Leo Gura

That's way too shallow of an answer. The answer is profound.

You guys need to do a lot more contemplating on what fake vs real spirituality is. You're still missing the distinction. Don't ask me. Contemplate.

Hey, it takes time. Be patient.

Males naturally lead more.

In practice you will find that many spiritual teachers end up dating people who found them through their work rather than picking up a random girl at a cafe or bar.

Obviously it's a very thorny issue that I do not take casually. But there are certain realities to how socialization works.

@kray Don't hit on staff where you game. It's desperate.

Pickup is not particularly conscious. And it makes way more sense to date a girl who is into my work than a random girl at a nightclub. The beauty of being a spiritual teacher is that your work attracts higher consciousness people than the general population.

State change can be legit spirituality. The key is if reality is being understood or not. Are you gaining insight into reality? If so it is legit. If not is it a distraction. If sticking your tongue into a wall socket gives you a genuine insight about existential reality it is legit spirituality. (Don't do that.)

@RendHeaven You have to also be real. Most gurus sleep with their students because in the end who are they going to sleep with? They going to do pickup at a nightclub? No. People sleep with people they socialize with. This true of all humans. Peter Ralston married his student. That doesn't make it abusive. It's just how he meets people. He doesn't go to a nightclub or log onto Tinder. Obviously this is easily abused.

Find out if a girl is single within 5 minutes. Do not waste an hour talking to a girl without knowing if she's single.

Well, he probably says some valid things. It's hard to be wrong 100% of the time. But remember, spirituality is not really about helping you feel good. A blowjob might make you feel good. That doesn't make it a spiritual pursuit. Spirituality is about consciousness of the illusion of reality.

No. Pursuit of truth has no relation to suffering. Imagine only caring to connect with God to avoid pain. This is disgusting. This is like only having sex with your wife because you are in pain. But if your pain stops you never have sex with her. This is sick.

I don't see why he would have a problem finding a threesome of women if he wanted that. Most men probably don't want to be poly even if they could. It's just exhausting and juvenile.

Maybe they know you will stomp their balls with your stilettos

Of course that's not true. Jeff Bezos just got married. But women love to chase playboys. Aubrey is a charming playboy and these girls love to chase him like a cat does a wiggly cat-toy. These women need to learn their spiritual lesson to stop chasing the cat-toy. Chasing the cat-toy is unconscious survival.

The only reason Aubrey is able to pull off this arrangement is because he offers these women a fun, luxurious lifestyle which they could not have with 98% of other men. Really the mistake these two women are making -- for which they are not getting nearly enough pushback -- is that they are addicted to dating upper-class, elite men -- and calling that spiritual. Yeah, such men will not settle for basic monogamy because they don't have to. The reason Vylana was never able to get monogamy the way she wanted is because she's trying to date elite guys who are out of her league. These "spiritual" women love the power and luxury that comes with a powerful man. They would not date a broke Jesus who would be monogamous with them. Dating a powerful and wealthy man allows the woman to not need to do serious grueling work. She can live a playful life, like a spiritual bunny. So a lot of this whole scenario also speaks to the corruption of upper-class lifestyle. Upper-class people are incapable of serious spirituality because they are too seduced by glamor and their social games. They love to talk about love, but that love is happening exclusively within a frame of upper-class luxury and leisure. If it wasn't, they wouldn't love it. It's the love of a beautiful life made possible by wealth, status, and power. The lesson here for men is that if you set up an awesome lifestyle, women will put up with a lot more of your BS.

And they are all dead.

@ZenSwift Glad it was useful.

The CEO of YouTube said they are integrating AI tools directly into YT, just like Shorts, so that AI slop can made with the click of a button right in the YT interface. He's the same CEO who came up with the idea of Shorts.

As I told you, stop doing this work to endure anything. This work is done for the beauty of knowing truth. You could be on this forum because you want insights to help you find more beautiful truth. Or you could be here just for fun but you are not BSing yourself that posting on a forum is spiritual work.

You don't buy tailored shirts. You buy normal shirts and go to tailor. Google Maps for tailor near you.

The amount of New Age content here is quite low. Don't overlook how bad New Age can get. Listen to some truly New Age women on Youtube to see how bad it gets. Demons, entities, astrology, numerology, Satan this, Satan that, 5D this, 4D that, frequencies, vibrations, past lives, aliens, conspiracies, etc. It will make you want to vomit.

That's life. It's you vs your mind.