Preety_India

STOP USING ABUSIVE WORDS.

@Harikrishnan thank you.

One has to be sensitive and respectful while asking questions. The replies will also be respectful. Trollish questions will get Trollish replies The post doesn't say "me after Enlightenment." it simply says "after Enlightenment." that's just a general question. The reason it is misinterpreted is because that person is projecting their own shit on me so honestly I'm not wrong in being triggered. Many people get triggered by dumb trollish questions And yes it is personal because it's a personal question because that question contains the word "you" when the original post says nowhere the word " I." Yet that person found a way to make it personal. And maybe because it was personal it triggered me. Try not to trigger and be sensitive and respectful and don't make everything personal so maybe I won't feel the need to be defensive. Look at how the other user nistake didn't say anything trollish or insensitive. They simply gave me a link and resources that can be helpful to the thread/post instead of asking me ridiculous personal questions. Try to behave like that rather than turning every post I make into You vs Me. I responded calmly and politely and said thanks. Because that person didn't say anything personal or triggering or drama creating Look at the implications of a question like "are you Enlightened?" because obviously that person knows no member on this forum is enlightened. So the question seems like a rhetorical way to mock me. What's the intention behind such a question when the person already knows that I'm not enlightened. The question can be implied in many ways. It can mean "why are you starting this post if you're not enlightened, are you thinking that you are that great?" so honestly it can feel like I'm being trolled or mocked. And some people, especially serious people like me, have low tolerance for being mocked. It comes down to people's sensitivity. If you really want to have a productive conversation with someone, don't try to simply trigger that person or say biased things to that person. It will only cause that person to be defensive. Try to be sensitive to how that person is or else don't bother to have a conversation at all. Talk to people who are okay with whatever you say, don't talk to people who are sensitive to your tone or conversations. Look at how the thread gets derailed by simply triggering the person who is posted. It doesn't serve a purpose to mock a person. Deep down I might have got very offended by such a question. It's almost like someone is questioning my character. It can be implied in many ways. So perception is important. Different people will perceive things differently. Some people will take it as a joke, some people will get offended. It's nobody's fault. The thing is that if you're ready to ask disrespectful questions or mocking questions to people, also be ready to take their defensive replies. If you are having a problem with accepting their defense, then also don't try to offend them. Be careful about how you say things so that it's not offensive to the other person. Learn to be sensitive. If you don't want people to be offended, well then don't offend them. If his intention was pure and he had genuine curiosity to carry the conversation he probably would have worded his question in a more reasonable manner like this "did you go through an enlightenment experience in your life. If yes, please share. I asked because you posted about enlightenment. I would love to know more." I wouldn't have become defensive if the question was asked with the intent to know something. But the question was worded as " are you enlightened? " which automatically translates as " you really think you're enlightened to create such a post. " That's where things go wrong. Like I said, I'm respectful to respectful people. I can easily see when someone is simply trying to trigger me versus someone who is seriously wanting a civil discussion with me Honestly such behavior is very cheap. Let's see I don't like someone on the forum, then I won't even talk to them. I will just avoid them rather than intentionally trying to trigger them on purpose. I mean how cheap is that. I would just leave them alone If that person who commented has a problem with my posts then they should not read my posts or not bother to reply in a triggering manner to me. The only purpose it serves is bringing out my defensive side and even derailing my thread. Plus constantly triggering to bring out my defensive side only serves one purpose - to make me look like a big bitch on the forum. I'm positive to positive people. I'm not positive to negative people. It's not my fault. I am nice to nice people. Be nice to me and I will be nice to you. This is same for everyone.

If someone attacks me covertly, I have the right to be defensive. If people are respectful to me, I'm respectful to them. I also meant no harm. I simply defended myself. If you don't see a problem with the question, you also shouldn't see any problem with my reply

@nistake thanks.

What a stupid question. Am I asking it because I'm enlightened? Did I even say that? Did I even mention that? Read the post carefully again instead of deliberately trying to misinterpret me. The post is about what people should do post enlightenment. I never said what I should do. Don't bring your self bias to me. So I can't even talk about enlightenment or enlightened people now because I'm not enlightened?

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@Ananta ???????

Sleeping Giants Page 2

Sleeping Giants Page 1 This label will deal with animal studies starting with burrowing animals. List of burrowing animals Chipmunk Prairie dog Burrowing owl Aardvark Mole rat Hamster List of hibernating animals Bears Bats Marmots Frogs Common poorwill Lemurs Common box turtle Bumblebee Garter snake Hedgehog Skunks Prairie dog European badger Golden hamster Nightjars Dormouse Squirrel

Red Dye Page 3 Some makeup tutorials I like to follow

Red Dye Page 2 Some makeup picks for today. I am going to explore more makeup in this label. Red Dye is also going to have a lot of aesthetic stuff gathered in one place. I love this makeup. Forgot the name of the model. Love this eye makeup.

Red Dye Page 1 Some models that I will add to my list of fashion collection are Fran Summers Emily DiDonato Taylor Hill Heidi Mount Martha Hunt Some of the fashion picks for today This one looks odd and liberating in the same breath. This smart little purple outfit by Heidi Mount looks really special on a night out. I love this colorful hippie dress

The other label is Red Dye That would be about random stuff Fashion. I'm not too much into fashion but sometimes I have moments where I feel like I can try a particular make up or a particular dressing style.. Certain faces like this one. This woman is also a model. I like the hard features on her face. To me they represent a certain domineering aspect of a female. Here she looks amazing. Perfect for a model. I'm going to add a few good models to my fashion list as well as a couple of dresses and makeup from random models.

The new label for animal study is called Sleeping Giants Sleeping Giants This label will deal with animal studies starting with burrowing animals.

Equality means fair treatment for both genders.. If you wanted fair treatment for an elephant and and a cat, it does not mean that the cat should start eating grass.

@DrewNows ???

I can confidently say that my emotional profile today is radically different from my emotional profile a year ago when I was with my abusive ex Today I'm emotionally independent, I think better, I look better, I can easily read a man, I can read red flags and signs and warnings like never before. I'm more aware of abusive behavior. The more awareness I have the more I'm able to spot lies and bullshit and abusive behaviors. I had an absolutely horrible mother who could have taught me nothing about relationships. In fact she was the one making me stay in abusive relationships. I hope every woman has a strong mother who coaches her and tells her how to not fall into damaging abusive relationships and how to stay safe emotionally and mentally and not get weak towards men or simply believe whatever they say, but have the ability to spot manipulation in a man.

I have realized that relationships especially when it comes to women depend a lot on the emotional profile of a woman in the relationship. And psychological profiling studies are extremely important for women to stay away from damaging men, predatory men and abusive men, to easily spot them and keep them at bay.

Also from today, I don't want to be a warrior anymore. I just want to be a silent observer.

This is so true

I will keep a reward point system here Like date and reward points. For example I can do something like A proforma for reward points system July 14th 2020 Reward points - Reward points - The post can be edited for 48 hours. After that I can delete the post and repost my points to keep continuity. I will do this from today.

Other than rewarding myself directly I can use visualization as a potential method of motivation. I also found that continuously talking in front of the mirror helps me improve my self confidence and keeps me active. (you know draw the circle) One witchcraft technique which I can use for motivation is sprinkling salt. Rubbing beads is another technique. Also repeating mantra. However the basic model behind all of my efforts is the following Energy Motivation Goals Action Insulation Fortification

I will put both bills and coins into my piggy bank as reward. For now I put 200 coins and 1 bill in my piggy bank as reward.. This can be a great idea.