Leo Gura

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  1. This is a mistake. You should not look for such signs from girls but rather approach and flirt regardless of what they do. Learn and practice proper pickup theory. Read some books about how to heal trauma. Here's Teal Swan's book: https://amzn.to/3ruWDYa
  2. Bad advice. Lacks nuance.
  3. When I tell folks I'm the only one understanding AWAKENING.
  4. From day one. But after about 2500 I got tired and stopped counting. You got a lot of negative, limiting beliefs about women which will make it impossible for you to have a health relationship with them. Sadly you are only shooting yourself in the foot here. Setting boundaries with women is a given thing you will do. There is no need to posture or flex about it, or turn it into anything political. You are politicizing women. The vast majority of women are simply apolitical and don't care about politics at all. I can count on one hand the number of times of those 5000 women where we talked or disagreed about politics. One of your biggest mistakes in all this is that you fundamentally don't respect women.
  5. You're not gonna reach GOD without a panic attack. What do you think this is, kindergarten? We are talking about life, death, and insanity here, and beyond.
  6. Welcome to life in the hard lane. How do you deal with it? You suffer and use the suffering to fuel the rest of your development. You learn to accept yourself as you ARE, not some fantasy of what you should be. You learn to be more gentle with yourself. You learn to fully own your uniqueness and not to let anyone to gaslight you or impose their ideas on you, because they don't know what burdens you must live with. You learn to manage your time better than others do. You focus on your blessings, gifts, and strengths. You focus on the Beauty of Consciousness.
  7. You should not try to map it that way. Masculinity/femininity is a type and types can exists across all stages. Yes, Green feels unusually feminine and Red feels unusually masculine but that's about where that correlation ends.
  8. The #1 reason for all marriage problems is money. So, no, it's not "only money". Money is a huge thing. She is being financially immature and irresponsible. You are being mature and responsible. Your position is perfectly reasonable. You should try to communicate with her more about the importance that money plays in long-term relationships, explain your values to her, and set some clear boundaries with her on this issue. Keep trying to help her understand how to manage her money better and meet your values and not cross your boundaries. If after some months or a year of that she is still unable to then you should break up with her because it's not going work out long-term. Communicate to her early that you will try to work with her on this issue and be patient with her, but ultimately if she is lazy and refuses to improve, then you will have to break up out of incompatibility, which is not something you want but will be forced to do because you must stay true to your values and maintain integrity. You can try to train her on how to be better about managing her money.
  9. That's just not true. You're living in a fantasy. I doubt you've even been deeply intimate with one woman. So you're just speculating. I promise you that your view of women is false, badly distorted by your biases and social media consumption. I've talked to over 5000 women, so I am not speculating. I have very wide experience with women and I know how they operate very well.
  10. That's called DID -- dissociative identity disorder. That's usually caused by severe early childhood trauma which requires a lot of investigative theraputic work because your mind is likely repressing the trauma. That's what therapy is all about: uncovering repressed trauma. Check out Teal Swan's work. She has books and videos on these issues. I don't cover this topic much. Read Teal Swan's book on trauma healing: https://amzn.to/3ruWDYa
  11. Fundamentally, healing trauma requires revisiting the traumatic experiences and consciously reliving them and gaining comprehension over them until they stop bothering you. Therapy does that. Psychedelics are super powerful for that. Teal Swan has a lot of content about healing trauma. That's sorta her wheelhouse. You can even find workshops and such for trauma healing.
  12. @Rishabh R Holotropic Breathing is powerful. Look into workshops near you.
  13. My top advice to you is to follow this passion very deeply and seriously, and see where it leads you. Also I suggest that you may be too impatient. For someone your age you're making an extreme good salary so you should not be too eager to jump around for more. Work on solidifying your present gains before you go biting off more. If you just got a new job you should not be thinking about your next job so early. Focus on doing your current job well and see how it feels.
  14. Use the parts that work and drop the rest. Distinguish signal from noise.
  15. "There is no good or bad guys, but Muslims and Mexicans are dirty and bad." -- Cucker Tarlson.
  16. "It's easier to fool a man than to convince him he has been fooled."
  17. Yes, you defintely need to start surviving on your own. The way to do that is to develop marketable skills and get a job.
  18. Good. Keep doing that and trust the process. Now we're talkin! That's the REAL issue here. You should have just started the thread with that. You need to heal your trauma. That's the real solution.
  19. That's an extremely dysfunctional and toxic attitude towards relationships. One of the most important rules of healthy relationships is that you do everything you can to avoid threatening leaving the relationship. As soon as you threaten leaving, that's it, your relationship has already failed, even if you never leave. Just the threat of it is very damaging and basically irreversible because your partner can never trust you again. Think of it this way: If you had an 8 year old daughter and she failed to clean the toilet on time, would you ever tell her that you're leaving and replacing her? That would be insanely abusive. This would give your daughter mental illness. You would never do that to someone you love. Which is why Tate's advice is hot garbage. Please stop listening to him and buy an actual book on relationship advice. Not this Red Pill trash.
  20. You fear psychedelics for the same reason you fear a bear: it will rip your face off.
  21. You are fundamentally misunderstanding this. Equal partnership is exactly what you want and that has no bearing on masculine/feminine polarity. You don't need to boss around a woman or be above her in order for her to love you and in order for there to be great sexual chemistry. You need to let go of this bad idea that you should boss women around. That's not a desirable thing even of the women would tolerate it, which of course she won't. A real man does not need a cup of coffee from his woman on command. That's so petty and shallow. She's not your fucking maid.