Leo Gura

I don't really trust hair tests. Provoked urine test would be more accurate. But food and water most likely.

It's not the that Universe is about love. The Universe IS Love -- metaphysically. This doesn't mean you won't get shot in the head by someone. Love is just a much more profound thing than being treated well or feeling emotions of love. Yes, the Universe is Intelligence doing whatever it wishes. But what Sadhguru isn't telling you is that the highest intelligence is identical to Love. And this Love looks very radical to from the POV of a human. The Universe is doing Love, but it's doing it at the universal level, not at the human level.

Sounds like you need to transition out of pickup into more of a social circle frame, where you can still have fun socially and shoot the shit with people, even girls, but you don't need to explicitly hit on them or approach them with that direct sexual intent that pickup teaches. In social circle you can still be somewhat flirty without coming off as a cheater. Make your flirting more subtle and less sexually intentful. Just sorta be a playful social guy rather than hitting on girls. That's how highly social guys naturally are.

I'd start here. Get to work on handling your career/finances and become independent of your toxic family. This would be a huge achievement and create a foundation for everything else.

By realizing that answers and solutions aren't worth much unless they are rooted in your direct experience and personal insight. Unearned answers simply aren't very powerful or valuable.

Intellectual conclusions are not awakening. Awakening is absolute. If you doubt it, you aren't awake.

All this proves is that the ego isn't God. Ego cannot be omnipotent because it is finite.

He means doesn't exist as a biographical self. He exists as existence itself.

Of course. But "handsome" is super relative. It's not about being handsome, it's about whether she is attracted.

Well, when you construct categories don't be surprised when they blow up in your face at some point. "Male" and "female" were constructed categories which are now being deconstructed. So here we are. People are freaking out because they took it for granted that male and female were always constructions. The outrage is a mechanism to maintain the constructions while pretending they were not constructions.

No one is forcing you to do anything.

There is a difference between being a sugar daddy vs a cheap-ass. This sounds like a clear case of cheapassery.

In my experience usually they are not lying. You can ask for his name or even to see a pic of him if you are so skeptical / cynical. Eventually you learn to just move on. Either way she isn't into you if she gives you that excuse. Although many of my wings sleep with girls with bfs on the regular. I would not advise that though. Bad karma.

If you wanna make these sports more fair then test for height, muscle mass, testosterone levels, etc. and have categories for them.

@mo_v Maybe a less arrogant approach next time if you want to understand a topic.

Def go for the kiss. Stop worrying about rejection.

You can find a clip of him saying it. Pretty sure that would get you banned. It's not some deep mystery.

Because you have to want to grow and change.

That's your clue. It takes about 3 hours for acne to emerge after a bad meal.

He was banned for calling the trans community filthy and degenerate. Paraphrasing.

I will wash it before sex. Just go to the bathroom and wash it using the sink. Takes 2 mins. It's easier for guys to wash than for girls.

You have to communicate THAT. You're not actually communicating genuinely. Communicate to him what you are communicating to us. Casually telling him is not the same thing as sitting him down and doing a consicous communication where you two really hear each other.

Stop this masturbating and go talk to girls. You don't need to be in the top 10%. You just need to hook ONE girl.

That's genius.

As always, just have fun and escalate. Don't talk about anything serious on a first date. You are not her gay friend. Never talk about exes or past relationships on a first date. And in general, don't talk about heavy negative shit.