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No not at all. That's so wrong if you think that a guy has to be icy and do nothing at all. Women like romance. I don't know about other women so can't say for them. But women (for example me) enjoy a guy who talks, flirts, romances and makes me feel wanted and involved. That's why I like guys who are a bit more feminine. They can intuitively understand my feelings and respond to it. The masculine masculine guy who gives an icy stare only looks good on the cover of a magazine. But in real life, man has to know how to charm the ladies. And for that, a bit of feminine in him is necessary. I might get attracted to a bold guy who has a nice body and that masculine tough guy nature but I might soon be put off by his icyness. A detached guy in the bedroom for me would be absolute disaster.. I might even begin to assume that he doesn't like me or is simply bored. I would never want that feeling from a man. I never had relationships with such men because it never goes beyond a certain point and as a woman I might feel emotionally deprived around such a man even if he gave me the strongest fuck The men I've been with have always been emotional kind and funny and a bit of feminine in them Relationships are already hard enough and to have a man who hardly speaks and remains detached will make me feel very isolated and nervous. So the answer is yes yes yes. A guy who is very deeply in love with a woman and is feminine enough to understand her side will have the most intimate passionate sex with her Take my example. My first boyfriend in college was like a tough guy with no feminine, not talking much at all in the bedroom, just sitting in the bedroom waiting for me to do everything and it soon got boring and he would simply leave without a kiss. He would not pleasure me. It was always my job. I was too young at that time so I did whatever he wanted. He was very icy and too much masculine, he would never cry or show emotion. Never say much. Just into his own stuff.. The only time he would show some emotion or laugh or expression was during sex.. I started to have a lot of discomfort and tension with him and I began to feel aloof and neglected. The sex wasn't good either because of his icyness and lack of participation made it look like a daily job.. Anyhow. My last boyfriend and my current are both feminine. My last boyfriend used to cry often and get feminine and sensitive, talk a ton ton ton with me, never leave my side and always understanding my feelings and desires but he was a boxing champion and he used to be tough with other guys. So feminine doesn't mean a guy can't be masculine. He can. He just showed his softer side more often to me. Now the sex we had was 100 times more amazing than the sex I had with my first boyfriend. We were very very passionate in bed because he would know how to pleasure me and we both would be equally excited and involved. So the answer is yes.. Understanding and incorporating feminine in you is absolutely important if you want lots of romantic passionate great quality sex in bed.

Sex is also a way of showing love. Isn't sex in itself a way of showing intimacy...

Also add a touch of your favorite perfume and aroma oil to add a bit to the essence of the gemstone's energy. Let the fragrance match the essence of the gemstone. I use a woody essence for the ones that are about balance A salty ocean beach fragrance for stones that are calming and for stress relief. I use romantic scents for heart chakra stones.

That's nice .

Agree. That was great. Thanks for sharing.

@wordsforliving Aww thank you so much. Yes I have faith it will last. Hope you find what you are looking for.

Yes I found true romantic love at last with my current boyfriend Andrew. Love is profound and life is crazy.

So what's this "feeling sprinkler theory"? Can you elaborate so that others here can also benefit from knowing? ... Or it's some top secret you don't wanna share.

Lepidolite is a potassium lithium aluminium silicate hydroxide fluoride that belongs to the mica group of minerals. Lepidolite, like other micas, has a layered structure of lithium aluminium silicate sheets weakly bonded together by layers of potassium ions. The crystal habit includes tabular to prismatic crystals with a prominent pinacoid termination. Lepidolite's four prism faces and two pinacoid faces form pseudo-hexagonal crystal "books". The sides of the crystal often tend to tapper. Also as micaceous, lamellar or granular rock forming masses. Lepidolite occurs a lilac, violet, pale pink or white and rarely grey or yellow crystals that have a vitreous to pearly lustre. Lepidolite can be found in Brazil, Russia, Africa and the USA. Lepidolite clears electromagnetic pollution and should be placed on computers to absorb the emanations. Lepidolite dissipates negativity, activates and opens the throat, heart, third eye and crown chakras. It clears blockages and brings cosmic awareness. This stone aids in shamanistic or spiritual journeys. Employ it to overcome economic slumps, personally or in business, as it helps you maintain equilibrium even when the marketplace is acting like a roller coaster with funds It can help you maintain a positive outlook when financial markets are unstable. It has a detoxifying effect and stimulates the purification process in the skin and connective tissues. Assists with nerve related disorders such as nerve pain and boosts the immune system. Lepidolite locates the site of disease. Placed on the body over an area of disease, it vibrates gently. Lepidolite eases allergies, restructures DNA, and enhances the generation of negative ions. It relieves exhaustion, epilepsy and Alzheimers. Lepidolite numbs sciatica, neuralgia and overcomes joint problems. It is excellent for menopause symptoms especially as crystal water. The lithium contained within lepidolite holds the power to rebalance brain function and neurological functions. This stone is beneficial for depression and mental illness stemming from mood swings. Use this stone while in the process of healing neurological associated diseases. It can energetically curb hyperactivity and/or attention deficit disorder. It is an excellent stone for sleep disorders, including insomnia due to stress or worry, or nightmares. Lepidolite protects you from outer influences and helps you to preserve your own space in crowds. it bestows calm and inner peace and helps with sleep disturbances. Lepidolite has soft nurturing energies that connect to your inner being to help you love yourself. Meditating daily with lepidolite will assist you in weight loss, alcohol dependency, smoking or drugs where these act as a mask for unhappiness. This stone encourages feelings of independence from all forms of neediness. It detoxifies emotions, bringing calm and reducing dependency on others for emotional wellbeing. It is soothing for personality disorders, psychosomatic and psychological illnesses. It helps to overcome emotions that restrict you from doing what you really want in life. Lepidolite calms fear, releases fears one at a time for you to view and let go. It opens and clears old outmoded fears, heals damage from psychic attacks, and protects against psychic draining. Pink lepidolite opens and releases pain and suffering layer by layer. This stone facilitates calm, acceptance, trust. It heals fear at its source in this or past lives. Lepidolite carries the vibration of lithium, which is used medically to balance the emotions and limit or eliminate extreme mood swings. With this stone in hand, open your heart to love, feel the nurturing vibration and restore balance in your life. Lepidolite assists you in finding a strong emotional centre, unaffected by the dramas and events of your external experience. It helps balance the emotions and prevents extreme emotional shifts. It is an excellent stone for those with excessive worry or fear. Lepidolite encourages objective evaluation and targeted decision making. It helps you concentrate on what is essential so that you will stick to your intentions and not be distracted. If you obsess over trivial things, have a compulsive disorder or have agoraphobia then lepidolite, with focused meditation will help you move away from these problems. It assists older people from living in the past. Lepidolite is useful in the reduction of stress and depression. It halts obsessive thoughts, relieves despondency and overcomes insomnia. As lepidolite contains lithium it is helpful in stabilising mood swings and bipolar disorders wear the crystal at all times. It is helpful in overcoming any kind of emotional or mental dependency, supportive in releasing you from addictions and complaints of all kinds, including anorexia. As a stone of transition, it releases and reorganises old psychological and behavioural patterns that will begin changes in your life. Lepidolite encourages independence and achieving goals without outside help. Lepidolite encourages a healthy, detached outlook on situations. This stone is good to hold on to when you are feeling mentally unstable or vulnerable. It helps you tap into another level of understanding and to see things from a greater perspective. Lepidolite encourages independence. It helps you to set your goals and to realise them without outside help. It allows developments to take their course quietly and inconspicuously. The pink stone connects the heart and crown chakras to bring spiritual understanding to suffering and pain. It helps you understand the purpose of heart pain and the growth brought on by suffering. Pink lepidolite promotes understanding your life purpose and place in the universal plan. Purple lepidolite opens and develops the causal body chakra and spiritual body, stabilises soul growth, balances psychic communication. It brings spiritual information into daily life, helps channelling and mediumship and promotes contact with spirit guides and angels. Lepidolite helps to hone psychic skills, including channelling and mediumship, while fostering a reasonable hold on this reality. It helps you open up neural pathways in the brain to access higher realms of consciousness as well as information from other realms of existence. Lepidolite encourages release of identification with the ego and acceptance of the present moment as a dwelling place for the soul. If the heart chakra is out of balance you may have sudden bursts of anger, jealousy or blaming others for any issues that arise in your life. You might need constant confirmation of your self worth, feeling unloved or lacks compassion for others. With this stone in hand, you are able to connect the lower chakras with the higher chakras to achieve homeostasis. It will encourage compassion for yourself and others and enhance your innate healing abilities. It will assist in encouraging the entire immune system to function at its peak. It maintains a healthy heart and circulatory system. This stone when placed on the heart chakra will help with tissue Regeneration. If your crown chakra is out of balance you may need to feel as though you are indispensable in your workplace, or need constant sympathy for perceived injustices. You might also feel misunderstood by others or find it difficult to treat others with tenderness and benevolence. With this stone in hand, you will able to align yourself with the higher forces of the universe and connect to the subtle bodies of energy that surround you. It will assist you in linking to your past lives and determine their effect on your present. It will help the function of the whole nervous and skeletal systems of the body. If your soul star chakra is out of balance you may feel confused about where you are going in life or your value to be in this physical plane. You also may not be able to accept the existence of the Divine Will and its role in your life.

I can feel you. It gets better. Sorry to hear about the breakup I hope you give yourself enough healing time. Cry as much as you can because the release helps a lot. Wish you the best. ❤️

@Deepak sadhwani the intensity of color doesn't matter. If you have the amethyst gemstone that's more than enough.

@Deepak sadhwani Can you see the birthstone chart that I posted?

Fluorite tumbled stone Fluorite rough Fluorite wand Fluorite is a highly protective and stabilizing stone, useful for grounding and harmonizing spiritual energy. When working with the upper Chakras, Fluorite increases intuitive abilities, links the human mind to universal consciousness, and develops connection to Spirit. Fluorite further anchors intuitive insights into the physical plane, allowing mental and physical coordination. A popular stone among energy healers, Fluorite can also clear the aura of mucky energies. Fluorite heightens mental abilities, assisting in rapid organization and processing of information and can bring mental clarity and stability to an otherwise chaotic situation. Fluorite absorbs negative energies from the environment and is effective at Auric and Chakra cleansing. Fluorite can also shield the user from psychic manipulation. Due to its powerful ability to absorb negative energies, Fluorite should be cleared often. Increases self confidence and dexterity Protects against mental manipulation Stress relief. It removes stuck stagnant energy.

Birthstones chart

@Deepak sadhwani I'm sorry but I don't know how to read horoscopes. I just posted my horoscope here to get a better understanding of it.. You'll have to show your horoscope to Hindu astrologer to understand it. I have no knowledge on palmistry so I can't guide you on that.

Yep. One thing that I like about the modern world is that we have come far in terms of control of abuse. Abuse of any kind was much more prevalent before 1960s. But with the help of activists and awareness and new laws, abuse has been hugely controlled and illegitimatized.

What do you mean? Sorry if I didn't get your sarcasm!!!!

The more you socialize with people, your social anxiety will lessen and then you won't have to engage in odd behaviors to fit in or feel free. You'll be your natural self around people. Work on your anxiety and love yourself more. Also don't distrust people. If you give love to people, they will love you in return. We all have the same heart. Don't fear people too much. In fact a lot of people will encourage and sympathize with you if you told them that you get anxious. Just let yourself be free.. Social anxiety will get better with time and social participation. .

You're suffering from low self esteem, people pleasing issues and too much self consciousness. Liberate yourself from these feelings. Don't care too much what people think. People are going to judge anyway and let them. Don't base your freedom on them. You be you. You do you. Accept yourself and also liberate yourself from judgement. Be free.

Aquamarine Alexandrite One of the many reasons why you should use Alexandrite is that it is well-known to convey a balance between the spiritual world and the physical manifest world. This rare stone will open up your chakra (crown) and let you access the universe’s loving support as well as healing energy. Amazonite tumbled Chatoyant gems

Yoni Astrology - Maarjaat Yoni / Cat Yoni: The word "Yoni" is of Sanskrit origin. It relates to the female organ known as the vagina. The male organ penis is referred to as "Lingam" in Sanskrit. The type of yoni is determined by how the Moon is placed in the sky at the time of a female's birth. The Constellation in which the Moon is located at the time of birth is also considered. The Twelve Types of Yoni in general terms are described below: Cat (tabby) This type of yoni requires longer foreplay. Penetration, however, is spottier. The cat would want the male organ to be withdrawn and again inserted several times during copulation, because orgasm takes long time to be reached. The cat wishes the partner to caress and hold her by the neck. She wants the act to be soft and slow. In many cases, men cannot have the patience to go along and ejaculate faster. In that event the cat washes her yoni with water to cool down her anger and frustration. Body Elements: Fire & Earth Yoni Features: soft opening, narrow passage & shallow base. Person whose birth Nakshtra is Ashlesha or Punarvasu has this yoni.

Punarvasu Nakshatra born characteristics and features. General Characteristics: Intellectual and spiritual wisdom, material prosperity, good natured, quiet, patient, devout, lives in comfort. Symbol: Bow and a quiver of arrows.

MATCHING OF HOROSCOPE The various factors to be considered in match making in order of importance are :- 1. Longevity of partners. 2. Mental and psychological health. 3. Factors showing separation or divorce. 4. Compatibility of partners. The question of compatibility between partners will arise only if first 3 factors indicate that both are going to stay together. An approximate estimate of longevity of both the partners should be indispensable. What is needed is to examine the birth charts for premature death. If there is wide gap in longevity of two, then matching of other factors become redundant. The span of life is divided into 4 categories namely – (i) Balarishta (ii) Alpayu (iii) Madhyayu (iv) Purnayu. The life span between 40 to 75 years is described as Madhyayu, where as longevity beyond 75 years is considered as Purnayu. There are standard combinations of planets, which give idea of longevity of a person. Purnayu is indicated if benefics occupy kendras and Lagna lord is with benefics or aspected by Jupiter. Also when 3 planets in 8th house occupy exaltation, friendly and own sign respectively, long life is indicated. The same is the result when Saturn or 8th lord is conjoined with an exalted planet. The Lagna and Moon should be strong for long life. Mental and psychological health of the partner can also be examined by position of Lagna, Moon, sixth and eighth houses. The separation or divorce is also to be looked into by examining in detail 7th, 8th, and 9th houses. 7th houses is the house of marriage, 8th house rules ‘Mangalya’ i.e. strength of marital bond and 9th house rules ‘Sowhhagya’ or good fortune. The presence of 7th lord in 8th indicates chances of separation. 289 Mutual disposition of Mars and Venus plays a very important role in marriage. Venus is associated with spouse, material comforts, sex harmony, physical beauty etc, where as Mars abounds in energy, aggressiveness and in association with Venus gives a tendency to excess of sensual gratification. Venus-Mars disposition although an important factor for physical attraction but in the absence of Jupiter’s or even Saturn’s benign influence, real compatibility between partners may be lacking. Venus–Mars conjunction makes one fond of pleasure, demonstrative and adds a zest to one’s sensual life. Therefore after examining basic structure of horoscope of partners, it is ensured that long married life is indicated. When this assurance is indicated, question of compatibility of partners comes into picture which is examined by ‘Mangali Dosha’ and ‘Gana’ agreement. ‘Mangali Dosha’ means harmful effects of Mars. Among the malefic planets, Mars has come to enjoy such an important role in breaking of marriages that the harmful influence of Mars has come to be known as ‘Mangali Dosha’ and boy or girl having defective influence of Mars in the horoscope is generally known as ‘Mangali’ boy or ‘Mangali’ girl. Why the Mars gets such an importance in the matter of marriage ? The interaction of Moon and Mars causes menstruation in a woman every month when the Moon is passing through Apachayasthana from ascendant. The Moon controls the fluid matter of a woman while Mars signifies the blood and combination of two is cause of menses. The process of progeny and pregnancy depends exclusively on menstruation cycle in females. Mars is lord of blood system in all human beings. Semen in males get formed through the process of blood system. Therefore progeny is not possible without blessing of Mars. Apart from this Mars is a fiery planet and rules warmth in human body, energy, strength, courage, bravery, organizing ability, feelings of brotherhood etc. Mars is also the lord of 290 skin, the outer dress of body. Influence of Mars alone can create another body and another life. Astrologers have determined the houses from where Mars adversely influences and affects the 7th house, which is concerned with marriage, the married life and relationship with spouse. If Mars is in 1st, 2nd, 4th , 7th , 8th and 12th house in a horoscope, native is said to suffer with ‘Mangali Dosha’. The Lagna represents body, the Moon represents the mind and Venus the sexual organs. Therefore houses are reckoned from Lagna, Moon and Venus. The dosha is considerably weak when it exists from Lagna, a little stronger from the Moon and still more powerful from Venus. ‘Mangali Dosha’ gets cancelled if it is there in horoscope of both the bride and bridegroom. The Mars in the 1st house indicates annoyance, anger, irritation and disturbed state of mind of self, in the 2nd house presence of Mars may lead to financial breakdown, loss by cheating and violence between husband and wife. Presence of Mars in 4th house adversely affects the domestic atmosphere and in the 7th house introduces element of fire between husband and wife. In 8th house Mars acts as ‘Marak’ for spouse and person is involved in extra – marital relations. In 12th house, it may lead to wasteful expenditure, punishments, disturbance in the sleeping comforts, venereal diseases, extramarital sex etc. There are several combinations referred in astrological texts, which nullify harmful effects of Mars. There are total 36 Ganas and in the Gana agreement, compatibility of partners is examined from various points of view relevant to happy married life. The various aspects and points assigned to them are :- 1. VARNA - 1 2. VASYA - 2 3. TARA - 3 4. YONI - 4 5. MATCHING OF LORDS OF MOON – SIGNS - 5 291 6. GANA - 6 7. BHAKOOT (MATCHING OF MOON SINGS ) - 7 8. NADI - 8 VARNA : The Varnas as per Moon- signs are as under :- Varna kshtriya vaishya shudra brahman Moon Aaries Taurus Gemini Cancer Signs Leo Virgo Libra Scorpio Sagittarius Capricorn Aquarius Pisces Varna indicates capacity of native to shoulder responsibility of family. To run the family smoothly, it is considered necessary that Varna of boy is better than of that of girl. Depending on Varnas of boy and girl, points are assigned as under :- Varna of Boy Varna of Girl Brahman Kshtriya Vaishya Shudra Brahman 1 0 0 0 Kshtriya 1 1 0 0 Vaishya 1 1 1 0 Shudra 1 1 1 1 If Varna of boy is lower than that of girl then if lord of boy’s Moonsign is of better Varna, then marriage is considered compatible in respect of Varna. The Varnas of different planets are – JUP – VEN - BRAHMAN SUN – MARS - KSHTRIYA MER – MOON - VAISHYA SATURN - SHUDRA VASYA :- This agreement is very important for mutual attraction between husband and wife. The Vasya are of following five types : 1. CHATUSHPAD 2. MANAV ( DWIPAD) 3. JALCHAR 4. VANCHAR 5. KEET The Vasyas of different signs are as under :- Aries – Chatushpad, Taurus – Chatushpad, Gemini – Manav (Dwipad), Cancer – Keet and Jalchar, Leo – Vanchar and 292 Chatushpad, Virgo – Manav, Libra – Manav, Scorpio – Keet, Sagittarius – Manav and Chatushpad, Capricorn – Chatushpad and Jalchar, Aquarius – Manav, Pisces – Jalchar. VASYA means capacity to control others. Depending upon nature and behaviour VASYAS have been classified in four categories namely – Vasya, Friend, Enemy, Bhakshya. If Vashyas of boy and girl are friends 2 points are given, if one is Vasya and other Enemy 1 point, if one is Vasya and other is Bhakshya ½ point and if they are mutual enemies or Bhakshya they do not get any point. The points given depending on Vasyas of boy and girl are as under :- Vasya of Boy Vasya of Girl Chatushpad Manav Jalchar Vanchar Keet Chatushpad 2 ½ 1 ½ 1 Manav ½ 2 0 0 0 Jalchar 1 0 2 2 2 Vanchar ½ 0 2 2 0 Keet 1 0 2 0 2 TARA :- Taras are of 9 types namely Janm, Sampat, Vipat, Kshem, Pratyari, Sadhak, Vadha, Mitra, Atimitra. Out of these 9, Vipat, Pratyari and Vadha are considered inauspicious. Tara signifies likely problems in married life. Inauspicious Tara indicates differences in thinking of boy and girl. To find out Tara of boy count from Nakshtra of boy to Nakshtra of girl and divide the same by 9 and depending on remainder which may be 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 0, Tara is found in the same sequence as mentioned above. Similarly Tara of girl can be found out by counting Nakshtra of boy from girl. The points for Vasya are given as under:- 293 Tara of Tara of 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 Girl Boy1 3 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 3 2 3 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 3 3 1 ½ 1 ½ 0 1 ½ 0 1 ½ 0 1 ½ 1 ½ 4 3 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 3 5 1 ½ 1 ½ 0 1 ½ 0 1 ½ 0 1 ½ 1 ½ 6 3 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 3 7 1 ½1 ½ 0 1 ½ 0 1 ½ 0 1 1 8 3 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 3 9 3 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 1 ½ 3 3 Asvini - Horse Magha – Rat Moola – Dog Bharani – Elephant P.Phalguni – Mongoose Purvashdha – Monkey Krittika - Goat U. Phalguni - Camel Uttarashadha – Cow Rohini – Snake Hasta – Ox Shravana – Monkey Mrigsira – Snake Chitra – Tiger Dhanishtha – Female (Human) Ardra – Dog Swati – Bufallow Shatbhisha – Horse Punarvasu – Cat Vishakha – Tiger Poorva Bhadrapad – Male(Human) Pushya – Ram Anuradha – Deer U. Bhadrapad – Cow Ashlesha - Cat Jyeshtha – Deer Revati – Elephant MATCHING OF LORDS OF MOON SIGNS :- The relationship between lords of Moon – signs of boy and girl is found out and points depending upon the relations of lord of Moon – signs are assigned as under : 294 1. If both are mutual friends - 5 2. If one neutral and other friends - 4 3. If one friend and other enemy - 1 4. Mutual neutral - 3 5. If one neutral and other enemy - ½ 6. Mutual enemies - 0 7. If both have same lord - 5 This can be represented as per following table : Lord of Moon Lord of Moon Sun Moon Mars Mer Jup Ven Sat sign of Girl sign of Boy Sun 5 5 5 4 5 0 0 Moon 5 5 4 1 4 ½ ½ Mars 5 4 5 ½ 5 3 ½ Mer 4 1 ½ 5 ½ 5 4 Jup 5 4 5 ½ 5 ½ 3 Ven 0 ½ 3 5 ½ 5 5 Sat 0 ½ ½ 4 4 5 5 GANA : The birth Nakshtra are classified under the three Ganas namely Divine (Deva), Demon (Rakshash) and Human (Manushya ). The classification is as under :- 1. Divine (Deva ) - Asvini, Mrigsira, Punarvasu, Pushya, Hasta, Swati, Anuradha, Shravana, Revati 2. Demon (Rakshash) Krittika, Ashlesha, Magha, Chitra, Vishakha, Jyeshtha, Moola, Dhanishtha, Shatbhisha. 3. Human (Manushya ) Bharani, Rohini, Ardra, Poorva Phalguni, Uttar Phalguni, Purvashdha, Uttarashadha, Uttar Bhadrapad. It is considered that a native would have nature in accordance with Gana. The nature indicated by different Ganas is – Divine (Deva) - Dignity and goodness Human (Manushya) - Combination of good and bad. Demon (Rakshash) - Contempt, meanness, selfishness 295 Marriage between boy and girl belonging to same Gana is considered best. The marriage between Human and Divine Gana is considered workable. Marriage between Human and Demon Gana is prohibited. Marriage between a boy belonging to Divine and Girl belonging to Demon Gana is prohibited. The Divine, Human and Demon Gana correspond to Satvik, Rajsik and Tansik nature. Points for Ganas are assigned as per following table - Gana of Girl Gana of Boy Divine Human Demon Divine 6 5 1 Human 6 6 0 Demon 0 0 6 BHAKOOT (MATCHING OF MOON SIGNS) : If moon sign of one is counted from other, there is possibility of following relationship between Moonsigns of boy and girl– 1 : 7 or 7 : 7, 2 : 12, 3 : 11, 4 : 10, 5 : 9, and 6 : 8 The mutual relationship of 2 : 12, 5 : 9, and 6 : 8 is not considered good for marriage. Out of these three relationships, 6 : 8 relationship is considered the worst as it adversely affects the health and longevity of couple. It may also lead to divorce or suicide or murder of one by other. Maximum cases of suicide or murder after marriage belong to this category. Next bad relationship is 2 : 12 which adversely affects wealth, savings, spending, and mutual relationship in the family. The 5 : 9 relationship adversely affects the fortune, faith, religious activity, progeny and ancestral inheritance. Except in these relationships, 7 points are assigned. Even if relationships of 6 : 8, 2 : 12, 5 : 9 exists, 4 points are assigned if lords of both the signs are mutual friends. NADI : There are three Nadis under which all the Nakshtra have been 296 divided . viz. ADYA NADI – Asvini, Ardra, Punarvasu, Uttar Phalguni, Hasta, Jyeshtha, Moola, Shatbhisha, Poorva Bhadrapad. MADHYA NADI – Bharani, Mrigsira, Pushya, Poorva Phalguni, Chitra, Anuradha, Purvashdha, Dhanishtha, Uttar Bhadrapad. ANTYA NADI - Krittika, Rohini, Ashlesha, Magha, Swati, Visakha, Uttarashadha, Shravana, Revati If boy and girl both belong to same Nadi, it is considered ‘Nadi Dosha’ and marriage in such case is not recommended. Nadi Dosha adversely affects the compatibility and health of married couple. Nadi means pulse or nerve. It indicates physiological and hereditary factors. In following two circumstances, Nadi Dosha gets cancelled – 1. When Nakshtra of boys and girl is same but Pada of Nakshtra is different. 2. When Rashi of both boy and girl is same but they have different Nakshtra. Nadi of girl Nadi of Boy ADYA MADHYA ANTYA ADYA 0 8 8 MADHYA 8 0 8 ANTYA 8 8 0 •••••••••••• http://vedicastrologytolearn.blogspot.com/2010/12/matching-of-horoscope.html?m=1