syhoang

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About syhoang

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  • Birthday 04/12/1998

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  1. @Hello from Russia So, you mean loving is about heart and not something else? And she's loving me because of her sexual need?
  2. @Knock As you are saying, we should have the act of balance between trust and verify when it's needed. @Knock I will remember "a leap of faith" and "trust and enjoy the process" when things going to get tough. Thanks for your opinion!
  3. @Hello from Russia I think believe in myself would touch reality nearer than trust. Thanks for your opinion!
  4. Leo once said like you... Thanks for your opinion!
  5. Hello Actualizers! I am 21 years old and really confuse about what should I do and how to build my foundations for self-development. It's been a long time I contemplate and thinking about the question as I mentioned in this thread. For my confusion, I heard Leo said that we shouldn't cling to anything, only clinging to God in video "Aztec Philosophy". But, if I don't cling to anything, I would do absolutely nothing because I don't see any guidance and don't have confident to lead the path. Steve Jobs once said in his Commencement Speak that: "You should trust in something, karma, your guts, etc. whatever to have confident to follow your heart and believing the dots will connect somehow." For that much confusion, I am trying to trust in Teotl (God) in order to have confident to follow my heart. Should I (and you) trust totally in something like Teotl? Much appreciate for your answers!
  6. I think I will quit her like you saying. But should I really delete all memories and contacts about her?
  7. @ajasatya Do you mean I rather should give her space to choose?
  8. Hello actualizer! My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 10 months. Before dating me, my girlfriend already had another boyfriend that as she said it couldn't last for long-term relationship. So, I thought she was ready for a new relationship with me as she said she would quit the old relationship. But, as we were falling in love and spending more time together, I noticed she still texted with her ex-boyfriend. She often lied her parents for going out with me (that she said she was home while actually we were going out). And also, she lied me 2 times that she already broke up with her ex-boyfriend but the truth is she was not. After the second lie, she already told her ex that she don't want to continue and quit, but somehow now she's still texting her ex and still loving her ex. She spends more time for me than her ex. Her ex-boyfriend only texts and rarely going out together. And now, this is the third one she lied to me. For now, I already said her that we break up and can't never fix this relationship. But she still wants me to be her friend and meet each other to chat as a friend. I really confuse about how to deal with her now. Should I quit her totally or this relationship still has hope for fixing it? Really appreciate for your answer!