because then it won't aid survival It's about the absolute versus the relative. They don't meet. They are at odds. The whole kumbaya thing only happens in dreams. The divine self needs another divine self. The divine value needs another divine value. The divine heart needs another divine heart. The divine world needs another divine world, not this materialistic world. This world is an antithesis to Divinity, the sooner you realize this, the better.. That's why you feel neglected, poached and roughed up and judged. Your needs would be met immediately if you were living in a divine world that seeks the virtues of the soul rather than the body. Now if you walked into a temple and said these things, they would mock you, because this language of the soul they do not understand. They can't relate.

This is quite good. Problem is that it doesn't look practical. How is a person practically supposed to Embody infinity in their lives? A manual? A guide? A set of steps?

I have checked for BPD with a psychiatrist and I don't have it. But they told me that I have anxiety that can lead to behaviors of uncertainty and insecurity coming from deep fears.

True love is like water. It's always there. It's beautiful.

@flowboy instead of framing it as high value or low value and to stop being played or treated like a doormat you can use terminology like boundaries. That's much better and acceptable than using low quality high quality low value high value which is kinda inherently condescending.

@Razard86 sometimes memory is necessary for future safety, it programs us in advance against similar dangers and threats

What so wrong about bending? Organic people don't think too much about high value and low value. They value everyone equally. They don't divide humanity into high value and low value. They prefer unity of human race versus division. We are all equal spiritually. Nobody is high or low. Ever heard of terms like Elitism and Classism? Such thinking leads to creating of high class and low class in the mind and that's the most unspiritual ungodly act, let alone high value Organic people automatically eliminate Elitists like you. Good on them. That's bad karma they avoid

I want you so deeply. So madly.

Just be yourself.

Yes conflicting emotions. If a person really loved you then they would have been with you. People who care will stay Don't worry. Be a free bird. Don't think too much. Thinking is masculinity. Feeling is feminine. Unresolved stuff hurts the most. At the end of the day, we are all good people.