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I will have a color code for these qualities. This is not SD. Nicholas qualities.. Justice Truth Courage Righteousness Fronshia qualities Purity Decency Innocence Authenticity Friendliness Politeness Emotional maturity Verdana qualities Love Compassion Empathy. Humanity Charity Generosity Helpful Protective. Poinsettia qualities Intelligence Wit Adaptability Orderly Perception Prudence Organizing Gladiolus Qualities Calm Transcendence Wisdom Clarity Abundance Psychic qualities Aesthetic qualities Sexual qualities Freedom. Burgundy Qualities Perseverance Resilience Strength Endurance Hope strong Determined Positive Visionary Enduring Positive Passionate. Godetia qualities Companionship Trust Integrity Honesty Faith Loyalty Calliandras qualities Sharp wit Manipulation Defensive Aggressive Alert Clever Sadistic

Certain qualities I want to focus on Integrity Purity Morality Decency Friendliness Emotional maturity Politeness Innocence Beauty Wholesome Loving Caring Sacrifice Empathy Intelligence Perception Wisdom Prudence Wit Serenity Peaceful Logical Organizing Orderly Truth Courage Justice Righteousness Perseverance Resilience Honesty Compassion Loyalty Companionship Faith Trust Hope Generosity Helpful Protective Enduring Strong Determined Passionate Positive Visionary Freedom Decency Humanity

I have been through multiple failed relationships that I ended because of the toxicity I had to deal with. Some were good relationships and some were bad and some didn't pan out for different reasons. I'm currently in a relationship after breaking up with my ex and this relationship feels safe. I have had exes stalking me and trying to contact me over the past 1 year or so and I have felt the temptation to go back to them or at least respond when they're trying to reach me. This has caused me some frustration over the last few weeks. I don't want to talk to people who have hurt me in the past. I want to quit social media and social contact for a while. {the other thing is called nofap, I don't know what to call this} So I want to challenge myself to ward off the temptation to connect with people for a while. I don't know how to exactly go about with it. I know that there are options to block people and so on but there is always a way to end up talking to them. I just want to stay away from it all. Is it wiser to do quit all social media and social contact? I don't want to deal with the toxicity of it all. What are your opinions and experiences about it? I just need time to heal from my toxic relationships and I think the best way to do this is to stay away from people generally. (I've tried staying away from my family because there's a lot of dysfunction in there and I've suffered chronic abuse as a child and teenager and I come from a broken dysfunctional home.) So my only social contact(right now) is a guy called Andrew (with whom I feel safe and he doesn't bother me or obsess over me like my exes used to and we have like a casual friends with benefits sorta relationship although I might make it a serious commitment, just not now because I'm still healing but I can take it to a serious commitment in the future if I'm mentally prepared. And I have my pets. Other than Andrew and my pets I usually do not engage with anyone. I do have a close circle of friends that I interact with in case I need emotional help. So it's not like I am going to be totally lonely. I just want to stay away from new experiences because I feel a bit weird and guarded and frankly scared of the dating world and even the social media because there's always a risk of running into toxic people online. {offline it's much easier to avoid bad people because they don't come knocking on the door unless it's serious stalking. But online and phone is very different because it's much easier to click and much easier for people to get a hold of you.} I am going to keep like a "NO SOCIAL CONTACT FOR 6 MONTHS" just like they do NOFAP. I'm not exactly addicted to social things but it's the toxicity that I don't deal very well with. Although I love making friends and exploring new relationships and experiences but that habit has come with a huge price tag. I don't want to feel like a weirdo doing this. I'm not anti social although I've suffered some social anxiety but I have still managed to get along with lots of people and people around me usually like me. I like to socialize, make friends, express, vent out, rant, talk a lot, it's just that I have ended up talking to the wrong kind of people sometimes and gotten in trouble. So I decided to give it a long break and stay away from it all so that I don't have to worry about hanging out with the wrong kind of people and spare myself toxic relationships. I'm very emotional and vulnerable very often and that's when the wrong kind of people approach me. Am I doing something weird or is this behavior/decision of mine completely okay?

@Amit I'm glad I was able to help.

Pine Grove will be about certain mentalities that are toxic.

@Robi Steel It seems to me like you are worried about certain things.. I can't put my finger on it though.

@Epikur So tell me the definition of xenophobia which seems independent, unbiased and objective according to you?

@Epikur shouldn't everything be both left wing and right wing at the same time, because that would make sense from the point of view of objectivity and fairness. Would you rather have everything to be right wing?

@wwhy You are going to be a tremendous contribution to the forum.. You make better arguments than me. I'm very impressed at your skill. A hearty welcome from me buddy. You are a gem.

4 divine virtues Truth Courage Justice Righteousness

I think any humane society will support 4 fundamental virtues Justice Truth Courage Righteousness I see these as the fundamental necessities of morality of a system I cannot imagine a system thriving without these 4 virtues.

So you care about truth!! Should I drop the greatest truth bomb on you? The greatest truth bomb is this . Law does not see the race of the person who commits a crime. And if it does, it's a prejudiced law and not a humane law.

@Enlightenment I care about the truth. That's why I don't believe statistics. Because they are man made invention. It's Ground Hog Day. I will patrol the grounds and see the reality for myself. Pure raw truth. To seek real truth needs real courage.

You can say anything you want to me. Nothing will change my mind. I don't believe those statistics. And nobody can prove that they are right. And I don't wish to argue further.

Thank you for your kind words .

@wwhy don't mind me. I just asked out of curiosity.

@wwhy where are you from?

This forum is filled with some crackos. I'm done with this shit Like why am I even wasting my time trying to change the world. Let them think whatever they want. Not like they are cut from my cloth Talk to people who at least have an iota of decorum in them This is some GTA level 6 insanity. Like girl, gtfo from this pile lol.

I really need a teepee now.. Like NOW

@Opo that made me laugh really hard lmao.

Some people just Crack me up

@Nak Khid it must be an honorable thing to make it to his block list. I wear my medal with pride.

@Peo frankly if I were a man and if a girl told me that I was cute and adorable I would be jumping with joy, even if she didn't mean I was hot or wanted. It would have such an impact. That's the cutest thing a girl can say to a guy.

More black people get racially profiled every day. Are black people simply supposed to ignore it?

Punish people who commit crimes. Why bother about the race. We are not living in middle ages to do witch hunting.