RendHeaven

my only "cheat meal" is chicken with butter or nigiri sushi

I'm 1m80, 75kg, 1000ng/dl testosterone. Diet is grass fed ground beef, eggs, white rice, pomegranate juice Jason is 1m76, 80kg, 1000ng/dl tesosterone. Diet is grass fed ground beef, whole milk, eggs, white rice, pomegranate juice, beef liver, atlantic salmon

I sleep with anyone I perceive as hot, but to be a woman I'm "dating" (aka emotionally invested in), I need to be impressed by her character. I don't mind her sleeping around, but I'm unimpressed by lying. If she's a consistent liar, the most she gets to be with me is FWB.

Hmm fun question! Nope, it's impossible to "cheat" on me because I don't demand sexual exclusivity. I find mate guarding to be a waste of time. People deserve to make uninhibited choices moment to moment, and if a woman wants to stay with me over the course of several years, it'll be because she has truly chosen me day after day. This mass-hallucination called "cheating" literally doesn't exist in my reality and I feel for people who continue to infuse that construct with significance. @aurum Great answer as always.

Hahaha why did I bother

The reality is that red still exists in major parts of the world, sometimes side-by-side with green. So you're both correct in your own ways. More poignantly, red and green can exist side-by-side within an individual man. So it's not as clear cut as "men don't rape" or "all men are rapists." The truth is in the middle. I would say most men are empathetic non-rapists who have a tiny fraction of their soul which desires to rape, but is vehemently repressed and stamped out (it never really goes away, but we act like it's not there). But in general I can see that you have rose-tinted glasses in the way you view men, from the way you deny our core hunter instinct and our history of conquest and war crimes (which doesn't magically disappear from our subconscious just because we live in a green society!). If you want to do serious research into fucked up male psychology, look up the south korean Nth room incident on telegram, especially the doctor's rooms. And currently they have a large scale deepfake epidemic as well. Rotten Mango youtube channel has good coverage of this. But I don't particularly recommend going down this rabbit hole. It's extremely disturbing and will cause guttural reactions in you. But this is, in some sense, the "true face" of men whom we both love and hate. Those south korean men are really no different than a man in any other western developed country. It's just a matter of environment and circumstance and degree. Real life is just like the Lord of the Flies, where civilized and reasonable regular humans will turn on each other when survival is at stake. Truth ain't pretty.

Curious to hear what relationship format you advocate for. Do you have a traditional monogamous marriage in mind when you say "serious relationship" with "heart?"

I've actually measured as low as 5mg per red microscoop for MALT HCL. It's just too uncertain - so at this point I don't really think of doses as mg but rather # of scoops

I'm not looking forward to evolving

I literally didn't realize that "sex tourism" involved money lol. In my naive mind everyone went to SE asia to get laid with hotties organically by being attractive LOL It's a rough world.

still chose one woman above all others EMOTIONALLY, yes. Sexually, no. I PROMISE he was banging the maid on occasion, and of course that is left out of history books and folklore lol. And discreetly banging the maid on the side does NOT diminish the true love he has for his chosen one. This is unequivocally true but a lot of women (and feminized men) have trouble accepting it because of thousands of years of social programming. It makes zero sense for an abundant, attractive, desirable man who wants to have sex with hot girls to suddenly NOT have sex with hot girls just because one woman is a cut above. That's like you really learn you love pasta one day and you stop eating all other dishes forever. Makes no sense. No matter how much you love pasta, at some point you're gonna crave something else, and that's not a problem. You can eat the whole buffet and still cherish your favorite (if anything, that variety provides quality contrast and further elevates the allure of your chosen dish). Men with testosterone can uncouple sexual desire and emotional desire in clean halves. It's perfectly logical to love a woman, have mindblowing tantric sex with her, turn off your emotion and have caveman sex with her hot sister who you barely know. That's how men think and feel, and we would all do this if it were socially acceptable and celebrated (and the sister was consenting ofc). The reason you don't see this kind of free-for-all debauchery is because - who you can or cannot have sex with is highly controlled in society, and implicitly so. Nowadays you wouldn't dare touch the sister of your lover, much less a stranger (even if SHE was making moves on you!) because that will upset your lover, and you don't want to risk social backlash. But if you were the king of the universe and nobody had any say over your lifestyle choices, of COURSE your lady's tantrums wouldn't stop you. Is that sexist? Yeah probably. There is an inconsiderate element to hyper-masculine sexuality (which is precisely what makes it dangerously attractive lol). But sexual relations has always been an all-out war. "The good men who wouldn't do that" are all domesticated, for better or for worse. Yeah that's dumb. "Institutionalized" "policies" are oppressive and psychologically damaging to girls (OBVIOUSLY. I don't think anybody is advocating for that??) You are raging against monarchs past who had poor spiral development (purple/red/blue). Nowadays in developed western nations (orange+) women will retaliate loudly and a man's selfishness will NOT fly (and this is a good thing!) so you are preaching to the choir. Therefore in 2024, the harem has to be compatible with free will. The girls have to organically and authentically choose you (month after month; year after year), without coercion. No way around it. This puts enormous responsibility on the guy to actually be desirable - but that's the fun of being a man! Beggars can't be choosers, and tyrants are cowards. Let the ladies have as many dicks as they want. Free market capitalism baby. And yes, you can still build authentic love and commitment even with this dynamic. Plenty of people have done this already, I'm just reporting the facts. If you are talking about outdated "institutionalized" "policies," then yeah. But regarding a modern harem where multiple women willingly choose to stay with one man long term (without coercion), any woman has the potential within her to enjoy that arrangement with the understanding that she also has the free will to date multiple guys (if she so desires) How long have you been sexually exclusive with this man?

I sharply inhaled diabolical word choice my guy my reaction proves your point but these girls can never understand

The "But" needs a lot more emphasis with this crowd. It doesn't count unless you're already sexually quenched/never had sex drive to begin with. It's the difference of a wimp avoiding a fight vs a master martial artist avoiding a fight. Yet the wimp will always spin a self-serving narrative about being at a higher level of development than he actually is. These lonely "spiritual" guys are always first in line to proudly castrate themselves and renounce sex and act as righteous. Just go have sex man. Come on.

Who's gonna tell her about human history?

Such a refreshing take. Can't help but smile back!

Yup, good taste. For me it's: Japanese (/S. Korean) Colombian (/Brazilian) Russian (/Ukrainian) ...in that order. SE Asia is somewhere you'd want to fly to with your homies

Damn, I made that comment with love though. Why not fly to SE Asia if you want to bang SE Asian women?? It's perfectly reasonable and there's no shame.

@Unleash Yup, similar experience here. Went for 6 red scoops up the ass, and reality unraveled to such a terrifying extent that I was convinced this was the brink of mahasamadhi. If I let go any more, the whole universe would unravel forever and Consciousness would move on. That, of course, was the least acceptable thing to me, and although I had been letting go like a champ until then, at the last moment I completely shut down in sheer terror, and I instinctively clung on to existence itself for dear life (literally). From the outside I imagine I would've been contorting and panting and crying and slack-jawed (although in actuality, by that point there was no body. I held up my hand and it was simply un-rendered, I didn't even have the visual anchors of shapes and colors - it was all being swallowed into the white hole of infinite origin, and all reality-anchors were being deleted before my very eyes as if they were never there (which of course, they weren't). Insanity, death, terror, holding on - this is all inevitable at high doses of MALT. This is what Leo means by "epic mindfuck" and "will melt your reality down to a puddle." It's probably an acquired taste for serious truth-seekers, but many of us here are amateur dabblers. Needless to say I'm not particularly fond of MALT anymore (at least for where I'm at in life now). However I would like to think that this experience has changed me for the better in a permanent way. You can't unsee something that intense and true. The worries of everyday life are trivial next to the terror of God's Love. I'd rather go chase sex and money for 20 years before having to face myself like that again! (and ironically upon knocking on the gates of mahasamadhi, I saw with perfect clarity how all of consensus reality, mankind, and human desire is essentially an elaborate distraction-mechanism for God to avoid its own abyss - and so I am playing into my own hand perfectly!)

Destiny and Sneako are horrible examples of open relationships, they did everything wrong and of course it blew up in their faces If you want a harem it has to be managed in a highly specific manner that balances attraction and emotions for all parties involved. Don't get in situations you don't want to be in; and if a girl disagrees with you, you have to be able to completely let her go without hesitation no matter how sexy or sweet she is. Going to a sex party and watching a guy plow her is a trash idea and has nothing to do with proper open relationship management. I would never take a girl to such a stupid environment. If anything, I would set up my own sex party where it's all hot girls and me. And if that upset her for any reason, she's GONE. Abundance. Don't settle. Set the frame. Lead. Don't need anything from anyone. There are 800 million women aged 18-33 worldwide. Also destiny was basically in an open relationship with a gauntlet of rules which she was breaking behind his back. So it was really no different from a cheating monogamous relationship. You need minimal rules where both parties are free to do whatever they want - but you are so attractive that she organically craves you (and ideally: only you!)

All masculine men, given infinite power and freedom, would seek an arrangement where he is having sex with multiple attractive women, and they are all loyal to him. The harem. This is your "default ideal" and the only reason that it is never acknowledged (or actualized) is because of a titanic social matrix effort to frame control you NONSTOP FROM BIRTH which constricts you into the limited box of pre-made (unideal) relationship systems (namely; "fucking around" or "serious monogamy"). Of course, you also lack "infinite" power and freedom. If you lived with reckless abandon of true desire, you would die very quickly (socially and literally), because your desires would be in diametric opposition to other men and women, causing conflict and even war. Given your tiny realm of influence and sovereignty, the most you can seem to pull off is to sleep around with no commitment, or to choose commitment and to castrate yourself and hand your balls over to one woman and pretend you don't feel anything for other girls (all these husbands pretending that they suddenly don't want to have sex with the plethora of hotties around the world... what a herculean effort to lie to yourself just to stay in line and not rock the boat!) Building a modern harem is perfectly doable (the most attractive men around the world all have this arrangement) but it will require a lot of research, trial and error, failure, emotional damage, compromise, and personal growth before it starts to work. In 2024 you will NEVER achieve a lasting arrangement where you have multiple partners and they are all loyal to you. This is too selfish and hurtful, and they will all cheat or leave. If you want multiple girls, then each girl MUST have the option of multiple men. This doesn't mean you encourage or pressure her to go fuck someone else; nor does it even mean that she will (a lot of the times she won't!). You simply must honor her free will. You can also never get overly attached to one woman in a modern harem. You must reach a point where you both organically share energy and time together, perhaps even with strong feelings of genuine love - but if she walks away and suddenly gets monogamously married to another man, you barely even notice or care (yes she can leave you at any time, that's the whole point. this is also true of monogamy, but with typical monogamy you socially pressure her into artificially extending her stay with you) Do you have that level of outcome independence and sexual abundance? Probably not. Your default instinct is to "hoard" her and mate guard her and to place restrictive boundaries around her (scarcity; fear; selfishness) and therefore you settle for monogamy because you realize it's not fair to chain her up without you yourself being similarly bound and restrained. Tl;dr a harem is not only doable; but highly authentic. Many men are already doing it. But it takes a lot of effort, you have to kick all of your social programming and biological instincts, and completely identity-shift into next-level sexual abundance. Also, as everyone else is saying, you can't have a monogamous girlfriend and then suddenly assault her reality with "hey babe let me have sex with other women who are NOT you" If you want a harem, dump your current GF and start from scratch. If you're too weak for that, then give up on your true desires and don't think about any of this (like 99.99% of men)

@Lyubov elite passport bro rhetoric

Hot girls love me

Excellent wording, very intelligent take.

All cope, just go have sex

I've heard of this guy before, but I don't know enough to make real judgements My first impressions are as follows: Indeed impressive-looking for his (public) age, but smells fishy When I searched his name on duckduckgo (cuz fuck google lol), this is the first video that popped up: So even IF his information sharing was accurate and true, his optics and antics are WILDLY sleazy. And this low-integrity immediately makes me question if anything else he says is actually real. For example how can we be sure he's not secretly eating meat on the side while promoting veganism? Is he really even 62? (doing one thing, saying another is highly probable) And I'm also aware that one "exposed" video doesn't have absolute credibility either. After all, Leo has the same kind of character-take-down videos made on him by unqualified people calling him "cult leader." But certainly the green screen fakery is self evident, and markus has a lot of explaining to do. If he indeed eats exactly as he reports, then his sky high antioxidant status protects him considerably from the downsides of high PUFA. But that doesn't mean high PUFA is necessarily the optimal play, because low PUFA + antioxidants accomplishes the same thing and more