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@Karmadhi Well hello!

Your soul is pure

I think this is ok. You can meditate and then at other times you can contemplate this. It’s ok to do both.

Yes, trauma affects the ways we treat others

I would use a diluted essential oil as your scent over a perfumed body spray especially if you’re getting a headache.

I’ve experienced that before. Sometimes it really is best not to say anything. Other times it can help your motivation. Feel it out.

I dated people who weren’t into spirituality for yearssss. And it honestly kinda broke my spirit. Being with someone who is spiritual makes the relationship so much more enjoyable for me. It’s a non-negotiable for me now.

You can make money off of anything. Don’t limit yourself like this.

Because they can show you things about your life and life as a whole that you may not be ready to see and integrate. They can cause you to awaken before you are ready to wake up which can cause all kinds of emotional problems. Especially if you don’t already have a solid materialistic base to back you up. They can cause you to “live in the clouds” and to poo poo material reality, like the importance of making money. They can also cause you to live in delusion, thinking that because the psychedelics have shown you so much that you are now wise, however without integration of psychedelic visions and teachings one only becomes full of themselves. Watch the actualized.org video titled The Top Dangers of Using Psychedelics

This is a tad bit silly my friend

Don’t force yourself to feel. Just be with your numbness.

Your second choice doesn’t have to be so dull. I wouldn’t join the forces because then you are even more of a slave but that’s just me. I’m also in the US so could be different elsewhere.

Resting and not giving a fuck about productivity

You’re not black. You don’t get to make claims like this. Your tone is also very disrespectful. If a black person tells me it was disrespectful and not ok for me to use the N word in any context then I would put my pride away and listen.

Know your purpose, what you like, get good at some skill like music or art

Depends when you ask lol. I’d say most people like probably 80% don’t enjoy living. also the question is more nuanced. Because some people may think they enjoy living but deep down they are suffering

Boredom is a good thing because it helps you see all the possibilities to create that do exist.

I agree 100%.

@Thought Art You're 26...that's so young. Men often get better looking as they age.

@Gregory1 Please be more thoughtful in your speech on this forum.

It seems so rich with culture and history. Beautiful people, beautiful art. I hope to visit some day.

My two biggest regrets are not getting a 4 year degree after high school and taking too much ecstasy in my early 20's.

Healing dismissive avoidant/disorganized in an amazing relationship Read the book: Attached by Amir Levin and Rachel Heller for more on attachment theory!

I noticed a recurring theme of guilt throughout this post and I want you to know that this guilt is not doing any good. Beating yourself up is only causing more pain, dear. Please try to offer yourself kindness, you deserve it no matter what <3 Now for the hard truths... Most situations like this end very poorly. It doesn't sound like this one is going to end well and I'm sorry for your pain. You will learn from this, though. The bond between you is too toxic for healing. I wish for this to resolve quickly for you both. And I send you strength during this time, love.

Look to people you trust for help with discernment around these questions.